Hidup bersama -sama yang tidak berkahwin atau bersekedudukan sebelum berumah tangga telah menjadi sangat biasa di dunia barat. Apa yang bermula di Scandinavia (Eropah) oleh orang dewasa muda yang tidak beragama, Sebarkan di seluruh negara Barat sepanjang dekad yang lalu. Orang -orang kafir muda tidak mahu melakukan ikatan perkahwinan lagi. Mereka tidak mahu diberitahu apa yang perlu dilakukan dan bagaimana menjalani kehidupan mereka dan mengemukakan peraturan dan peraturan. Sebaliknya, Orang muda mahu bebas dan menjalani kehidupan mereka sendiri, membuat pilihan dan peraturan mereka sendiri dalam hidup. Pada masa ini, banyak orang, termasuk orang Kristian, Pertimbangkan bersekedudukan normal dan perkara yang baik. Tetapi walaupun ramai yang menganggap tinggal bersama sebelum perkahwinan normal dan perkara yang baik, Adakah Tuhan meluluskannya? Apa yang dikatakan Alkitab mengenai hidup bersama belum berkahwin, dan sekiranya orang Kristian tinggal bersama seseorang, Siapa yang bukan pasangan mereka?
How the decline of Christianity influenced western culture and its moral standards
Malangnya, the decline of Christianity and rejection of the Bible influenced western culture and its moral standards, including replacing the institution of marriage with cohabitation, aka living together unmarried.
Many people live together unmarried and don’t see the need to get married. Sekarang, you would think that cohabitation is part of the world and that only unbelievers are living together unmarried. Tetapi malangnya, itu tidak berlaku.
Due to the carnal mindset and the worldliness of Christians, yang berjalan selepas daging, many Christians adopted the customs of the world, including living together unmarried.
They have the spirit of this world abiding in them. Itu, they think and live just like the world. They have replaced the holy institution of marriage with cohabitation, and use many lies to approve it. Because shouldn’t you get to know each other first, before you get married and make a marriage commitment?
What does the Bible say about the marriage covenant?
The Bible says that God instituted marriage as a holy covenant between a man and a woman. Through the marriage covenant, the man will be bound to a woman, dan mereka akan menjadi satu daging. Kerana fakta, that marriage is a holy institution coming from God, God provides His blessing.
Oleh itu seorang lelaki akan meninggalkan bapa dan ibunya, dan akan berpaut kepada isterinya: dan mereka akan menjadi satu daging (Kejadian 2:24)
Dan Dia (Yesus) menjawab dan berkata kepada mereka, Adakah kamu tidak membaca, that He which made them at the beginning made them male and female, dan berkata, Untuk sebab ini seorang lelaki hendaklah meninggalkan bapa dan ibu, dan akan berpegang pada isterinya: dan mereka Twain akan menjadi satu daging? Oleh itu mereka tidak lagi Twain, Tetapi satu daging. Oleh itu, Tuhan telah bergabung bersama, Janganlah manusia meletakkan Asunder (Matthew 19:4-6)
Apa yang Tuhan katakan mengenai perceraian dalam Alkitab?
Alkitab mengatakan bahawa Tuhan membenci perceraian (Perjanjian Perjanjian Perkahwinan) Seperti yang kita baca di Malachi 2:16.
Oleh itu, berhati -hati dengan semangat anda, Dan janganlah berurusan dengan pengkhianatan terhadap isteri belia. Untuk Tuhan, Tuhan Israel, berkata bahawa dia membenci menanggalkan (Hantar (perceraian)): untuk satu meliputi keganasan dengan pakaiannya, berkata tuan tuan rumah: Oleh itu, berhati -hati dengan semangat anda, bahawa anda tidak berurusan dengan khianat. (Malachi 2:15-16)
Syaitan membenci perjanjian perkahwinan dan suka perceraian
Seperti Tuhan membenci perceraian, Iblis membenci perkahwinan. Syaitan membenci setiap perjanjian yang dimulakan Tuhan, termasuk perjanjian perkahwinan. Itu, Iblis akan melakukan segala yang dia dapat untuk mencemarkan dan memusnahkan perjanjian perkahwinan.
Bagaimana syaitan mencemarkan dan memusnahkan perjanjian perkahwinan? Melalui perzinaan, zina, Hidup bersama belum berkahwin, Perkahwinan Terbuka, dan perkahwinan seks yang sama.
Through the approval and instituting of same-sex marriages, the holy marriage covenant between a man and a woman is defiled. No matter what the devil makes people believe and what people find, God never approves of same-sex marriage. That’s because God considers homosexuality an abomination, dan itu tidak akan pernah berubah. (Baca juga: Apa yang Alkitab katakan tentang homoseksualiti?).
