AmaKristu amaninzi afuna ukuziguqula ibe endaweni yokulandela indlela kaThixo alandela indlela yehlabathi, ngokulandela iimfundiso zenyama kunye nokusebenzisa iindlela zenyama. Babuyela kwixesha elidlulileyo ukuze bazihlolisise baze bafumane iimpendulo eziya kubanceda batshintshe. Bemba kwixesha elidlulileyo kwaye ngelixa bemba, bachanabeke kuzo zonke iintlobo zezinto eziya kuchaphazela ubomi babo kunye nokuziphatha kwabo. Bayagrumba baze bagrumbe kwaye endaweni yokuya kwindawo ethile, bayaxinga baze bawele emngxunyeni wexesha labo elidlulileyo. Mhlawumbi nawe ufuna ukuzitshintsha kwaye ugrumba kwixesha lakho elidlulileyo ukuze uzihlalutye, kodwa ukuba awuyeki uya kuxinga kwaye uwele emngxunyeni wexesha lakho elidlulileyo kwaye ungaze ube ngumntu uThixo akudalele ukuba ubenguye.. Awunako ukuziguqula ngokulandela iimfundiso zenyama zomntu kunye nokusebenzisa iindlela zehlabathi kunye nobuchule. NguYesu Krestu kuphela, Ngubani onokukutshintsha. Inye kuphela into ekufuneka uyenzile kukuzithoba kuYesu, Mamela, hlaziya ingqondo yakho ngamazwi akhe, ndihlale kuye.
What is the danger of analyzing yourself?
ndiya kubulela kuwe; Kuba ndenziwe ngokoyikekayo nangokumangalisayo: zibalulekile izenzo zakho; and that my soul knows right well(Iindumiso 139:14)
There is a great danger in analyzing yourself. When you start analyzing yourself, it will become an obsession. You will look at everything you do, and analyze every situation, isenzo, habit, ukuziphatha, thought, njl. You will even go back to your past, to your childhood, to figure out what has gone wrong and why you act a certain way, or why you are so insecure or unhappy, njl.
Stuck in the past
Whoso digs a pit shall fall therein (IMizekeliso 26:27)
When you go back to your past and dig in your past to find out your ‘problem’, you will only become more miserable, kwaye ekugqibeleni, you will get stuck in the past. Therefore don’t dig into your past, because the hole will only get bigger and eventually you will fall into the hole of your past.
Maybe you have become a born again believer at a later age. Let’s say in your 20’s, 30’s, or maybe in your 50’s. Maybe you have had a rough past. Maybe you’ve been physically or emotionally abused during your childhood or marriage or bullied at school. Or maybe you’ve been mistreated and hurt by other people or experienced another traumatic experience.
Phofu, there could be so many things, that happened in the past, which have hurt you and changed the way you think or feel about yourself or others.
Maybe you have very low self-esteem or experienceuloyiko, ixhala, ukuhlaselwa luvalo, ukungabi nangxaki, Umsindo ongalawulekiyo, destructive habits, iziyobisi, (ngokweemvakalelo) pain or depression, and suicidal thoughts.
If you are one of those people, who are struggling with these issues, I would like to advise you toSTOP ANALYSING YOURSELF!
Musa ukubuyela kwixesha lakho elidlulileyo kwaye uwe emngxunyeni wexesha lakho elidlulileyo
Yenza hayi buyela emva kwakho, to your childhood, ukuqonda, kutheni wenza ngolo hlobo, kutheni unomsindo okanye uzijongele phantsi, okanye kutheni unoloyiko, amaxhala, destructive habits, iziyobisi, njl. Kufuneka wenze ntoni, ihlaziya ingqondo yakho ngeLizwi likaThixo.
Musa ukuzijonga, kodwa khangela kuYesu, ilizwi. Kukho ubomi eLizwini likaThixo kwaye obu bomi kufuneka buthululelwe kuwe.
Ngomzuzu owamkela uYesu njengoMsindisi neNkosi yakho kwaye uzalwe ngokutsha, uba indalo entsha; Ukuzalwa kwamanzi noMoya.
Ke ngoko, ukuba ubani uthe wakuKrestu,, Usisidalwa esitsha: izinto ezindala zidlulisiwe; khangela, Zonke izinto zintsha (2 KwabaseKorinte 5:17)
Xa uzalwa ngokutsha, usenayo ingqondo yenyama yehlabathi.
Ke ngoko kubalulekile ukuqalisa ukufunda kunye nokufunda iLizwi likaThixo kwaye uzondle ngeLizwi likaThixo endaweni yamazwi ehlabathi..
Hlaziya ingqondo yakho ngeLizwi likaThixo. Camngca ngeLizwi, imini nobusuku. Lo nto, uya kucinga, thetha, Yenza kwaye uziphathe ngendlela uThixo afuna ucinge ngayo, thetha, isenzo, kwaye uziphathe.
UYesu nguMthombo wakho
UYesu nguMthombo wakho. NguYesu kuphela Kwie, Ngubani onokukutshintsha. Uya kuqaphela, ukuba njengokuba ukhula emoyeni, by studying and meditating on the Word, applying the Word in your life, Ukuthandaza (in the Holy Ghost), njl., that He will change you. He will take away your sorrow, Intlungu, umsindo, ubukrakra, uloyiko, amaxhala, ukuhlaselwa luvalo, and depression and He will put His love, uxolo, and joy inside of you.
