Abantu abaninzi bakhathazwa yimvakalelo yokulahlwa. Le mvakalelo yokulahlwa ilawula ubomi babo, apho basoloko beziva bengafunwa yaye bengamkelwa ngabantu. Abanye abakhuselekanga yaye basoloko beziva bephantsi kunabanye. Baziva ngathi abalunganga ngokwaneleyo. Nje ngeziphumo, baye bangenzi nto baze babe ngamakheswa, ukuziva njengongaphumeleli, kwaye bezilahlile ngokwabo. Abanye bachasene ngokuthe ngqo kwaye bathanda ukugqibelela. Ngalo lonke ixesha kufuneka bazibonakalise ukuze bazive bemkelwe ngabanye. Kuzo zombini ezi meko, ubomi bulawulwa yimvakalelo yokulahlwa kwaye kunokukhokelela kwiimeko ezinobungozi ebomini bomntu, usapho, kunye/okanye noluntu. Ngoko, ujongana njani nemvakalelo yokulahlwa?
Inokuba yingozi kangakanani imvakalelo yokulahlwa?
Imvakalelo yokulahlwa asiyomvakalelo yokungabi natyala kodwa yimvakalelo eyingozi enokuba nemiphumo eyintlekele. Ukuba imvakalelo yokungafunwa ilawula ubomi bomntu inokukhokelela kudandatheko nokufa (ukuzibulala nokubulala).
Thatha umzekelo ukudubula kwezikolo. Mamaxesha amaninzi, isizathu sokudutyulwa kukuba umdubuli waziva engafunwa kwaye enomsindo. Umdubuli waba lixhoba lemvakalelo yokungafunwa kwaye waba nomsindo kangangokuba waguquka waba yintiyo kwabanye, isikolo, abafundi besikolo, kunye noluntu
Abadubuli batyhola abanye ngokuziva bengamkelekanga. Bahlala ngokuzolileyo benentiyo enkulu kubo kangangokuba yaphumela ekubulaweni kwabantu abamsulwa.
Imvakalelo yokulahlwa yadalwa engqondweni yomntu ngeemeko, iimeko, iziganeko, kunye/okanye amazwi abantu. Njengoko le mvakalelo yayisondliwa yaba qatha kangangokuba yaphumela kwintshabalalo.
Umenzi wobubi, owaziva engafunwa, yayingelilo kuphela ixhoba lale mvakalelo yokungafunwa kwakhona. Kodwa abantwana nabantu abadala abamsulwa nabo baba ngamaxhoba ale mvakalelo yokulahlwa eyayilawula ubomi bomntu.
Lo mzekelo ubonisa, indlela imvakalelo yokulahlwa enokwenzakalisa ngayo uluntu.
Abantu abaninzi baziva bengafunwa yaye bezenzakalisa
Imvakalelo yokulahlwa inokuba yimvakalelo eyingozi kuwe. Ekubeni imvakalelo yokulahlwa inokukhokelela ekubeni uzisizele, ukuzithiya, ukuzimela, kunye nokudakumba okukhulu okunokukhokelela ekubeni likhoboka leziyobisi, ukukhotyokiswa butywala, ianorexia, i-bulimia, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha nokuzibulala.
Endaweni yokubulala omnye umntu, bayazibulala. Kodwa siyazi, ukuba asikokuthanda kukaThixo ukuzibulala okanye ukubulala abanye abantu. Wathi uThixo uze ungabulali.
Imvakalelo yokulahlwa ivula umnyango wezinye iimvakalelo eziyingozi
Amaxesha amaninzi imvakalelo yokulahlwa ikhatshwa zezinye iimvakalelo. Umzekelo ukuziva uphantsi, Imfesane, ukuzithiya, umsindo, umona, usizi, uxinzelelo, njl.
Ukuba awufumani eyakho uxolo kuYesu Kristu kwaye musa ukuhamba emva koMoya kwaye uthathe igunya phezu kweemvakalelo zakho kodwa hamba emva kwenyama kwaye uvumele iimeko kunye neemvakalelo zakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho zilawule ubomi bakho., uya kuba lixhoba lazo zonke ezi mvakalelo. Ziya kukulawula zibutshabalalise ubomi bakho.
Mhlawumbi ukwindawo ngoku, apho imvakalelo yokulahlwa nazo zonke ezi mvakalelo zikulawulayo. Uziva ulahlekile, engathandwa nangubani na, kwaye awusayiboni indlela yokuphuma kwakhona.
Mhlawumbi uyacinga, ukuba kuphela kwendlela yokubaleka ezi mvakalelo, kukuphuma ebomini. Kodwa UNGAYENZA LONTO! Kukho indlela yokuphuma.
