Ukuphuza utshwala kuwumoya obhubhisayo olawula izimpilo eziningi. Abantu abaningi, kuhlanganise namaKristu, ube umlutha wotshwala futhi uphile ebugqilini bamandla otshwala. Nokho, akekho ofuna ukubizwa ngotshwala. Ngakho-ke abantu bayaphika ukuthi banenkinga yokuphuza, lapho abanye bebhekana nabo ngokuphuza kwabo ngokweqile. Unenkinga nini yokuphuza? Yiziphi izimpawu zokudakwa? Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuphila usuku ngaphandle kotshwala uyisidakwa. Ulawulwa umoya wotshwala obangela ukuba umlutha wotshwala. AmaKristu kufanele avuke afunde lokho iBhayibheli elikushoyo ngotshwala notshwala. Kufanele bavule amehlo abo omoya futhi babone ukuthi hlobo luni lomlingiswa obhubhisayo utshwala luqukethe. Utshwala akubona umngane kodwa yisitha! Utshwala alengezi lutho ezimpilweni, kodwa ichitha izingqondo zabantu, umzimba, nokuphila. Ungakhululwa kanjani emandleni otshwala (umlutha wotshwala)?
Ingabe amaKristu kufanele aphuze utshwala?
Umbuzo ovame ukubuzwa ukuthi amaKristu avunyelwe yini ukuphuza utshwala noma cha. Lithini iBhayibheli ngokuphuza utshwala? Lapho uxoxa namaKristu ngale ndaba, cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi, imiBhalo emithathu efanayo iyavela. Okungukuthi, ukuthi uJesu wayemangalelwa abaFarisi nabaSadusi ngokuthi ungumphuzi wewayini (Luka 7:34), umshado eKhana (UJohane 2:1-11), kanye noThimothewu, owafundiswa nguPawuli, ukuphuza iwayini elincane ngenxa yesisu nobuthakathaka bakhe (1 UThimothewu 5:25).
AmaKristu asebenzisa le mibhalo ukuze avumele ukuphuza iwayini nophuzo oludakayo. Kodwa abakhulumi ngeminye imibhalo eminingi eBhayibhelini mayelana nokuphuza iwayini nophuzo oludakayo kanye nemiphumela, njenge:
Iwayini liyinhlekisa, isiphuzo esinamandla siyavutha: futhi noma ubani odukiswa ngakho akahlakaniphile (Izaga 20:1)
Futhi ziqapheleni, funa izinhliziyo zenu zisindwe ngokudla, nokudakwa, nezinkathazo zalokhu kuphila, ukuze lolo suku lunifikele ningazelele. (Luka 21:34)
Ake sihambe ngokweqiniso, Njengasemini; Hhayi kuDialering and Drunkenness, Hhayi eChambing nase-Entlonness, hhayi ngokuxabana nangomomo (AmaRoma 13:13)
Kepha manje sengibhalele ukuthi ungazihlanganisi, Uma noma yimuphi umuntu obizwa ngokuthi umfowenu abe ngumfelakazi, noma ihaha, noma ukhokhozi, noma umjaja, noma isidakwa, noma ukuphakanyiswa; nomuntu onjalo cha ukungadli (1 AbaseKorinte 5:11)
Namasela, noma ihaha, noma izidakwa, noma abaphikisi, noma ukuphaphama, Uyakulidla Ilifa Ngombuso KaNkulunkulu (1 AbaseKorinte 6:10)
Manje imisebenzi yenyama iyabonakala, Yikuphi lokhu; Ukuphinga, ubufebe, ukungcola, ukuxega, Izithombe, ubuthakathi, inzondo, ukwehluka, ukulingisa, ulaka, ingxabano, iziyaluyalu, amambuka, umona, ukubulala, ukudakwa, ukuxokozela, futhi kanjalo: kwalokho engikutshela khona ngaphambili, Njengoba ngiphinde ngikutshele ngesikhathi esidlule, ukuthi labo abazenza izinto ezinjalo ngeke balizuze ifa lombuso kaNkulunkulu (KwabaseGalathiya 5:19-21)
