Ukuhlala ndawonye ungashadile noma ukuhlalisana ngaphambi komshado sekuyinto evamile emazweni aseNtshonalanga. Okwaqala eScandinavia (EYurophu) ngabantu abadala abangakholwa, zasabalala kuwo wonke amazwe asentshonalanga phakathi namashumi eminyaka edlule. Intsha engakholwa yayingasafuni ukuzibophezela ezibophweni zomshado. Babengafuni ukutshelwa ukuthi benzeni futhi baphile kanjani izimpilo zabo futhi bathobele imithetho nemithethonqubo. Kunalokho, abantu abasha babefuna ukukhululeka futhi baphile izimpilo zabo, bezenzela izinqumo nemithetho yabo empilweni. Kulezi zinsuku, abantu abaningi, kuhlanganise namaKristu, cabanga ukuhlalisana njengento evamile futhi into enhle. Kodwa nakuba abaningi becabangela ukuhlala ndawonye ngaphambi komshado njengento evamile futhi into enhle, uNkulunkulu uyakwamukela yini? Lithini iBhayibheli ngokuhlala ndawonye ningashadile, futhi kufanele amaKristu ahlale ndawonye nomuntu, ongeyena umlingani wabo?
Ukuwohloka kobuKristu kwaba nomthelela kanjani kumasiko asentshonalanga nezindinganiso zawo zokuziphatha
Ngeshwa, ukuwohloka kobuKristu nokulahlwa kweBhayibheli kwathonya isiko laseNtshonalanga nezindinganiso zalo zokuziphatha, okuhlanganisa nokususa ilungiselelo lomshado ngokuhlalisana, aka behlala ndawonye bengashadile.
Abantu abaningi bahlala ndawonye bengashadile futhi abasiboni isidingo sokushada. Manje, ungacabanga ukuthi ukukipita kuyingxenye yezwe nokuthi abangakholwa kuphela abahlala ndawonye bengashadile. Kodwa ngeshwa, Akunjalo.
Ngenxa yomqondo wenyama kanye nobuzwe bamaKrestu, abahamba ngokwenyama, amaKristu amaningi amukela amasiko ezwe, okuhlanganisa ukuhlala ndawonye ningashadile.
Banomoya walelizwe ohlezi kubo. Ngakho-ke, bacabanga futhi baphile njengomhlaba nje. Bathathele indawo ilungiselelo elingcwele lomshado ukuhlalisana, futhi asebenzise amanga amaningi ukuze avume. Ngoba akufanele nazane kuqala, ngaphambi kokuba ushade futhi wenze isibopho somshado?
Lithini iBhayibheli ngesivumelwano somshado?
IBhayibheli lithi uNkulunkulu wamisa umshado njengesivumelwano esingcwele phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. Ngesivumelwano somshado, indoda iyoboshelwa kowesifazane, Futhi bayakuba nyamanye. Ngenxa yeqiniso, ukuthi umshado uyilungiselelo elingcwele elivela kuNkulunkulu, UNkulunkulu unikeza isibusiso Sakhe.
Ngalokho-ke indoda iyakushiya uyise nonina, Futhi unamathele kumkakhe: Futhi bayakuba nyamanye (Genesis 2:24)
Futhi Yena (uJesu) waphendula wathi kubo, Anifundanga yini, ukuthi lowo owabadala ekuqaleni wabenza owesilisa nowesifazane, wathi, Ngenxa yalokhu indoda izatshiya uyise lonina, inamathele kumkayo: futhi labo ababili bayoba nyamanye? Ngakho abasebabili, kodwa nyamanye. Ngakho-ke lokho akuhlanganisileyo uNkulunkulu, makungahlukaniswa muntu (Mathewu 19:4-6)
Uthini uNkulunkulu ngedivosi eBhayibhelini?
IBhayibheli lithi uNkulunkulu uyasizonda isehlukaniso (ukwephulwa kwesivumelwano somshado) njengoba sifunda kuMalaki 2:16.
