Siphila kwihlabathi, apho abantu bahlala bexakekile. Uninzi lwabantu alunalo uxolo, kodwa bahlala bengxamile. Nje ngeziphumo, bacaphuka msinya, edgy, kunye nokunyamezelana. Abantu abaninzi, kuquka namaKristu, musa ukufumana uxolo lwangaphakathi ebomini babo kwaye abanalo uxolo lwengqondo. Basebenza nzima, bathathe kakhulu kwiipleyiti zabo, kwaye ziqhutywa kukusebenza, impumelelo, kunye nobutyebi. Abalawuli ubomi, kodwa ubomi buyabalawula. Mhlawumbi nawe unobomi obuxakekileyo kwaye uyazibuza ukuba ungalufumana njani uxolo lwengqondo. Kufuneka wenze ntoni ukuze ufumane uxolo? Ithini iBhayibhile ngoxolo lwengqondo?
Ngaba ufuna uxolo lwengqondo?
Abantu abaninzi baphila ubomi obuxakekileyo yaye baginywa zizinto zabo zemihla ngemihla. Basebenza nzima, amaxesha amaninzi kunzima kakhulu, kwaye ziqhutywa yimpumelelo kunye nobutyebi. Uninzi lwabo luneentsapho ezikwabandakanya iinkxalabo neengxaki. Abanye baneengxaki zomtshato, iingxaki nabantwana babo, iingxaki zemali, amaxhala, amaxhala, uloyiko, ukugula, iziyobisi, njl.
Zonke ezi zinto zinokubangela ukuba abantu babe ngamaxhoba obomi babo bemihla ngemihla. Banokulawulwa ngokupheleleyo ziimeko kunye neengxaki kwaye bangene kwimeko enokuba yingozi kakhulu.
Endaweni yokufumana uxolo nokuba noxolo lwengqondo, bacinezelekile, udinwe kakhulu, andikwazi kulala, kwaye udandatheke kwaye udinwe. Konke kungenxa yokuba ingqondo yabo ithinjwe ziimeko zabo, iingxaki, nezinto zobomi.
Abantu bafuna uxolo kwiindawo ezingafanelekanga
Bakhangela into eza kubenza babe noxolo lwengqondo. Nangona kunjalo, amaxesha amaninzi bajonga kwiindawo ezingalunganga. Endaweni yokuya kuYesu Kristu nokulandela iLizwi, baya ehlabathini ukuze bafumane uncedo baze basebenzise iindlela zehlabathi neentanda-bulumko zabantu, ezibathembisa uxolo zize zibancede bahlukane neengxaki zabo, uxinzelelo, amaxhala, uloyiko, amaxhala, njl..
Kwaye uninzi lwamaKristu lubandakanyeka kwiyoga, ukucamngca, ukuqonda, Reiki, i-acupuncture, i-menessendieck, ulungiso lwenyama okanye uye kwisayikholojisti.
Ezi mfundiso zomntu kunye neendlela zabo zenyama, bathembise uxolo.
Kodwa endaweni yokufumana uxolo, zidla ngokubangela iingxaki ezingakumbi kwaye abantu baphazamiseke ngakumbi, ukungaphumli, ndidiniwe, ukunganyamezeli, kwaye ube nomsindo ongalawulekiyo.
Kuba iindawo ezininzi ezikuthembisa uxolo zihlala ziindawo eziphuma kubukumkani bobumnyama kwaye zineengcambu kubugqi..
Zakhelwe phezu kobulumko benyama babantu, apho amaxesha amaninzi, bafumene ngokucamngca kunye nokuhambisa imimoya engendawo.
Ezi ndawo, apho obu bulumko busetyenziswa kwaye busetyenziswa, ziphuma kubukumkani bobumnyama kwaye ziyimimandla kaMtyholi. Iimfundiso neentanda-bulumko zabo aziveli kuThixo nakwiLizwi Lakhe (Ibhayibhile), kodwa evela kumtyholi kwaye diametrically ngokuchasene iBhayibhile.
Xa usiya kwezi ndawo ungene kwindawo kasathana, awuyi kufumana ukuphumla, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo. Xa ungena kummandla kasathana, unithimbile, anitshabalalise. Kuba umsebenzi kasathana kukutshabalalisa abantu.
AmaKristu amaninzi angena kulawulo lomtyholi
Xa usathana ekunika into, usoloko efuna okuthile ngembuyekezo. Usathana akakuniki nto simahla. Nomtyholi akakuniki, oko akuthembisayo. Kaloku umtyholi lixoki nesela.