Futhi ningadakwa yiwayini, lapho kukhona okweqile; kodwa gcwaliswani ngoMoya (Kwabase-Efesu 5:18)
Umbhishobhi kufanele abe ngongasoleki, indoda yomfazi munye, eqaphile, ehluzekile, yokuziphatha okuhle, emukela izihambi, ekwazi ukufundisa; Ayinikezwa iwayini, akekho umgadli, engahaheli inzuzo engcolile; kodwa ubekezele, hhayi ingxabano, hhayi ukuhaha; Obusa kahle eyakhe indlu, ebeka abantwana bakhe ngokuzithoba kukho konke ukulunga; (Ngokuba uma umuntu engakwazi ukuphatha owakhe umuzi, uyakuliphatha kanjani ibandla likaNkulunkulu?) (1 UThimothewu 3:2-5)
Ngokunjalo namadiyakoni kufanele abe nethuna, hhayi ngolimi olukabili, engaphuziswa iwayini eliningi, engahaheli inzuzo engcolile (1 UThimothewu 3:8)
Ngokuba umbhishobhi umelwe ukungabi nacala, njengomphathi kaNkulunkulu; engazithandi, hhayi ngokushesha ukuthukuthela, hhayi iwayini, akekho umgadli, enganikelwa inzuzo embi; Kepha umthandi wokungenisa izihambi, othanda amadoda amahle, ehluzekile, nje, '-ngcwele, ezizothile; ebambelele ezwini elithembekileyo njengalokhu efundisiwe, ukuze ngemfundiso ephilileyo abe namandla okukhuthaza, nokukholisa abaphikisi (Thithu 1:7-9)
Cha, lemibhalo ayikhulunywa. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi amaKristu amaningi, kuhlanganise abaholi bebandla, abafuni ukulalela lemiBhalo. Abafuni ukutshelwa ukuthi benzeni, kodwa bafuna ukuhlala ‘enkululekweni’.
Babheka imithetho nemithethonqubo njengomthetho futhi umthetho akuyona into enhle kodwa kubangela inkolo. Nenkolo injalo, Ngokusho kwabo, into embi. Kunalokho, benza eyabo imithetho yakhe, ukuze baphile njengezwe ‘enkululekweni’ futhi baphuze noma yini abayifunayo, ngaphandle kwemikhawulo (Funda futhi: ‘Inkolo noma Ubudlelwano?‘)
Isizathu esenza amaKristu amaningi abe yizihlubuki futhi abe nezwe, ngoba abantu abaningi, abazibiza ngamaKristu abawona azalwe kabusha futhi abangokomoya. Ngoba bangabantu benyama futhi abangokomoya, abakwazi ukwahlukanisa imimoya futhi ababoni ukuthi hlobo luni lwamandla amabi asebenzayo. Ngakho-ke, abakucabangeli ukuphuza utshwala nokuba nemizwa noma ukudakwa, inkinga
Kufanele esikhundleni sewayini kufakwe ijusi yamagilebhisi ngesidlo?
Bavumela ukuphuza utshwala ekuphileni kwabo kwansuku zonke, kodwa ngesikhathi sesidlo iwayini alisavunyelwe. Amasonto amaningi anawo esikhundleni sewayini kwafakwa ijusi yamagilebhisi okwesidlo.
Esinye sezizathu siwukuthi, ukuthi abafuni ukuba yisikhubekiso kulabo ababeyizidakwa zotshwala futhi basebenzise umBhalo olandelayo:
Kuhle hhayi ukudla inyama, noma ukuphuza iwayini, noma yini umfowenu akhubeka ngayo, noma uyakhubeka, noma kwenziwa buthakathaka (AmaRoma 14:21)
Kodwa lomBhalo ukhishiwe kumongo futhi awuhlangene nakancane Isidlo esingcwele.
