Abantwana, Thobela abazali bakho kuzo zonke izinto: Kuba oku kuyathandeka kuYehova (KwabaseKolose 3:20)
indima yabantwana entsatsheni
Kwi inqaku elidlulileyo, kwaxoxwa ngendima yendoda nomfazi emtshatweni. Kweli nqaku, Indima yabantwana entsatsheni iya kuxutyushwa. Kaloku nabantwana banendima entsatsheni. Abantwana baphantsi kwabazali babo’ igunya kwaye bafanele bathobele abazali babo.
Kukuthanda kukaThixo ukuba abantwana bazithobe kubazali babo, babeke abazali babo, bathobele abazali babo ezintweni zonke. Ngoko ke, Kuyakholeka eNkosini ukuba abantwana babalulamele abazali babo ezintweni zonke,
Ukuhlonipha utata nomama sele a Umyalelo kaThixo Kumnqophiso wakudala.
wona lowo wawungowokuqala umthetho, unedinga.
Ukuba abantwana babebahlonela abazali babo, yoba yolulwe imihla yabo, emhlabeni abeza kubanika wona uYehova uThixo wabo (iEksodus 20:12)
Lo mthetho usasebenza kuMnqophiso oMtsha.
Ukuba abantwana bayabathobela abazali babo baze ngentobelo yabo babeke abazali babo, kuya kubahambela kakuhle, bahlale ixesha elide emhlabeni.
Abantwana, balulameleni abazali benu ngokwabaseNkosini: kuba oko kububulungisa. Beka uyihlo nonyoko; wona lowo ngumthetho wokuqala onedinga; ukuze kulunge kuwe, ube nexesha elide emhlabeni (Kwabase-Efese 6:1-2)
Wonke umntwana uzalelwe esonweni enesimo sesono
Wonke umntwana uzalelwe esonweni enesimo sesono (Iindumiso 51:5). Olu hlobo lunekratshi kwaye lunemvukelo kwaye aluyi kuzithoba kwabanye kodwa lufuna ukulawula kunye nokulawula.. Oku kuba sele kubonakala ekuzalweni.
Into yokuqala eyenziwa lusana xa umntwana ekhutshiwe esibelekweni sikanina (kunye nendawo ekhuselekileyo) kukulila.
Umntwana kufuneka aziqhelanise nokutshintsha kwendawo kwaye akayithandi loo nto, ebonakala ngokukhala kunye (kamva kwakhona) ukwala ukwenza oko usana luyalelwa ukuba lukwenze, njengokutya nokulala.
Ukususela ekuzalweni, Kubalulekile ukuba utata nomama bangakhokelwa ziimvakalelo zabo kunye neemvakalelo kunye nobuhle bomntwana wabo, kodwa bazimisele yaye bangaguquguquki baze bakhulise umntwana wabo kwisigxina sabo nakwindima yabo njengomzali nomnakekeli womntwana wabo nolwazi nobulumko beLizwi likaThixo..
Abazali banikwe imbopheleleko nguThixo yokunyamekela nokukhusela abantwana babo, bafundiseni, nibakhulisele ebutsheni bokomoya nasemvelweni, besoyika uYehova (ukumoyika okukhulu uThixo).
Isimo sengqondo, ukuziphatha, kunye nobomi babazali
Ekukhuliseni abantwana, abazali’ isimo sengqondo, ukuziphatha, kwaye ubomi budlala indima ebalulekileyo. Abazali bangumzekelo kubantwana babo. Abazali babonisa abantwana babo ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuzithoba nokuthobela ngokuzithoba kunye Ukuthobela uThixo nendlela abaphatha ngayo abazali babo
Bathetha njani ngoYise noYesu, kwaye benza oko Akuthethayo? Bathetha njani ngabazali babo xa bengekho?
Abantwana bayaqwalasela, mamela, kwaye oko bakuvayo nabakubonayo bakugcine ezingqondweni zabo baze bamkele abazali babo’ amagama nokuziphatha. Abantwana bakopa amazwi kunye nokuziphatha kwabo, Nangona kunjalo, abaqondi ukuba yintoni na elungileyo nembi.
Ukuba abantwana baphawula ihambo yemvukelo kubazali babo yaye abakwenzi oko kubhalwe eBhayibhileni okanye babaphathe ngendlela engafanelekanga abazali babo baze bathethe kakubi ngabo, emva koko abantwana bakhuphele le ndlela yokuziphatha, ukucinga ukuba kulungile ukwenza.
Ukuba abazali abahlali kakuhle, abafanele balindele ukuba abantwana babo baphile ngokufanelekileyo.
Okabani intando yomelele: intando yomzali okanye yomntwana?