UThixo ubonisa indlela xa ungasayiboni indlela yokuphuma kwakhona. Kaloku uThixo usoloko enendlela yokuphuma.
Indlela yokulahla imvakalelo yokulahlwa?
Inye indlela yokususa imvakalelo yokulahlwa kwaye leyo yindlela kaThixo ngoNyana wakhe uYesu Krestu. Omnye kuphela, Ngubani onokukusindisa kwaye akukhulule kwimvakalelo yokulahlwa kunye nazo zonke ezinye iimvakalelo, nguYesu Krestu!
NguYesu kuphela uMsindisi, ayikho enye. Hayi ugqirha, ugqirha wengqondo, isazi ngengqondo, ingcali yonyango, okanye … inokukunceda. NguYesu Kristu kuphela onokukunceda!
Ithini iBhayibhile ngokulahlwa?
Makhe sihlolisise oko kuthethwa yiBhayibhile ngokuchaswa. Kukho amabali amaninzi malunga nokulahlwa, kodwa makhe sibuyele emva ekuqaleni kweZibhalo Ezingcwele. Makhe siye kwindawo apho yaqala khona yonke into. Indawo apho ukwaliwa kwenzeke okokuqala. Oko kungaphakathi Umyezo wase-Eden.
UThixo wahamba noAdam, Wayenobudlelwane naye. Babenxibelelene ngokomoya; UAdam wayenguNyana kaThixo. UThixo wayemthanda uAdam waza wamnika inkululeko yokuzikhethela.
Ngenxa yenyani, ukuba uThixo wayemthanda kakhulu, Wamnika imiyalelo (Imiyalelo). Omnye wemithetho awayinikelayo, yayikukuba uAdam wayenokutya kuyo yonke imithi yomyezo, ngaphandle komthi omnye; umthi wokwazi okulungileyo nokubi. UThixo wayesazi, kwakuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba uAdam wadla kuloo mthi. Ngoko ke Wanikela umyalelo wokukhusela unyana Wakhe.
Xa uthanda umntu, awufuni ukuba loo mntu enzekaliswa okanye kwenzeke into embi kuloo mntu. UThixo wenza kwa into enye. Wayengafuni ukuba kwenzeke into embi kunyana wakhe. UThixo wayefuna uAdam akholose ngoYise aze amthande ngokupheleleyo uYise. UThixo akazange amnyanzele uAdam ukuba amthande okanye amthembe. Hayi, UAdam wayenenkululeko yokuzikhethela.
UAdam wamgatya uYise
Yonke into yahamba kakuhle, de… UAdam akazange amthobele uYise waza wona. Hakazange awugcine umthetho kaThixo. Waluthandabuza uthando lukaYise waza wamkholelwa umfazi wakhe nomntu angamaziyo (inyoka) endaweni yoko.
UThixo wamalela ukuba angatyi kuloo mthi kuba wayeyazi into eyayiza kwenzeka xa ethe watya kuwo.
Kodwa uAdam waluthandabuza uthando lukaThixo, wawathandabuza amazwi aKhe (Imiyalelo). Ngesenzo sakhe, UAdam wabonisa uThixo ukuba akamthembi ngokupheleleyo.
Ingaba ucinga ntoni, indlela awayevakalelwa ngayo uThixo ngelo xesha?
Angaziva njani utata, xa umntwana wakhe engavumi ukumphulaphula, wagwilika kuye, wamvukela? Ebeya kuziva njani, xa esithi umntwana wakhe: “Andisayi kuphinda ndikumamele! Ndizakumamela kuphela into ethethwa ngutata kaJoe kuba uthetha inyani!” Utata ebeya kuvakalelwa njani xa umntwana wakhe, inyama yakhe iyamkhanyela njengoyise, imenze ixoki;? Angaziva njani utata, xa umntwana emkhanyela okanye sinokuthi uyamala?
Ndicinga ukuba utata angakhathazeka azive engafunwa ngumntwana wakhe.
UThixo walahlwa yindalo yakhe
Umntu wokuqala, owamgatyayo uThixo nguAdam (kunye noEva). Wamamela umfazi wakhe (indalo) nengcebiso yowasemzini, kunokuba aphulaphule uYise. Ngenxa yesenzo sakhe, lo wasemzini waba nguyise omtsha. UAdam wamgatya uThixo ngokungamthobeli, ngoko ke wona kuThixo.