Isidlo siyisikhungo esingcwele esamiswa yiNkosi uJesu Kristu.
Uma abantu bezoshintsha isikhungo esingcwele sikaNkulunkulu, bese abantu bezibeka ngaphezu kukaNkulunkulu, njengosathane nje.
UJesu akakaze ayale ukuba esikhundleni sewayini kufakwe isiphuzo samagilebhisi. Lokho kungenxa yokuthi iwayini elibilile lifanekisela ukufa nokuvuka kukaJesu Kristu.
Kungakho uJesu waphuza iwayini ngePhasika nangesikhathi sokumiswa kweSidlo (Funda futhi: ‘Kungani iwayini lithathelwe indawo ijusi yamagilebhisi?‘).
Kungani uphuza utshwala?
Ungase uzibuze, “Kungani ngiphuza utshwala?” Ziningi izizathu, kungani abantu bephuza utshwala. Ezinye zezizathu yilezi, ukuthi bathanda ukunambitheka kotshwala, bafuna ukuzijabulisa, bazizwa bekhululeke kakhudlwana futhi/noma bazizwa benobudlelwane obukhulu lapho bephuza utshwala, ukudambisa noma ukususa ingcindezi, ‘ukwenza ndikindiki’ imicabango yabo futhi ‘bacime’ izingqondo zabo, ukubhekana nokucindezeleka, izinkinga, enza ukukhathazeka, uvalo, ukwesaba, ukudumala(s), ukulahlekelwa, kanye nengcindezi yomphakathi, umsebenzi, ukugana, umndeni, ngoba abajabulile njalo njalo. Ziningi izizathu ezenza abantu baphuze utshwala.
Abantu abaningi abanenkinga yokusebenzisa utshwala abajabulile. Abanelisekile ngabo noma izimpilo zabo. Ngoba ukube bebejabule bebengeke badinge isikhuthazi (umuthi) ukubhekana nezinto nokuphatha ingcindezi noma uzizwe ungcono.
Abantu abaningi abajabule, i-melancholic, ecindezelekile, -xtsheliwe, futhi ekhathazekile. Baphila ngaphansi kwengcindezi ephezulu evela emphakathini, umsebenzi, ukugana, kanye nempilo yomndeni, futhi bakhungethwe yizinkinga, enza ukukhathazeka, ubuhlungu, njll, Kubo ukuphuza utshwala kuwukubalekela iqiniso.
Imicabango yabo nezingqondo zabo zindikindiki futhi bazizwa bekhululeke kakhudlwana futhi akudingeki bacabange ngezinkinga zabo, enza ukukhathazeka, kanye nezidingo zokuphila kwabo kwansuku zonke.
Uma umuntu ephuza utshwala, (s)angase abe nemizwa ejabulisayo ekuqaleni, kodwa le mizwa ejabulisayo izoshintsha ngokushesha ibe imizwa engathandeki.
Uma umuntu ephuza utshwala obuningi, yilapho umoya wokuluthwa utshwala uyozibonakalisa ngokwengeziwe futhi umeme ‘abangane’ bakhe ekuphileni kwalowo muntu.
Omunye wabangane bakhe abakhulu umoya wenkanuko yobulili kanye nenkohlakalo. Lapho nje utshwala buqala ukusebenza, umuntu uyoba nemicabango engcolile yobulili nezifiso zobulili kanye nesifiso sokwanelisa le mizwa yobulili. Ngaphandle kwalomoya okhohlakele, eminye imimoya izobonakalisa, njengomoya wephupho, umoya wamanga, umoya wobugovu, umoya wobugovu, umoya wokukhohlwa, umoya we-melancholy, umoya wokucindezeleka, umoya we ukuzidabukela, umoya wokwesaba, umoya wokunganaki, umoya wentukuthelo, umoya wolaka, umoya wokubulala (ukuzibulala) njalo njalo.
Umuntu uyehluleka ukulawula impilo yakhe bese elawulwa yilemimoya emibi ephuma embusweni wobumnyama asho noma enze izinto., okuyinto umuntu azisole ngayo kamuva noma ayikhohlwe.
