Kan en kristen onanere? Dette er et af de mange spørgsmål, kristne har angående ting i livet, der er normale for verden, men tvivlsomme for kristne. Masturbation is considered normal in the world, but what does the Bible say about masturbation? Er onani en synd i Bibelen eller ej? When something becomes questionable in your life, you already know the answer. Because the Holy Spirit has revealed to you, that as a believer and follower of Jesus Christ, it doesn’t belong in your life. Desværre, many Christians have a rebellious character. De er ikke villige til at fjerne visse ting fra deres liv, because they enjoy doing it. Af den grund, Christians try to find reasons and excuses to make something approved to do. Mange gange, the love for the flesh is greater than the love for Jesus Christ. The love for the flesh always causes strive with the Spirit. But are Christians allowed to masturbate? Does God approve of masturbation or is masturbation against the will of God and is it a sin to masturbate?
The spiritual realm becomes visible in
the natural realm
Whatever happens in the spiritual realm will eventually become visible in the natural realm. Nothing remains hidden, everything will be exposed.
If you would like to know what kind of demonic forces are active in families, huse, steder, byer, lande, territories, og verden, then all you need to do is look at the lives of the people and people’s behavior.
Because demons, who are unclean spirits, want to possess people to manifest themselves. Demons are always looking into whose life they can enter, and whom they can tempt, kontrollere, and eventually destroy. Because that is the mission of demons, to tempt, possess, og ødelægge.
The world revolves around sex
Vi lever i en verden, where everything revolves around sex. Næsten overalt, hvor du går, you will be confronted with sexual content. Like for example in newspapers, magasiner, bøger, on television, i annoncer, på sociale medier, i skolen, and at work. And let’s not forget the conversations between people (Læs også: What is the spiritual danger of television?).
What used to be forbidden and considered a taboo is no longer forbidden and considered a taboo. But it has been accepted and become common. Dette skete ikke fra den ene dag til den anden, but it happened very slowly.
When you watched a movie in the old days, it was provocative for actors to kiss each other. Men nu til dags, the actors are naked and kiss each other and are intimate with each other in front of the crew and the cameras. There is no taboo and no shame anymore.
All because of the sexual influence in people’s lives and the fact that many unclean works of the flesh are normalized, masturbation is no longer considered a taboo but has become normal. Most people talk freely about masturbation and are not ashamed of masturbation.
Can Christians masturbate?
But what happens, when you become a Christian? What happens when you believe in Jesus Christ and repent of your sins and accept Jesus as your Saviour and Lord and become born again in Christ and you lay down your flesh? (Læs også: What is repentance really?)
When you become a new creation in Christ, can you keep masturbating? Godt, is masturbation a work of the Spirit or a work of the flesh?
The Bible says that you have to put off the works of the flesh. Derfor, if masturbation is not a work of the Spirit but masturbation is a work of the flesh, you have to put off masturbation according to the Bible (Læs også: Hvordan man udsætter den gamle mand?).
When and why do you masturbate?
When do you masturbate? You masturbate when you are wrought up and overwhelmed with sexual feelings of lust in your flesh that you want to satisfy. These carnal sexual feelings of lust don’t appear suddenly, they don’t appear out of the blue. But these feelings of lust came from your carnal senses (what you perceived) and your carnal mind.
Your senses perceived sexually explicit images or content, which entered your mind. I dit sind, you dwelled upon these sexual images, tilfreds, and fantasies, which provoked these sexual feelings of lust. These sexual feelings of lust may lead to masturbation.
Before the act of masturbation takes place, many things have already taken place in your mind and your body.
You can’t masturbate without sexual thoughts, sexual images, and/or sexual fantasies. That is impossible! Because sexual thoughts or sexual images lead to sexual feelings of lust that lead to masturbation.
Masturbation is nurtured by your senses and carnal mind. Therefore it’s important what you watch, hvad du læser, hvad du lytter til, and what you do.
Watching television may lead to masturbation
Let’s look at a few examples from daily life that can stir up feelings of sexual lust. Let’s start with the eyes and what you look at. When you watch a movie, serie, or program on television with sexual content, the sexual images will settle in your mind and can provoke sexual feelings of lust.
Hvad sker der i det åndelige område? I det åndelige rige, the unclean spirit of lust will try to enter your life via these images. This is the same unclean spirit of lust, from which the movie, serie,s or program has originated.