UAdam wamgatya uThixo ngokungawugcini umthetho Wakhe. Ngenxa yokungathobeli kwakhe, waziva engafunwa nguThixo. Waziva eneentloni,
uKayin noAble
Umntu olandelayo, owamchasayo uThixo nguKayin. UKayin wayigatya imiyalelo kaThixo. Wayebingelele ngeziqhamo zomhlaba. Ukubingelela ngesiqhamo yinto uKayin awayefuna ukuyenza, endaweni yoko uThixo wayefuna. UKayin wayengamazi uThixo kwaye engayazi intando yakhe kwaye akazange aphile ubomi obulungileyo. Ngoko ke UThixo akazange awuhlonele umnikelo kaKayin. Kodwa uThixo wawujonga umnikelo ka-Abheli. Kuba uAbheli wayemazi uYehova waza wambonisa, ukuba wayeMthanda, ngokumthobela.
UAbheli wayigcina imiyalelo kaThixo waza waphila ngobulungisa. UKayin akazange ayithobele imiyalelo yakhe kwaye akazange aphile ngokwentando yakhe, ngenxa yoko wamgatya uThixo waza uThixo wamlahla uKayin.
Xa sijonga ubomi bukaEsawu, sifunda nokuba wamgatya uThixo, ngenxa yenkanuko yenyama; ukutya (Hebhere 12:17).
Unikwe inkululeko yokuzikhethela ukwenza izigqibo
Wonke umntu unikwe inkululeko yokuzikhethela ukwenza ukhetho ebomini. Unokukhetha ukuthanda uThixo nokumthobela, okanye hayi.
Xa ukhetha ubomi ngaphandle koThixo, baze baMale Yena neLizwi laKhe, ngokungamphulaphuli nangokungaligcini ilizwi nemiyalelo Yakhe, uya kukhetha ngokuzenzekelayo omnye uyise; umtyholi. UMtyholi uya kulawula enyameni yenu, kwaye ekugqibeleni uya kutshabalalisa ubomi bakho. Uya kukhokelwa ziingcinga ezimbi, iimvakalelo, kunye neemvakalelo, evela kuyihlo kunye nobumnyama.
“Ngenxa yenyani, ukuba umcekisile uThixo, uya kuziva ulahliwe”
Awunakubeka ityala uThixo ngaloo mvakalelo yokulahlwa, kuba sisiphumo sokhetho lwakho. Uthathe isigqibo sokuthobela umtyholi ngokuphila esonweni nobugwenxa, endaweni yokuthobela amazwi kaThixo nokugcina imiyalelo Yakhe.
Kodwa ungakhathazeki, ngokuba uThixo ukho ngamaxesha onke, ukukunika ithuba lesibini.
Ukuthanda kakhulu, ukuba usoloko ekuvumela ukuba ubuyele kuye. Inye kuphela into omawuyenze kukuguquka ubuyele kuYesu.
Xa u guqukani, yamkela uYesu njengoMsindisi wakho, kwaye umenze nkosi ebomini bakho, naxa uligcina ilizwi lakhe nemithetho yakhe, ngoko iimvakalelo zakho zokulahlwa ziya kuphela.
Uya kwandula uhambe ngomanyano, kunye noYihlo oyinyaniso, ngubani okuthandayo nokwamkelayo, njengokuba unjalo.
Ngamandla kaYesu Krestu negazi lakhe, zonke iimvakalelo zokungafunwa, ukuzithiya, Imfesane, uxinzelelo, njl. iya kunyamalala.
Ungathetha noogqirha bengqondo kunye neengcali zengqondo yonke into oyifunayo, kwaye enze zonke iintlobo zonyango. Kodwa abanako ukuzisusa ezi mvakalelo baze bakuphilise. Kungenxa yokuba unobangela wale ngxaki awukho kummandla wendalo kodwa ukwindawo yomoya.
NguYesu Kristu kuphela, ingasusa ezi mvakalelo kwaye ikuphilise.
UYesu walahlwa
UYesu walahlwa ngabantu bakhe. Kodwa ngaba Wazisizela waza Wenza ekoneni? Ngaba Wazivalela, ukuziva udandathekile? Okanye ngaba wahlasela abantu ababemngqongile ngemela okanye ikrele? Hayi! Kwaye kwakutheni ukuze Angayenzanga loo nto? Kaloku uThixo wayengamgatyanga. UYesu wenza Intando kaYise wahamba ngemithetho yaKhe.
Nayiphi na intshutshiso Adlule kuyo, Akazange akamthobela uYise. Ngokuba Wathobela Utata wakhe, nangokuba wayehleli emanyene naye, Akazange azive engamkelekanga. Ngaphandle ko, xa Walahlwayo ngabantu, kubandakanya abafundi bakhe, kwaye wayenalo lonke ilungelo lokuziva waliwe.
Kwakukho umzuzu omnye kuphela, ukuba uYesu waziva engafunwa, kwaye elo yayilixesha awathi wathwala ngalo izono zethu emnqamlezweni.