Ukubuyisela oko kubizwa ngokuba luxolo, phumla, okanye isisombululo sengxaki yakho(s), uyabulawula ubomi bakho. UMtyholi uyenza le nto engacelwanga. Uyithatha nje kwaye wenza ngokusekelwe ekungazini kwakho. Okukhona ungenalwazi, kokukhona ethatha.
Mhlawumbi akuyi kuba namava ngoko nangoko, ukuba umtyholi uthabathele phezu kobomi bakho. Kodwa ngexesha elifanelekileyo, uya kubona, ukuba kukho into etshintshileyo.
Umzekelo womntu, ofuna uxolo lwengqondo
Makhe sijonge umzekelo womntu, ofumana uxinzelelo ebomini. Masithi, lo mntu ungumKristu, indoda, otshatileyo unabantwana ababini. Ufumene isidanga se-master kwaye unomsebenzi omhle kakhulu onomvuzo olungileyo. Nangona kunjalo, uxinzelelo lomsebenzi luphezulu kakhulu.
Le ndoda isebenza phantse 12-14 iiyure ngosuku. Kodwa naxa egoduka umsebenzi wakhe usahleli engqondweni yakhe. Ingqondo yakhe izele kwaye yonganyelwe luxinzelelo lomsebenzi, iingxaki ezinxulumene nomsebenzi, Ixhala, njl. Kodwa ayisiyiyo yonke. Usapho lwalo mntu nalo lufuna inyameko nengqalelo eninzi.
Emva kweminyaka embalwa, uba noxinezeleko kangangokuba ucaphuka msinya, nomsindo, krwada, kwaye akasenamonde kakhulu. Akayazi into enokuyenza kunye nendlela yokuqhubeka kwakhona kwaye ukhangele uxolo lwengqondo kunye nokulinganisela ebomini.
Ngexesha lesidlo sasemini emsebenzini, uva umntu asebenza naye ethetha ngaye isazi ngengqondo. Uba nomdla aze abe nomdla.
Nangona wayengazange acinge ukuya kwisazi sengqondo, uba nomdla kwaye uqhutywa ngulo mdla.
Emva kwexesha elithile, uthatha isigqibo sokuba enze idinga kunye nogqirha wengqondo.
Ngexesha leseshoni yokuqala, uxelela isazi ngengqondo ngobomi bakhe obuxakekileyo; umsebenzi wakhe, kunye nosapho lwakhe.
Isazi ngengqondo siyamamela size sibuze imibuzo, kungekhona kuphela ngomsebenzi womntu kunye nosapho, kodwa malunga ne ixesha elidlulileyo lomntu. Emva kweseshoni yokuqala, ezinye iiseshoni ziyalandela.
Kodwa eyona ngongoma iphambili kwezi seshoni ayikho malunga nokudala ulungelelwaniso ebomini kwakhona, kodwa malunga nexesha elidlulileyo lomntu.
Zonke iintlobo zezinto zamandulo zombiwa. Kodwa into awayesoloko eyigqala njengesiqhelo, ayiqhelekanga ngokwengcali yezengqondo kwaye ibeka iilebhile kuyo.
Amandla obumnyama ayawuthimba umphefumlo
Izinto ezininzi ezidlulileyo ziyaxoxwa kwaye isazi sengqondo sinikeza iingcebiso. Emva kweeseshoni ezininzi, indoda iqala ukudideka ngakumbi, ukungazithembi, kwaye lusizi ngakumbi kunangaphambili.
Ekuqaleni, konke kwakubonakala kulungile. Kodwa ngoku lo mntu uye waba yintlekele enkulu (ngokomoya). Umntu ufumene iingxaki ezininzi kunye namaxhala okujongana nawo kunangaphambili.
Kwenzeka ntoni kwindawo yokomoya, kukuba umphefumlo uthinjwe ngamandla angendawo obumnyama. La mandla angendawo obumnyama angena ngeemfundiso zomtyholi, ikwabizwa ngokuba bubulumko behlabathi.
Ngaba i-yoga iyanciphisa uxinzelelo?
Emveni kwexeshana, isazi sengqondo sicebisa indoda ukuba iqale ukucamngca kwaye uthathe izifundo zeyoga ukunciphisa inqanaba loxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Indoda iphulaphula iingcebiso zesazi sengqondo kwaye iqale ukucamngca nokuthatha izifundo zeyoga. Ngoku, ngenxa yokungazi komntu, hayi umphefumlo wodwa uthinjiwe, kodwa nomzimba uthinjwe ngamandla obumnyama ngezi qheliselo ezibandakanya ukunqula izithixo zobuhedeni..