Ngakho qaphela umoya wakho, + futhi makungabikho muntu okhohlisa umfazi wobusha bakhe. OkweNkosi, UNkulunkulu Ka-Israyeli, uthi Uyakuzonda ukulahla (thumela (isehlukaniso)): ngoba umuntu wembesa ubudlova ngengubo yakhe, usho uJehova Sebawoti: ngakho qaphelani umoya wenu, ukuze lingenzi ngokukhohlisa. (UMalaki 2:15-16)
Udeveli uyasizonda isivumelwano somshado futhi uthanda isehlukaniso
Njengoba uNkulunkulu ezonda isehlukaniso, usathane uyawuzonda umshado. Udeveli uzonda zonke izivumelwano uNkulunkulu azimisayo, kufaka phakathi isivumelwano somshado. Ngakho-ke, udeveli uyokwenza konke angakwenza ukuze angcolise futhi abhidlize isivumelwano somshado.
Usathane usingcolisa futhi usichitha kanjani isivumelwano somshado? Ngobufebe, ukuphinga, ukuhlala ndawonye bengashadile, imishado evulekile, kanye nemishado yobulili obufanayo.
Ngokugunyazwa nokusungulwa kwemishado yabantu bobulili obufanayo, isivumelwano somshado esingcwele phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane singcolile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi udeveli wenzani abantu bakholwe nokuthi abantu batholani, UNkulunkulu akakuvumeli ukushada kobulili obufanayo. Lokho kungenxa yokuthi uNkulunkulu ubheka ubungqingili njengento enengekayo, futhi lokho akusoze kwashintsha. (Funda futhi: Lithini iBhayibheli ngobutabane?).
Akumangalisi yini ukuthi ongqingili benza konke abangakwenza ukuze benze imishado yabantu bobulili obufanayo ibe semthethweni, kuyilapho abobulili obuhlukile bengasafuni ukushada, kodwa bahlale ndawonye bengashadile?
Udeveli akasebenzisi ubufebe kuphela, ukuphinga, futhi isehlukaniso ukungcolisa nokwephula isivumelwano somshado, kodwa futhi ukuhlalisana..
Udeveli wenza amaKristu akholwe ukuthi akukho lutho olungalungile ngokuhlala ndawonye ungashadile noma ukuhlala ndawonye ngaphambi komshado.
Ngenxa yamanga akhe, amaKristu amaningi abheka ukuhlala ndawonye ungashadile njengokuhle, ngoba uzomazi kanjani omunye umuntu? Uma nihlala ngokuhlukana komunye nomunye, ngeke ukwazi ukwazana ngokugcwele.
Mhlawumbe ibanga lidlala indima, ngakho-ke kulula ukungena ndawonye. AmaKristu amaningi nawo asho kanjalo izikhathi nomhlaba ushintshile. Ngakho-ke, bavumela ukuhlala ndawonye bengashadile.
Yebo, udeveli usebenzisa amanga amaningi ukuze adukise amaKristu futhi awenze akholwe amazwi akhe esikhundleni samazwi kaNkulunkulu. Ukuze benze intando yakhe esikhundleni sentando kaNkulunkulu. Njengoba nje udeveli enza ku Insimu yase-Edene lapho elinga u-Eva ngamazwi akhe amanga akhohlisayo.
Indodana noma indodakazi kaNkulunkulu ilalela iBhayibheli (IZwi LikaNkulunkulu) futhi bangahlali ndawonye bengashadile
Kodwa indodana noma indodakazi yeqiniso kaNkulunkulu, ogcwaliswe ngoMoya oNgcwele, futhi unemvelo Yakhe, akasoze ahlala ndawonye engashadile!