Uma umuntu ephuzile noma ephuzile, umuntu ulawulwa umoya wophuzo oludakayo olawula ukuphila komuntu. Lomoya uyolokhu uzibonakalisa, ngokubangela isifiso esiqhubekayo sokuba (Okuningi) utshwala futhi unganeliseki.
Umuntu uyoba yisigqila salo moya omubi futhi amlalele, ngokuphuza utshwala.
Utshwala bushintsha kanjani ubuntu babantu?
Lomoya wedemoni ongcolile wotshwala unesimilo esibhubhisayo futhi uqinisekisa ukuthi ngemva kwesikhashana isimilo nobuntu bomuntu kuyashintsha..
abantu balahlekelwa ukuzwela kwabo futhi ababi nemizwa ‘evamile’. Bacasuka kalula, ecasukile, -xtsheliwe, eshesha ukucasuka, ethukuthele, enolaka, ehlukumezayo, ozicabangela yena yedwa, -sogalisayo. Banezifiso zobulili ezingezona ezemvelo futhi bazivulela ukungcola nokuziphatha okubi (kuhlanganise izithombe zocansi).
Bayolahlekelwa ukubamba iqiniso futhi balawule imimoya engamanga. Le mimoya iyaqinisekisa ukuthi ayizichazi kahle izinto, ginqika, shintsha iqiniso, noma ubone futhi uzwe izinto ezingelona iqiniso, okungelona iqiniso, futhi akakaze asho. Bakha isipiliyoni sabo siqu kanye nezwe lemicabango futhi abavumeli noma ubani ukuthi abatshele ukuthi benzeni.
Izidakwa ziyazifihla. Baphuza ngasese futhi benza izinto ngasese futhi bahlale bephika ukuthi banenkinga yokuphuza.
Bayaziqhenya futhi bayagxeka, lulaza, futhi uzwise abanye ubuhlungu ngamazwi amabi nahlambalazayo, amazwi, kanye namazwana.
Futhi masingakhohlwa umsebenzi obhubhisayo utshwala obunawo engqondweni, izitho zomzimba, kanye lomzimba wonke womuntu.
Ithini indlela yomhlaba yokukhululwa ekuluthweni kotshwala?
Indlela yezwe yokukhulula amandla omlutha wotshwala ukuya emtholampilo wokuhlunyeleliswa kwabantu (isikhungo sokuvuselela kabusha) noma imihlangano ye-AA. Umuntu kufanele enze umsebenzi futhi uzongena ohlelweni lokubuyisela utshwala futhi athole ukwelashwa okuzolethwa emandleni otshwala.
Abelaphi kanye ochwepheshe bezengqondo uzomba empilweni kanye nesikhathi esedlule somuntu, ukuthola imbangela yokuluthwa utshwala (Funda futhi: ‘Musa ukuwela emgodini wesikhathi sakho esedlule‘).
Ngemva kwamasonto noma izinyanga ezimbalwa, lapho umuntu eseqedile ukwelashwa kokuluthwa utshwala futhi esebonisile futhi wafakazela, lokho (s)ukhululiwe emandleni otshwala futhi angaphila ngaphandle kotshwala futhi ‘uyalapheka’, umuntu uyokhululwa futhi abuyele ekuphileni kwakhe kwansuku zonke.
Kodwa ezimweni eziningi, kwenzeka ukuthi ngokushesha nje lapho umuntu ebuyela endaweni yakhe ayijwayele kanye nempilo yakudala, umuntu ubuyela emikhubeni yakhe yakudala yokuphuza. Umuntu uzolangazelela uphuzo oludakayo futhi uzoqala ukuphuza futhi.