Ngalo mzuzu, UYesu wohlulwa kuThixo ngenxa yesono kwaye uThixo kwafuneka amlahle uNyana wakhe kuba uThixo wayengenako (kwaye usenako) Yabelana nawe ngesono.
Xa oko kwenzeka, wafikelwa yimvakalelo yokulahlwa kuYesu, kwaye Yena wasithwalela ezi mvakalelo zokungafunwa.
Ndicinga ukuba lo yayilelona xesha libi kuYesu’ ubomi xa uYesu wahlulwa kuYise. Kodwa nangelo xesha lokwaliwa, UYesu wayemthembile uYise.
UYesu wazinikela ngokupheleleyo kuYise. Ngoko ke uYesu waqubuda ngenxa yemvakalelo yokulahlwa nokulahlwa walawula phezu koYesu. Kwakutheni ukuze uYesu enze loo nto? NoYesu ngewayephume emnqamlezweni kuba uYesu wayenamandla okwenjenjalo.
UYesu wayemthanda uYise
Kodwa uYesu wayemthanda uYise kakhulu, kwaye wayeyazi indlela uThixo abathanda ngayo abantu kwaye usabathanda ngayo abantu. UYesu wayeyazi indlela ababexabiseke ngayo kuYise. Ngenxa yothando lwakhe olukhulu kuYise, UYesu wazingisa wabonisa uthando lwakhe olukhulu.
UYesu ukwenzele konke oku! Ukuze ungaphindi udlule kuyo. UYesu waqubuda kuzo zonke iimvakalelo ezivela kumtyholi (ukuzithiya, ukuzimela, ukuzincama… uyayibiza ngegama). UYesu waqubuda kuzo zonke iimvakalelo zamandla obumnyama waza wawathwala ukuze ukhululwe kwezi mvakalelo.
Indlela yokujongana nemvakalelo yokulahlwa?
Xa uguquka ebomini bakho njengomoni kwaye wamkele uYesu Krestu njengoMsindisi neNkosi yakho, ibe uzelwe ngokutsha kwaye uzithobe kuYe, ke ezi mvakalelo zokungafunwa ziya kunyamalala.
Awunyanzelekanga ukuba wenze njalo buyela ebuntwaneni bakho, Ukufikisa, okanye nawuphi na umzuzu, ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni ebangele le mvakalelo yokulahlwa kwaye xa imvakalelo yokulahlwa yangena ebomini bakho. Awudingi ukuya phantsi kwe-hypnosis ukukhangela unobangela. Kuba siyazi ukuba yintoni unobangela: ukwahlukana noThixo.
Indawo kuphela ekufuneka uye kuyo ngumnqamlezo. Umnqamlezo yindawo apho uxolelwaniso lwenzeka khona, phakathi kwakho noThixo ngegazi likaYesu. UYesu wakuthwala ukwaliwa ukuze ungabi sakuthwala kwakhona. Wakuxolelanisa noYihlo wenene.
Ngaba ungumKristu kwaye ujijisana nezi mvakalelo zokungafunwa, okanye nayiphi na enye imvakalelo engathandekiyo ke ndingathanda ukukukhuthaza ukuba uqalise ukufunda iLizwi likaThixo. Ngokufunda iLizwi likaThixo, uya kumazi yaye uya kuqonda ukuba yintoni na ekholisa uThixo nengamkholisiyo uThixo. Uya kufumanisa, indlela Acinga navakalelwa ngayo ngawe, nokuba wamkelekile kuye.
Xa uphila eLizwini, ke akunamsebenzi, into abantu abayicingayo nabayithethayo ngawe, okanye indlela abakuphatha ngayo. Kuba uyazi, indlela uThixo avakalelwa ngayo ngawe, nokuba ninyulwe nguye. Xa uyazi le nyaniso, uya kuba ungachukunyiswa.
Ukuxolelana noThixo kuyayiphelisa imvakalelo yokulahlwa
Xa uxolelaniswa noThixo, ngoYesu Kristu, yandule ke imvakalelo yokulahlwa iphele. Kuba umanyene noYihlo wokwenene, Ngubani okuthandayo nakufunayo.
Xa uxolelaniswa noYihlo, lixesha lokuba hlaziya ingqondo yakho ngeLizwi lakhe aze aguqulwe abe ngumfanekiso woNyana wakhe uYesu, kuba ufuna bonke abantwana Bakhe bahambe baze bafane Naye.
Okoko nje uhlala eLizwini; Hlala kuye, kwaye uyigcine imiyalelo yakhe, uya kuhlala umanyene naye, kwaye uya kuba ngongenakuchukunyiswa
Ivela phi imvakalelo yokulahlwa?
‘Yibani yityuwa yehlabathi’