Emva konyaka wokutyelelwa okuninzi kwisazi sengqondo kunye neziko le-yoga, umntu uqala abe neentlungu emzimbeni aze aye kwagqirha. Ugqirha ufumanisa isifo kwaye akubonakali ithemba kuye.
Kwaye kwenzeka, ukuba le ndoda, owayenoxinzelelo kwaye ejonge nje uxolo lwengqondo, kwafuneka ahlawulele oku kubizwa ngokuba luxolo ngobomi bakhe.
Lixabiso elo, umtyholi afuna xa ujonge uncedo lwakhe kwaye uguqukele kuye.
Ngaba umntu wafumana uxolo lwengqondo? Hayi, ngokuba uMtyholi ulixoki. Ngoko awukwazi ukumthemba.
Eli libali elimangalisayo, kodwa le yindlela ehamba ngayo.
Ingumzekelo womntu, owarholelwa ebukumkanini bobumnyama, ngokufuna ukwazi.
Endaweni yokufuna uncedo lukaThixo nokuya kuye, umntu wakhangela uncedo ehlabathini. Kodwa ubulumko beli hlabathi bubudenge kwaye bubutshaba nxamnye nobulumko bukaThixo. Kuba ubulumko benyama buphuma kumtyholi, ungumthombo, kwaye oyena nobangela wengxaki yendoda wawukwindawo yomoya hayi kwindawo yenyama
UMtyholi uyeza eze kuba, bulala, kwaye utshabalalise
Wathi uYesu, ukuba uMtyholi uza kuba, ukubulala, kwaye ukutshabalalisa (UYohane 10:10). Kwaye yiloo nto kanye eyenzekayo xa ungena kwindawo kaMtyholi. Ngokungazi kunye nokuswela ulwazi ngokomoya, umnika ubomi bakho.
Uza kufumana uxolo lwengqondo okanye ukufumana iimpendulo okanye ukufumana isicombululo kwiingxaki zakho, kodwa ngembuyekezo, usathana ufuna idini kuwe, obu bubomi bakho.
Kulo mzekelo, umphefumlo (ngokusebenzisa isayikholojisti kunye nokucamngca) kunye nomzimba (iyoga) lomntu unikwe usathana ukuba afumane uxolo lwengqondo. Kodwa akazange alufumane uxolo awayelufuna. Hayi, lo mntu akazange alufumane uxolo, yayibubuxoki. Kunoko, umntu wancama ubomi bakhe kumtyholi.
Le yindlela yehlabathi; indlela yehlabathi, ekhokelela ekufeni.
Yintoni Indlela yokufumana uxolo lwengqondo?
Ekuphela kwendlela yokufumana uxolo lwengqondo nguYesu Kristu. UYesu uthembisa uxolo lokwenene olungaphaya kokuqonda, kwabo, abeza kuye. Uthembisa uxolo, ukuphumla, ekungekho mntu unokukunika kona.
Yizani kum, nonke nina nibulalekayo, niyinto enzima, kwaye ndiza kukunika ukuphumla. Thabathani idyokhwe yam niyithwale, nifunde nakum; kuba ndilula kwaye ndithobekile entliziyweni: Niya kuthi phumla kwimiphefumlo yenu,. kuba idyokhwe yam imnandi;, nomthwalo wam ukhaphukhaphu (UMateyu 11:28-30)
Xa udiniwe, uxinezelekile, uxinzelelo, ndidiniwe, ixhala, ithwele kakhulu, utshile waphela, kwaye ufumane ubunzima kunye neentlungu emphefumlweni wakho, inye kuphela iNdlela, uMntu omnye, ngubani onokukunika uxolo lwengqondo, kwaye loo Mntu nguYesu Kristu, uNyana kaThixo ophilileyo.
UYesu uthembisa ukuphumla. Nguye kuphela, ngubani onako ndikuphumze; uxolo. Uyaniphumza, ukuze wonke umthwalo wenu ususwe kuni.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuthwala idyokhwe yaKhe phezu kwakho?
Inye kuphela into omawuyenze kukuthwala idyokhwe yaKhe phezu kwakho. Idyokhwe kukudityaniswa kwezinto ezimbini. UYesu’ idyokhwe ikumanyanisa naYe. Ubotshelelwe kuYe, endaweni kaMtyholi. Ukuba uyakholwa kuYesu Kristu kwaye unikele ubomi bakho kuye, ke uya kuhlanjululwa (kuzo zonke izono zenu nobugwenxa), igciniwe, wagwetyelwa ngegazi lakhe.