Ukuba awuyazi, how to do this, then find yourself a sincere born again believer, who is willing and able to disciple you. So that you grow up into the image of Jesus Christ; ilizwi (Funda kwakhona: Kuthetha ukuthini ukuzalwa ngokutsha?).
Usenokuzibuza: “How do I know if a Christian is sincere, or how do I know if he/she is able to disciple me?”. Impendulo ilula kakhulu: Look at their walk and look at the fruit the person produces. If the person is carnal and lives like the world and produces the fruit of the flesh, then this person won’t be the right person to disciple you. But if the person walks after the Spirit, producing the fruit of the Spirit, ke lo mntu uzakuba ngumntu okulungeleyo.
Musa ukujonga ngasemva!
UThixo wayalela umfazi kaLote, ukungajongi ngasemva. Nangona kunjalo, UmkaLote wayengenakuwugcina lo mthetho kaThixo. Ngenxa yenyani, ukuba akazange awugcine umthetho kaThixo, waguquka waba yintsika yetyuwa (IGenesis 19:17-26).
Iicawa ezininzi ziye zavumela umoya wehlabathi ukuba ungene zize zithembele kubulumko, iimfundiso, kunye neendlela zehlabathi endaweni yokuxhomekeka kuThixo nakwiLizwi laKhe. Bacebisa amakholwa kwaye bemba kwizinto zabo zangaphambili, ngoxa kungekho myalelo eBhayibhileni wokwenza oko.
Akukho ndawo kwiincwadi zevangeli ezine eziseBhayibhileni apho uYesu wayalela abafundi bakhe ukuba babuyele kwixesha elidlulileyo baze bafumane oko, apho yonke into ihambe kakubi kwaye ukhangele unobangela kunye nengcambu yengxaki.
Ngabantu kuphela, abemba kwixesha elidlulileyo lomntu ziingcali zengqondo kunye neengcali zengqondo. Kwaye izazi ngengqondo azinayo iBhayibhile njengeGunya labo eliphakamileyo. Iimfundiso zabo zisekelwe kwiintanda-bulumko zabantu. Ewe, iingcambu zabo zikwintanda-bulumko yamaGrike kwaye sonke siyazi ukuba ithini iBhayibhile ngale nto noko uPawulos wayibhalayo ngayo (Funda kwakhona: Ngaba ipsychology yobuKristu ikhona? kwaye ‘Itrone kaSathana‘).
Kutheni icawa ivumele isayensi yezengqondo?
Kutheni iicawa ziye zavumela isayensi yezengqondo kwaye zisebenzise ezi mfundiso zengqondo kunye neendlela, eziziimfundiso nje ezibubudenge zomntu, esekelwe kubulumko benyama?
Siyintoni isizathu, kutheni amakholwa amaninzi axhomekeke kwiindlela zenyama, nobulumko benyama, nolwazi lweli hlabathi, endaweni yokuthembela kuThixo, ILizwi lakhe, nobulumko baKhe?
Angatsho njani amakholwa ukuba ayakholwa kwaye anokholo kuYesu uMthetheleli noMphilisi?, okwangoku, baya kwiingcali zengqondo kunye / okanye oogqirha bengqondo ukuze bathuthuzele kwaye baphilise imiphefumlo yabo?
1 ngaphandle kwe 4 abantu batyelela ingcali yonyango kwaye amanani ayanda kuphela. Kwaye abantu ababi ngcono.
ILizwi liyayithetha loo nto: Ubulumko basemhlabeni bubudenge kuThixo (1 KwabaseKorinte 3:19).
Wenza ntoni uYesu?
UYesu soze wabuyela emva ebuntwaneni bukaPetros okanye kuYohane okanye omnye wabafundi Bakhe. Ekuphela ‘kwembambano’ uYesu awayebhekisela kuyo okanye awacaphuka ngayo yayikukubaUkuswela kwabo ukholo; ukungakholwa kwabo.
UYesu wabafundi bakhe waza wafundisa abafundi bakhe imigaqo yoBukumkani.
UYesu wayesazi ukuba kungakanani na UThixo Uthanda Abantu Hayi indlela ezixabiseke ngayo kuye (UYohane 3:16). Wayesazi ukuba uThixo wamdala umntu, wazenza ngokubalulekileyo, ngokoyikeka, emfanekisweni waKhe.
Xa uThixo wadala umntu, UThixo akazange atsho: ”oops, ayisiyiyo indlela leyo, Ndandifuna ukudala indoda, masiyenze kwakhona”.
Hayi! UThixo waba ne umfanekiso engqondweni Yakhe kwaye wayithetha ukuba ibekho.
Ngaphambi kokuba uzalwe, wawusele usengqondweni kaThixo. Uyathandwa, ekhethiweyo, kwaye ifunwa Nguye.
UThixo ufuna wena, indlela oyiyo, ukuze akubumbe akuguqule ube ngumfanekiso wakhe; umfanekiso woNyana waKhe.
Uzakwenza njani uThixo oko? Impendulo ithi, ngokuhlaziywa kwengqondo yakho ngeLizwi likaThixo.
Awukwazi ukutshintsha ixesha lakho elidlulileyo, imkile. Nangona kunjalo, ungabutshintsha ubomi bakho ngoku. Ungatshintsha indlela oya kuyo kwaye utshintshe ikamva lakho.
‘Yiba yityuwa yomhlaba’