Kuyinto evamile, ukuthi abantu, abakhululwe e-rehab, bazobuyela ekuziphatheni kwabo kokuphuza baphinde babe imilutha yotshwala baphinde babuyele e-rehab futhi. Lapho sebededelwa okwesibili babuyela ekhaya, izikhathi eziningi bazophinde bawele ekuziphatheni kwabo kokuphuza kwakudala futhi babuyele ekuvuseleleni kabusha. Lena inqubo eqhubekayo, futhi laba bantu abakwazi ukuqeda umlutha wotshwala. Kungani lokho futhi kungenzeka kanjani?
Lokho kungenxa yokuthi imbangela yokuluthwa utshwala ifunwa endaweni yemvelo esikhundleni somoya. Umlutha wotshwala uphathwa ngezindlela zemvelo, okuyinto engenakwenzeka. Ngenxa yalokho, Imbangela yangempela yokuluthwa utshwala ayixazululwa futhi umuntu uzohlala eboshelwe emoyeni wotshwala.
Yini ebangela ukuba umlutha wotshwala?
Utshwala abukwazi ukuphulukiswa ngezindlela zemvelo, ngezindlela zenyama, ukwelapha, ukwelashwa, noma izidakamizwa, ngoba utshwala akuwona umphumela wemvelo wembangela yemvelo, kodwa utshwala buyinto ebonakalayo (-yimvelo) umphumela wesizathu esingokomoya. Isizathu esingokomoya asikwazi ukuphathwa ngezindlela zemvelo.
Lapho umuntu efuna ikhambi noma ukwelashwa emhlabeni, umuntu mhlawumbe ‘uyokhululwa’ okwesikhashana, kodwa umuntu uzohlala edonsa kanzima ukuze angaphuzi utshwala ngoba ukulangazelela utshwala kusekhona. Ngemva kwakho konke, amandla kamoya otshwala awaphulwa. Ngakho-ke, umuntu uzolahlekelwa, lapho kukhona ibhodlela lotshwala phambi kwakhe noma lapho abanye bephuza utshwala.
Inqobo nje uma umuntu engakhululwa emandleni otshwala, umuntu uzohlala eyisidakwa futhi uyohlala elwela ukuhlala edakiwe. Ukulangazelela utshwala kuyohlale kukhona ngoba lomoya wotshwala usekhona.
Lapho umuntu ephuza iwayini ngesikhathi sesidlo, umuntu uzolangazelela okwengeziwe futhi uzozabalaza ukuzilawula ngemva kwenkonzo, ukungalibambi ibhodlela uphuze.
Ithini indlela kaNkulunkulu yokukhululwa otshwaleni?
Ukuphuza utshwala kubangelwa umoya ongcolile wedemoni lombuso wobumnyama. Ngakho-ke, uma umuntu efuna ukulethwa, kuzomele ususe imbangela bese uyala lomoya wotshwala ukuthi umshiye umuntu wephule amandla otshwala.
Wonke umoya (amandla) embusweni wobumnyama kufanele ulalele futhi ukhothame ngenxa yeGama likaJesu. Njengoba uJesu enakho igunya eliphakeme kakhulu emazulwini nasemhlabeni.
Ngakho-ke, lapho umuntu, olawulwa futhi uboshwe yilomoya wamadimoni wotshwala, uza esontweni noma kuwe afune usizo, bese ungamthumeli lowo muntu ukuthi abuyele esimweni, a udokotela noma a isazi sezengqondo, ngoba abakwazi ukusiza umuntu. Kunalokho, khulula lowo muntu eGameni likaJesu, ngokuyala umoya wotshwala ukuba umshiye lowo muntu.
Lapho umoya omubi wotshwala usuphumile kumuntu, umuntu ukhululwe ngempela emandleni otshwala. Uma umuntu ekhululwe ngempela emandleni otshwala, khona-ke umuntu uyakwazi ukuphuza ngesikhathi sesidlo, ngaphandle kokulangazelela utshwala obuningi.
Umuntu ngeke esazabalaza, ngalokho (s)ukhululiwe emandleni otshwala. Lomoya wotshwala, okwabangela lobu mlutha wotshwala nokulawula ukuphila komuntu akasekho kodwa usemshiyile umuntu.