Amadodana namadodakazi kaNkulunkulu ayamthanda futhi ayamlalela uYise futhi enza intando yaKhe futhi awasoze enza into edabukisa uYise noMoya waKhe.. Ngeke balalele amazwi nezeluleko kaSathane, ngoba ukuhlala ndawonye ungashadile kungaphandle kwesibopho somshado, ngakho-ke kuyisono. UMoya oNgcwele, Ohlala kumuntu, ngizo ogwetshiwe umuntu walesisono sokuhlalisana.
Lithini iBhayibheli ngokuhlala ndawonye ningashadile?
IBhayibheli licacile ngentando kaNkulunkulu ngokuhlala ndawonye ningashadile noma ukuba nobuhlobo bobulili nendoda noma owesifazane, ongeyena umlingani wakho. UJesu wabuye wacacela ubuhlobo bobulili ngaphandle kwezibopho zomshado, lapho ehlangana nowesifazane ongumSamariya ngasemthonjeni kaJakobe.
Lapho uJesu ehlala phansi ngasemthonjeni kaJakobe eSikhari, okungumuzi waseSamariya, kwafika owesifazane ongumSamariya ezokha amanzi. Lapho uJesu ecela owesifazane ongumSamariya ukuba amnike amanzi okuphuza, ephendula, kanjani Yena, umJuda, angambuza, umSamariya, ukuMphuzisa amanzi. Ngoba amaJuda ayengavunyelwe ukuzihlanganisa namaSamariya. UJesu wabe esefakaza ngamanzi aphilayo, ukuthi Yena kuphela owayengahlinzeka. Lapho owesifazane ezwa amazwi aKhe, wacela uJesu ukuthi amnike lamanzi aphilayo. Manje, asibone, lokho uJesu akusho kuye:
UJesu wathi kuye, Hamba ngemoto, shayela umyeni wakho, futhi uze lapha. Aphendule umfazi athi, Anginandoda. UJesu wathi kuye, Usho kahle, Anginandoda: Ngoba ubunamadoda amahlanu; le onayo kalokhu akusiyo indoda yakho: ngalokho ushilo ngeqiniso (UJohane 4:17-18).
Lona wesifazane wayenamadoda amahlanu, ababengesibo abayeni bakhe abasemthethweni, kodwa ayelala naye. Futhi lo ayenaye ngaleso sikhathi kwakungeyena futhi umyeni wakhe. Wayendawonye nendoda, engashadanga noJesu wamphendula ngale ndaba.
Ingabe ukuhlalisana ngaphambi komshado kuyintando kaNkulunkulu noma kuyisono?
Ukuhlalisana ngaphambi komshado akuyona intando kaNkulunkulu. Uma uhlala ndawonye nomuntu, ongeyena umlingani wakho, uphila esonweni. Akunandaba ukuthi unobudlelwano bocansi noma cha (okuyinto cishe engenakwenzeka). Iqiniso ngukuthi, ukuthi nihlala ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa futhi nihlanganyele umuzi ndawonye ngaphandle kwesibopho somshado.
Lokhu kuyasebenza nakumaKristu angashadile, abalala ndawonye futhi benza ucansi ngaphambi komshado. Uma nihlala ndawonye ningashadile noma nihlala ngokwehlukana kodwa ninobudlelwano bocansi nomuntu, ongeyena umlingani wakho, uyafeba. Ubufebe abukho ngokuvumelana nentando kaNkulunkulu futhi ngenxa yalokho kuyisono.
Manje mayelana nezinto enaloba ngazo kimi: Kuhle ukuthi indoda ingamthinti umfazi. Noma kunjalo, ukugwema ubufebe, yilowo nalowo makabe nowakhe umfazi, nalowo wesifazane abe neyakhe indoda (1 AbaseKorinte 7:1-2)
Ngakho ngithi kwabangashadile nakubafelokazi, kuhle kubo uma behlala njengami. Kodwa uma zingakwazi ukuqukatha, mabashade: ngoba kungcono ukuganwa kulokutshisa. (1 AbaseKorinte 7:8-9)
amaKristu amaningi aphila njengezwe
AmaKristu, abahlala ndawonye bengakashadi futhi/noma babe nobudlelwano bocansi bengashadile, abenyama futhi bangabezwe. Abanawo umqondo kaKristu kodwa banomqondo wezwe futhi benza imisebenzi yezwe.