Uthengwe ngegazi lakhe kwaye ubomi bakho bobakhe. Ngoko ke, aniyi kuphinda nikhonze uMtyholi ngesono, kodwa niya kukhonza uYesu Kristu ngokobulungisa.
Uze umthande kwaye ugcine imiyalelo yakhe.
Ngokubaliswa nguMoya oyiNgcwele, i umthetho woMoya (umthetho kaKristu) ibhaliwe entliziyweni yakho.
Xa uhlaziya ingqondo yakho ngeLizwi likaThixo kwaye uhambe ngemithetho yakhe, uya kuba noxolo lwengqondo uYesu awakuthembisa ngalo.
UYesu uyakwenza oko wayethe uya kukwenza. UYesu akaze axoke. Ukuba kukho uMntu omnye kulo lonke ihlabathi onokuthi umthembe, nguYesu; ilizwi.
Xa usenza, oko uYesu wakuyalelayo ukuba ukwenze, naxa niwagcina amazwi nemithetho Yakhe, uya kufumana uxolo.
Ilizwi liya kukunika uxolo lwengqondo kwaye liya kukuphumza emphefumlweni wakho. Kubhaliwe, ukuba uyafuna, niya kufumana. Ngoko ke kufuneka uyikhangele.
Unokuyiphanda eBhayibhileni (ILizwi likaThixo). Xa ufunda, funda, kwaye ucamngce ngeLizwi laKhe, imini nobusuku, uya kuyifumana le nto uyifunayo. Xa ugcwalisa ingqondo yakho ngamazwi kaThixo endaweni yezinto zeli hlabathi, uya kufumana uxolo lwengqondo. Ewe, uya kufumana ukuphumla.
Uthini uThixo ngoxolo lwengqondo?
Utsho uYehova, Yimani ezindleleni, kwaye ubone, kwaye ubuze iindlela zakudala, iphi na indlela elungileyo, nihambe ngayo, noyifumanela ukuphumla imiphefumlo yenu (UYeremiya 6:16)
Abantu bakaThixo baba nemvukelo baza bamfulathela. Abazange bayithobele kwaye bayigcine imiyalelo Yakhe. Hmmm, oku kuvakala kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kuba oku akwenzeki nakwixesha lethu? Ngoko ke sinokugqiba, ukuba ukuziphatha kwe indoda endala engazalani ngokutsha isafana kwaye ayikatshintshi kuyo yonke iminyaka.
Logama nje abantu behlala benyama kwaye beqhubeka bephila ngokwenyama, baya kuhlala bevukela uThixo neLizwi lakhe.
Xa amaKristu ehlala enyameni aze aqhubeke ehamba ngokwenyama, ke ekugqibeleni baya kuyishiya indlela kaThixo yobomi.
UThixo wacebisa abantu bakhe ukuba babuyele kwiindlela zakudala, kwiLizwi laKhe, kwaye ukuya Imithetho yakhe. UThixo uhlala enika ithuba lesibini, ngokuba unguThixo onothando.
Xa ubuyela kwiLizwi likaThixo kwaye uthobela amazwi akhe uya kuhamba kwindlela elungileyo yobomi, okukhokelela kubomi banaphakade. Kwaye xa uhamba kule ndlela, woba noxolo nokuphumla emphefumlweni wakho
Ukuba ungumKristu kwaye ukrazukile ngaphakathi kwaye awunakufumana uxolo kwaye uphumle ingqondo yakho (umphefumlo), ke akusiyo ixesha lokuhamba ngendlela yehlabathi kwaye uye kwi-psychologist, kodwa ke lixesha lokuya kuYesu; ukuya kwiLizwi.
Yiba phambukela, phaphazela, Kuba utshaba lwakho uMtyholi, njengengonyama egqumayo, uhambahamba, Ukufuna lowo anokutya
1 UPetros 5:8
Xa ufumana uYesu, uya kufumana uxolo lwengqondo
UYesu uzenza afumaneke ngabo, abamfunayo. Uya kumfumana eLizwini likaThixo. Lithabathe ngoko iLizwi likaThixo, funda iLizwi, kwaye ucamngce ngamazwi nemithetho yakhe imini nobusuku. Ngoko ke wena ingqondo iya kuhlaziywa ngamazwi akhe kwaye uya kufumana ukuphumla. Uya kuba noxolo lwengqondo kwaye wamkele, ubukhangela ntoni.
Uxolo, idlula konke ukuqonda, oko ihlabathi (Iingcali zengqondo, Iingcali zengqondo, ogqirha, Iingcali zonyango, iyoga, amayeza okuphumla, ihypnotherapy, njl) andinako ukukunika.
‘Yibani yityuwa yehlabathi’