Isn’t it odd that homosexuals do everything they can to make same-sex marriages legal, while heterosexuals don’t want to get married anymore, but live together unmarried?
The devil not only uses fornication, zina, dan perceraian to defile and break the marriage covenant, but also cohabitation..
The devil makes Christians believe that there is nothing wrong with living together unmarried or to be living together before marriage.
Because of his lies, many Christians consider living together unmarried as rather good, because how else will you get to know the person? If you live apart from each other, you will not be able to fully get to know each other.
Maybe distance plays a role, so it’s easier to move in together. Many Christians also say that times and the world have changed. Itu, they approve of living together unmarried.
Ya, the devil uses many lies to mislead Christians and makes them believe his words instead of God’s words. So that they do his will instead of God’s will. Just like the devil did in the Taman Eden when he tempted Eve with his deceptive lying words.
Seorang anak lelaki atau anak perempuan Tuhan mematuhi Alkitab (Firman Tuhan) dan tidak hidup bersama belum berkahwin
Tetapi anak lelaki atau anak perempuan Tuhan yang benar, yang dipenuhi dengan Roh Kudus, dan mempunyai sifatnya, tidak akan pernah hidup bersama belum berkahwin!
Anak -anak dan anak perempuan Tuhan mengasihi dan mematuhi Bapa mereka dan melakukan kehendak -Nya dan tidak akan melakukan sesuatu yang bersedih kepada Bapa dan Roh -Nya. Mereka tidak akan mendengar kata -kata dan nasihat syaitan, kerana hidup bersama belum berkahwin adalah di luar ikatan perkahwinan, dan oleh itu ia adalah dosa. Roh Kudus, Yang tinggal di dalam orang itu, hendaklah banduan orang yang bersekedudukan dosa ini.
Apa yang dikatakan Alkitab mengenai hidup bersama belum berkahwin?
Alkitab jelas mengenai kehendak Tuhan mengenai hidup bersama yang belum berkahwin atau menjalin hubungan seks dengan lelaki atau wanita, Siapa bukan pasangan anda. Jesus was also very clear about sexual relationships outside the bonds of marriage, when He confronted the Samaritan woman by the well of Jacob.
When Jesus sat down by the well of Jacob in Sichar, which is a city in Samaria, a Samaritan woman came to draw water. When Jesus asked the Samaritan woman to give Him water to drink, she replied, how He, seorang Yahudi, could ask her, a Samaritan, to give Him water to drink. Because Jews were not allowed to hang out with Samaritans. Then Jesus witnessed about the living water, that only He could provide. When the woman heard His words, she asked Jesus to give her of this living water. Sekarang, let’s see, what Jesus said to her:
Jesus saith unto her, Pergi, call thy husband, and come hither. The woman answered and said, I have no husband. Yesus berkata kepadanya, Thou hast well said, I have no husband: Kerana Engkau mempunyai lima suami; dan dia yang sekarang kamu tidak suami: di dalamnya mengatakan bahawa anda benar -benar (John 4:17-18).
Wanita ini mempunyai lima suami, yang bukan suami sahnya, Tetapi dengan siapa dia menjalin hubungan seksual. Dan yang dia ada ketika itu bukan suaminya sama ada. Dia bersama seorang lelaki, yang dia tidak berkahwin dan Yesus berhadapan dengannya dengan perkara ini.
Adalah kehendak Tuhan yang bersekedudukan sebelum ini atau dosa?
Bersekedudukan sebelum berumah tangga bukanlah kehendak Tuhan. Sekiranya anda tinggal bersama seseorang, Siapa bukan pasangan anda, Anda hidup dalam dosa. Tidak kira sama ada anda mempunyai hubungan seksual atau tidak (yang hampir mustahil). Hakikatnya, bahawa anda tinggal di bawah bumbung yang sama dan berkongsi rumah bersama di luar ikatan perkahwinan.
Ini juga terpakai kepada orang Kristian yang belum berkahwin, who are sleeping together and having sex before marriage. If you live together unmarried or if you live apart but have a sexual relationship with someone, Siapa bukan pasangan anda, you commit fornication. Fornication is not according to God’s will and therefore it is a sin.
Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Namun begitu, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband (1 Korintus 7:1-2)
I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. (1 Korintus 7:8-9)
many Christians live like the world
Orang Kristian, who live together before marriage and/or have a sexual relationship without being married, are carnal and belong to the world. They don’t have the mind of Christ but they have the mind of the world and do the works of the world.
The world approves of living together unmarried, tetapi menurut Alkitab, they commit fornication and therefore they are fornicators. Although they confess they believe and are Christians, their works prove something else.
The devil also believes and the devil is not saved. Only the works and life of a person prove to whom a person belongs: dunia (syaitan) or Jesus Christ. (Baca juga: ‘Kehendak Tuhan vs kehendak syaitan').