Izwe liyakuvumela ukuhlala ndawonye ningashadile, kodwa ngokweBhayibheli, bayafeba ngakho bayizifebe. Nakuba bevuma bayakholwa futhi bangamaKristu, imisebenzi yabo ifakazela okunye.
Udeveli naye uyakholwa futhi usathane akasindisiwe. Yimisebenzi nempilo yomuntu kuphela efakazela ukuthi umuntu ungowakhe: Umhlaba (onakele) noma uJesu Kristu. (Funda futhi: ‘Intando kaNkulunkulu vs intando kadeveli‘).
Abantu, abathanda uJesu bayakulalela amazwi akhe, lalela amazwi akhe, futhi uphile ngokwentando yakhe. Bayosusa zonke izono nokungcola kwalomhlaba, okudala ukwehlukana phakathi kwabo noNkulunkulu ezimpilweni zabo.
Kepha abantu, abathanda izwe bayolalela lokho okushiwo umhlaba nabantu abangavuselelwanga, futhi siphile njengomhlaba. Bayozenza lezozinto, lawo a amanyala kuNkulunkulu futhi bamelene nentando Yakhe. Ngakho-ke, impilo yomuntu ikhombisa ukuthi umuntu ungowakwabani.
Umshado uhloniphekile kubo bonke, nombhede ongangcolile: Kepha ama-horemonger neziphingi uNkulunkulu uzokwahlulela (amaHebheru 13:4 (inothi: lokhu kulotshiwe ngemva kokubethelwa nokuvuka kukaJesu Kristu futhi ngenxa yalokho ingxenye Isivumelwano esisha)
Ingabe ibandla liye lehluleka ekugcineni umshado uhloniphekile futhi uvimbela ubufebe?
Kungumsebenzi webandla ukubopha lokukhulula; ukuvimbela imisebenzi yesono yobumnyama futhi avumele imisebenzi yokulunga yoMbuso kaNkulunkulu. Nokho, ibandla alilindanga amasango alo njengoba bekufanele.
Ibandla aliyivalanga iminyango yesango lemisebenzi yezwe kanye izimfundiso zamanga. Kunalokho, ibandla lavula iminyango lavumela izimfundiso nemisebenzi yezwe, kuhlanganise nobufebe ebandleni. Ngoba uma nihlala ndawonye ningashadile niyafeba.
Lapho izimpawu zokuqala zokuhlalisana ngaphambi komshado zibonakala futhi abantu abasha abaningi bafuna futhi banquma ukuhlala ndawonye bengashadile., ibandla belifanele lithathe ukuma kwalo phezu kweZwi likaNkulunkulu.
Ibandla kwakufanele lihlale lilalela uJesu Kristu; iZwi eliphilayo neNhloko yebandla. Ibandla kwakufanele lihlale lithembekile ekumeleleni intando noMbuso kaNkulunkulu.
(Abaholi be) ibandla bekumele lishilo, UNkulunkulu wenza isivumelwano somshado futhi amakholwa kufanele agcine umshado uhloniphekile.
Ibandla bekumele likhulume, isiqinisekwe, futhi waqondisa intsha yebandla, ababefuna ukwenza intando yenyama futhi bahlale ndawonye bengashadile.