Phantse wonke umntwana unomnqweno onamandla ofuna ukulawula entsatsheni. Ngumsebenzi womzali ‘ukwaphula’ le myolelo aze ayenze ixhomekeke kwintando yabazali.
Ayisiyonto ifunwa ngumntwana kodwa ifunwa ngabazali.
Abazali (I-WHO thanda uThixo kwaye uthobele uKristu kwaye uhambe ngeendlela zeNkosi) babe neenjongo ezintle kubantwana babo.
Banolwazi kwaye bayakwazi okulungileyo nokubi kubantwana babo.
Abantwana abakabi nalo olu lwazi kunye nokuqonda, kodwa balawulwa yinyama yabo (iimvakalelo, iimvakalelo, kunye neemvakalelo). Ngoko ke, abantwana bafanele babathembe abazali babo yaye bathembele kubazali babo’ Ulwazi kunye nobulumko.
Ukuba abantwana bayabathemba abazali babo, baya kubathobela.
Ngoko ke, njengabazali, kubalulekile ukubonisa abantwana bakho ukuba uyabathanda kwaye ubakhathalele ngezenzo zakho endaweni yokuthetha nje.
Abantwana bakufunda njani ukuzithoba nokuthobela uThixo?
Ukuzithoba kunye nokuthobela uThixo sele kuqale ekuqaleni ukukhula. Cabantwana bafunda ukungenzi intando yabo kwaye basoloko befumana indlela yabo, kodwa ukwenza ukuthanda kwabazali. Ukuba abantwana bafunda oku kwaye benze oku, baya kukwazi ukuzithoba kuThixo kwaye yenza ukuthanda kukaThixo emhlabeni.
Ukuba abantwana abakufundi oku yaye abazali ababakhuliseli ngendlela efanelekileyo abantwana babo kodwa banikela kwintando yabo baze bavumele abantwana babo benze izinto ngendlela yabo yaye bazenzele ezabo izigqibo., ukubakholisa nokubaxolisa kwaye kuthintelwe iingxoxo kunye nemilo ekhaya, ngoko abantwana abayi kukwazi ukuzithoba kwabanye (kuquka uThixo namanye amagunya) nibathobele.
Baya kuba nekratshi, bavukele, bangavumeli nabani na okanye igunya ukuba libaxelele into amakayenze. Baya kwenza kuphela ukuthanda kwabo kwaye batyhale intando yabo kwabanye kwaye balindele ukuba bazithobe kubo, kanye njengabazali babo.
I-Pedagogy iyayichasa ngokupheleleyo iBhayibhile (ILizwi likaThixo)
Namhlanje siyabona, ukuba ngokuphazamiseka kolwazi nobulumko behlabathi (i-pedagogy, Psychology kunye nengqondo), which is foolishness to God according to the Bible and diametrically oppose God’s Word, and the influence of (ezentlalo) amajelo eendaba, children are rebellious and don’t do what their parents say and want, and what God says and wants, but they stand up against their parents, uThixo, and other authorities (Owu. 1 KwabaseKorinte 3:18-21, 2 uTimoti 3:1-2).
The spirit of the world reigns in many families
The spirit of the world, which originates from the devil and dwells in his children (children of disobedience), reigns in many families, including Christian families.
Mhlawumbi uyacinga, That may be true, but in my family, the devil can’t enter. Owu, Hayi?
Do you know what television programs and movies your children watch?
Do you know what your children watch on their mobile phone, iPad, or computer and with whom they communicate?
And do you know what kind of games they play?
Are you aware of what kind of books your children read and what kind of music they listen to?
Ngeentsuku zakudala, everything was hidden, but nowadays, the influence and manifestations of demonic spirits and the darkness are clearly visible on television (ezentlalo) amajelo eendaba, imidlalo, Iipaki zokuzonwabisa, other sources of entertainment, njl.
Since many parents are too busy with themselves and their daily occupations, they miss these things.
Parents, pay attention to your children
Watch your child and pay attention to your child; know what your child is doing. Hold on to God’s Word instead of the carnal wisdom and knowledge of the world, and admonish and correct your child if needed.
Do not shy away from confrontations, but confront your child, knowing that everything you do is out of love and for the best interest of your child and eventually benefits your child.
Is it easy to raise a child in this age of time? Hayi, it’s not easy because the world is full of wickedness and darkness. But has it always been easy? Hayi, every time had its challenges.
But as parents, you’ve decided and taken on the responsibility of having children and to nurture, provide, and protect them. Raising a child is a challenge, but together as husband and wife in the power and the wisdom of God and with His help, you can do it.
‘Yibani yityuwa yehlabathi’