Rakyat, who love Jesus shall listen to His words, mematuhi kata -katanya, dan hidup menurut kehendak-Nya. They shall remove all the sins and uncleanness of this world, that cause separation between them and God from their lives.
Tetapi rakyat, who love the world shall listen to what the world and unregenerate people say, and live like the world. They shall do those things, that are an kekejian to God and oppose His will. Itu, a person’s life shows to whom a person belongs.
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge (Ibrani 13:4 (nota: this has been written after the crucifixion and resurrection of Jesus Christ and therefore part of the Perjanjian Baru)
Has the church failed in keeping the marriage honorable and preventing fornication?
It is the responsibility of the church to bind and to loose; to forbid the sinful works of darkness and to permit the righteous works of the Kingdom of God. Namun begitu, the church has not guarded her gates as it should.
The church didn’t close the doors of the gate for the works of the world and doktrin palsu. Sebaliknya, the church opened the doors and allowed the doctrines and the works of the world, including fornication into the church. Because if you live together unmarried you commit fornication.
When the first signs of premarital cohabitation became visible and more and more young people wanted and decided to live together unmarried, the church should have taken her stand upon the Word of God.
The church should have stayed obedient to Jesus Christ; the Living Word and Head of the church. The church should have stayed faithful in representing God’s will and Kingdom.
(The leaders of) the church should have said, God instituted the marriage covenant and believers should keep the marriage honorable.
The church should have talked, Disiplin, and corrected the young people of the congregation, who wanted to do the will of the flesh and live together unmarried.
The church should have stand on the Bible and addressed that living together unmarried is fornication and not according to God’s will. Then if the young people would decide to not listen to the words of God and submit to His will, but rather stay rebellious against the words of God, the church should have removed them dari gereja, for the sake and well-being and protection of the other believers in the congregation. Kerana sedikit ragi membuat seluruh bongkah. (Baca juga: ‘Apa maksudnya untuk menyampaikan seseorang kepada Syaitan?’).
Selain itu, if the church would have taken a stand on the Word and stayed faithful to the Word, the fear of the Lord would have remained in the church.
Has the church bowed to young people?
But the church didn’t act that way. Instead of taking a stand on the Word; Yesus, and staying faithful and obedient to Jesus Christ, the church bowed to the will of rebellious young people and compromised with the world.
By allowing Christians to live together unmarried, the church allowed the spirit of this world and the spirit of fornication in the church.
Maybe the church was afraid of losing the young people. But the result of allowing cohabitation is that the church is now full of (Tersembunyi) sexual uncleanness and perversion, like living together unmarried, having sexual relationships without being married, melancap, dan lain-lain.).
The church is full of fornicators, Pesakit, cheaters, ’Johns’, whoremongers, homoseksual, sneaky porn watchers, pedofil, zoophiliacs, Dan sebagainya. Even many church leaders have a spirit of fornication dwelling in them. (Baca juga: Apa yang dikatakan oleh dosa pemimpin gereja tentang mereka?).
Many Christians are caught in a web of lies
Semua perkara itu, yang merupakan kekejian for God are done, by God’s so-called sons and daughters. The devil has succeeded in deceiving Christians and taking the church captive by his lies. Dan perkara yang paling teruk ialah, that most Christians, termasuk pemimpin gereja, are spiritually blind. Mereka tidak melihat dan menyedari bahawa mereka ditipu dan ditangkap dalam kebohongan syaitan.
Ramai orang Kristian berfikir, bahawa mereka menggembirakan Tuhan, Walaupun Tuhan telah meninggalkan mereka. Kerana bagaimana kebenaran dapat berkomunikasi dengan kejahatan? Bagaimanakah kekudusan dapat berkomunikasi dengan dosa? Apa yang sama dengan cahaya dengan kegelapan?
Yesus menangani dosa dan masalah dosa manusia yang jatuh. Jadi itu, oleh iman dan Penjanaan semula dalam dirinya, Semua orang mempunyai keupayaan untuk menjadi Penciptaan Baru Tanpa sifat dosa dan berjalan sebagai anak lelaki atau anak perempuan Tuhan dalam kebenaran dan kekudusan yang memerintah atas dosa dan kematian.
Gereja dan orang dapat meluluskan semua jenis perkara, Tetapi perkataan itu adalah kebenaran dan perkataan itu memutuskan. Akhirnya, ia bukan manusia tetapi Perkataan yang akan menilai setiap lelaki mengikut karya -karyanya (Wahyu 20:12, 15).
Itu, firman Tuhan: “Repent, while you still can and remove the sins, which are those things that I hate and are an abomination to Me and go against My will, out of your life”
‘Be the salt of the world’