When the spirit of lust has entered your life, the unclean spirit will manifest itself in your flesh. He will defile your mind and bring up perverse thoughts and images to your mind and create sexual fantasies that will cause sexual feelings of lust, you want to satisfy. The only way to satisfy these feelings of lust is by masturbating and so you will masturbate.
Porn may lead to masturbation
And let’s not forget porn. Det er utroligt, how many Christians watch porn (hemmeligt) on television, internettet, in erotic magazines, etc.. They feed themselves with unclean images that defile their minds. (Læs også: ‘Hvad er faren ved pornografi?).
These unclean images represent everything that goes against the Word of God. Som f.eks, utugt, ægteskabsbrud, førægteskabelig sex, same-sex, gruppesex, sex with animals, sex with minors, og så videre.
These sexual images and content enter your mind and open the door for an unclean spirit of lust to enter your life, and possess your mind and shall not leave you alone.
This spirit of lust will constantly bring up these unclean images in your mind and provoke sexual feelings of lust. And to satisfy these feelings of lust, you will masturbate.
Not only through television, (social) medier, bøger, magasiner, and porn you may be confronted with sexual images and content. In your daily life, you can also be confronted with sexual images; via billboards or the way someone is dressed on the street, i skolen, på arbejde, or even in the church. You look at that person and what you perceive can create sexual thoughts and perverse images in your mind that can lead to feelings of lust. The feelings of lust may lead to masturbation.
romantic books may lead to masturbation
An unclean spirit of sexual lust can also enter your life through (social) medier, bøger, and magazines. The words you read can create sexual images, tanker, and fantasies in your mind that provoke sexual feelings of lust. These feelings of lust may lead to masturbation.
What are you listening to?
Lad os sige, you are conversing with someone and suddenly, the person tells you a dirty joke or story. Ved at lytte, you grant your ears to the dirty words, som bliver talt. These dirty words will be transformed into sexual thoughts and images in your mind. These sexual thoughts and images in your mind can provoke sexual feelings of lust, which could lead to masturbation.
What do you feel?
During sports, i skolen, or at your job, you can become very close to someone or someone may have ulterior motives. The person tries to seduce you by standing close to you, touching you, or embracing you, which could cause sexual fantasies, and provoke sexual feelings of lust, which you will satisfy by masturbating.
What do you drink?
Alcohol and sex are spiritual friends. When you drink a couple of glasses of wine, beer, eller andre alkoholholdige drikkevarer, the alcohol will provoke sexual feelings of lust, which can lead to masturbation.
These are just some of the many examples, whereby sexual feelings of lust are provoked that can lead to masturbation.
Masturbation is a work of the flesh and not of the spirit
One thing is certain, masturbation originates from your feelings and is a work of the flesh. Your feelings are controlled by your mind. Your mind is fed by what you perceive with your senses. Dette betyder, that if you are overwhelmed with sexual feelings of lust, then a lot of things have already taken place in your mind.
It is important to live a disciplined life and to keep an eye on your senses to guard your mind.
You have to be careful what you watch, hvad du læser, hvem du lytter til, etc. (Læs også: Hvorfor skal du passe på dit sind?)
You should guard your mind from unclean sexual images or content that can create sexual fantasies. You must be careful about what thoughts you dwell upon in your mind.
When you seek the things that are above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of the Father and are busy with the things of the Kingdom of God and keep your mind pure and holy and guard your senses and mind against these sexual images, tilfreds, and fantasies, then your mind shall not provoke sexual feelings of lust that lead to masturbation.
But as soon as you seek the things on earth and allow the things of this world to enter your mind and you open yourself to all kinds of sexual filthiness that create sexual images, tanker, and fantasies in your mind, then feelings of lust will be provoked and it won’t be long before you will masturbate.
Committing adultery through masturbation
Many Christians are also ignorant of the fact that when you masturbate you commit adultery.
You can’t masturbate without having erotic images, tanker, or fantasies in your mind. Siger Bibelen, that if you only look at a person with lust, then you have already committed adultery.
What does the Bible say about sexual thoughts, billeder, and fantasies?
Du har hørt, at det blev sagt af dem fra gammel tid, Du må ikke begå hor: Men jeg siger jer, At enhver, der ser på en kvinde for at begære hende, allerede har begået hor med hende i sit hjerte (Matthew 5:27-28)
Jesus knew the spirit realm. He knew the consequences in the spiritual realm of an act in the natural realm. (Læs også: Kæmper mod en usynlig fjende).