Nokho, umuntu udinga ukuhlala ephapheme futhi agade amasango empilo yakhe. Ngoba lomoya wotshwala uzozama ukubuya futhi uzofuna umzuzwana wobuthakathaka ukuze ungene. Kodwa lapho umuntu enganikeli kulemizwa yenyama yenkanuko futhi engaqali ukuphuza futhi, lomoya wotshwala uzogcinwa ngaphandle umshiye umuntu.
UJesu waxwayisa ngomoya ongcolile
UJesu wasixwayisa ngalokhu futhi wathi: Lapho umoya ongcolile usuphumile kumuntu, uhamba ezindaweni ezomileyo, efuna ukuphumula, futhi akatholi lutho. Bese ethi, ngiyakubuyela endlini yami engaphuma kuyo; nalapho esefikile, uyifica ingenalutho, kushanelwe, futhi ihlotshisiwe. Bese ehamba, uthatha kanye nabanye omoya abayisikhombisa ababi kunaye, bangene bahlale khona: futhi isimo sokugcina salowo muntu sibi kunesokuqala (Mathewu 12:43-45)
UJesu akazange athi ‘uma’ kodwa Wathi ‘nini’, ngakho-ke umoya ongcolile uyohlala uzama ukubuya. Kungakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqaphela ukuthi yiziphi izinto ozivumelayo empilweni yakho futhi wondle ingqondo yakho ngazo nokuthi usichitha kanjani isikhathi sakho.
UMoya oNgcwele kanye neZwi kufanele kugcwalise ingqondo yakho kanye nempilo yakho, ukuze indlu yakho ingabi yize kodwa igcwaliswe ngeZwi lakhe nangoMoya wakhe.
Ukhululwa kanjani emandleni otshwala notshwala?
Ingabe usufikile olwazini, ukuthi unenkinga yotshwala? Ingabe unayo imfihlo umlutha utshwala ekuphileni kwakho? Uboshiwe yini amandla otshwala kanti udlisiwe yini kanti ufuna ukukhululwa emandleni otshwala? Uyaludinga usizo?
Okuwukuphela kwento odinga ukuyenza ukuya kuJesu Kristu ucele intethelelo, phenduka futhi uyale lomoya wotshwala, lomoya wokulutha, ukushiya impilo yakho. Ukuze kuphele amandla otshwala empilweni yakho ukhululwe emandleni otshwala ukhululeke kuJesu Kristu.
EGameni likaJesu Kristu; egunyeni Lakhe, lomoya wotshwala, lomoya wokulutha, kufanele ulalele futhi kufanele ushiye impilo yakho. Lokhu kuyasebenza nakwezinye izilutha ezifana nokulutha kwe-nicotine, umlutha wezidakamizwa, ukuluthwa ucansi, njll.
Uma ukhululwe emandleni otshwala nalomoya wotshwala usuyishiyile impilo yakho, khona-ke impilo yakho kufanele ihambisane ne ukuphenduka ukuthi uyavuma.
Uzofuna izinto, ezingenhla, -phi UJesu Kristu uhlezi, futhi hhayi izinto zalo mhlaba. Qaphela, uhlezi nobani nokuthi usichitha kanjani isikhathi sakho. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuchitha isikhathi emthandazweni, khuleka ngomoya, nokutadisha iBhayibheli; IZwi LikaNkulunkulu, ukuze nakhiwe ekukholweni kwenu okungcwele kakhulu futhi nikwazi ukwahlukanisa amanga ezwe eqinisweni likaNkulunkulu.
I uthando ngoJesu noNkulunkulu futhi ukuhamba emva kukaMoya kuyoqinisekisa, ukuthi ungalaleli futhi ugcwalise izinkanuko nezifiso okwenyama, esimweni esinjalo, inkanuko nesifiso sotshwala, kodwa ukuthi ulalele uNkulunkulu futhi uthwale isithelo sikaMoya.
‘Yibani usawoti womhlaba’