Ibandla bekufanele lime eBhayibhelini futhi likhulume ngokuthi ukuhlala ndawonye ungashadile kuwubufebe hhayi ngokwentando kaNkulunkulu.. Khona-ke uma abantu abasha benganquma ukungawalaleli amazwi kaNkulunkulu futhi bazithobe entandweni Yakhe, kodwa kunalokho hlalani nivukela amazwi kaNkulunkulu, ibandla kufanele libe nalo wabasusa Kusuka esontweni, ngenxa yenhlalakahle kanye nokuvikela amanye amakholwa ebandleni. Ngoba imvubelo encane ibilisa inhlama yonke. (Funda futhi: ‘Kusho ukuthini ukuletha umuntu kuSathane?’).
Ngaphandle kwalokho, ukuba ibandla belithathe ukuma eZwini futhi lihlale lithembekile eZwini, ukumesaba uJehova ngabe kuhlezi ebandleni.
Ingabe ibandla likhothamele kubantu abasha?
Kodwa isonto alizange lenze ngaleyo ndlela. Esikhundleni sokuma eZwini; uJesu, futhi uhlale uthembekile futhi ulalela uJesu Kristu, ibandla lakhothama entandweni yentsha ehlubukayo futhi layekethisa nezwe.
Ngokuvumela amaKristu ukuba ahlale ndawonye engashadile, ibandla lavumela umoya walelizwe nomoya wobufebe ebandleni.
Mhlawumbe isonto lalisaba ukulahlekelwa abantu abasha. Kodwa umphumela wokuvumela ukuhlalisana ukuthi isonto seligcwele (kufihliwe) ukungcola nokuhlanekezela, njengokuhlala ndawonye ningashadile, ukuba nobudlelwano bocansi ngaphandle kokushada, ukushaya indlwabu, njll.).
Ibandla ligcwele izifebe, iziphingi, abakhohlisi, 'Johns', izifebe, ongqingili, ababukeli be-porn abakhohlisayo, abahamba ngezinyawo, i-zoophiliacs, njalo njalo. Ngisho nabaholi bamasonto abaningi banomoya wobufebe ohlala kubo. (Funda futhi: Kusho ukuthini ukona kwabaholi besonto ngabo?).
AmaKristu amaningi abanjwe ochungechungeni lwamanga
Zonke lezo zinto, okuyizi amanyala ngoba uNkulunkulu useqedile, ngababizwa ngamadodana namadodakazi kaNkulunkulu. Udeveli uphumelele ukudukisa amaKristu nokuthumba ibandla ngamanga akhe. Futhi into embi kakhulu, ukuthi amaKristu amaningi, kuhlanganise nabaholi besonto, bayizimpumputhe ngokomoya. Ababoni futhi baqaphele ukuthi bakhohlisiwe futhi babanjwe kuwebhu kadeveli yamanga.
AmaKhristu amaningi acabanga, ukuthi bathokozisa uNkulunkulu, kanti uNkulunkulu usebashiyile. Ngoba ukulunga kungaba kanjani nenhlanganyelo nokungalungi? Ubungcwele bungahlangana kanjani nesono? Okufana nokukhanya nobumnyama?
UJesu wabhekana nesono kanye nenkinga yesono yemvelo ewile yomuntu. Ukuze, ngokukholwa kanye ukuzalwa kabusha kuYe, wonke umuntu wayenekhono lokuba a indalo entsha ngaphandle kwemvelo yesono futhi uhambe njengendodana noma indodakazi kaNkulunkulu ekulungeni nasebungcweleni obusa phezu kwesono nokufa.
Ibandla nabantu bangavuma zonke izinhlobo zezinto, kodwa iZwi liyiqiniso futhi iZwi liyanquma. Ekugcineni, akusiye umuntu kodwa Izwi Oyokwahlulela ngulowo lalowo njengokwemisebenzi yakhe (IsAmbulo 20:12, 15).
Ngakho-ke, Isho iNkosi: "Phenduka, ngenkathi usengakwazi futhi ususe izono, okuyilezo zinto engizizondayo neziyisinengiso Kimi futhi eziphambana nentando Yami, ngaphandle kwempilo yakho”
‘Yiba usawoti womhlaba’