Jesus knew what would happen if you lust in your mind (hjerte) after someone, hvem er ikke din ægtefælle. Derfor sagde Jesus, that if you lust after someone, hvem er ikke din ægtefælle, you have already committed adultery in your heart.
When you allow that spirit of lust to have its way in your mind and create sexual images of another person in your mind, derefter i det åndelige område, you will be joined together with that person.
What does the Bible say about feelings of lust and desire?
Blandt hvem havde vi også alle vores samtale i tidligere tider i vores køds lyster, opfylder kødets og sindets ønsker; og var af naturen Børn af vrede, selv som andre (Efeserne 2:3)
Folk, who are not born again or are spiritual babies, live in subjection to their flesh. They are led by their senses, kødelige sind, og følelser. Their feelings, følelser, and thoughts reign in their lives and dictate them what to do. If the flesh wants to satisfy its sexual lusts and desires, they obey the flesh and masturbate.
But born-again believers, som er Guds sønner (hanner og hunner) walk after the Spirit and not after the flesh. They rule over their thoughts, følelser, følelser, og vilje. (Læs også: ‘Tag autoritet over dine tanker, før de tager autoritet over dig’).
The Holy Spirit dwells in them and they discern the spirits and see, what takes place in the spiritual realm.
They discern the darkness from light. Derfor, they’ll turn away from things, that cause unclean thoughts, billeder, og følelser. Not because they can’t control their feelings, but because they don’t want to defile their minds.
They don’t want to have communion with unclean spirits. They don’t want to be partakers of the works of darkness. I stedet, they keep their minds pure.
The children of God discern good from evil. They won’t engage in evil, because they know where evil originates from. They know that sin leads to bondage and death. (Læs også: Skal du ikke dø, hvis du bliver ved med at synde?)
When you masturbate, you obey your flesh and are a slave of your flesh. You obey this unclean spirit that operates in your flesh and controls your mind. You give what this spirit of lust demands, which is sex.
Masturbation is a bondage of the flesh
Masturbation is a bondage of the flesh (afhængighed). Therefore masturbation is not a one-time thing. Once you start masturbating and obey and feed that spirit of lust through masturbation, you allow that spirit of lust to rule over you. You become his slave and become addicted to masturbation and you shall not be able to stop masturbating.
The images in your mind that turned you on in the beginning, shall not work anymore. Therefore you shall push your boundaries and create more perverse sexual thoughts, billeder, and fantasies.
How to stop masturbation?
When you become aware of who keeps you in bondage and you don’t want to be controlled by that evil spirit anymore and you want to stop masturbating, then you should stop obeying his commandment to masturbate. You should command that spirit of lust to leave your body and stop giving in what he wants.
You shall command him to go, in the Name of Jesus and that spirit must obey your command. Because you have been given the authority in Jesus Christ (Læs også: Tro på Jesu navn).
But it’s all about your will. Do you really want to stop masturbating and be delivered from your masturbation addiction?
Is your love for Jesus greater than the love for your flesh?
If your will is possessed by an evil spirit and you think you don’t have any willpower and are not able to cast out this unclean spirit from your life, then you can search for a fellow believer, who is born again and walks after the Spirit in the authority of Christ and can deliver you from these demonic powers.
The authority of Jesus and the power of the Holy Spirit can set any person free instantly.
No human therapy can compete with that. It doesn’t matter if you are possessed by one demonic spirit or hundreds of demonic spirits. I Jesu Kristi Navn, you can be set free instantly. (Læs også: Findes kristen psykologi?).
What do you do when the spirit of lust returns?
Hvad laver du, if you are delivered and the evil spirit tries to return, by bringing up unclean images and thoughts in your mind, or feelings of lust in your body? Don’t give in! But remind him that you’ve commanded him to go in the Name of Jesus.
You tell him he has no right to occupy your mind. Because your mind belongs to Jesus Christ. You are not his servant anymore but you are a servant of Christ.
You should take every thought, det går imod Guds ord, captive in Jesus Christ; ordet. But you can only do that if you know the Word.
Therefore you have to read and study the Bible. You have to feed your mind with the words of God and meditate on the Word. You should dwell day and night on the words of God and let them not depart from your mind. As long as your mind stays on the Word of God, you will see that these feelings of lust will leave your mind and your body.
What happens when church leaders masturbate?
As long as someone does the works of the flesh, the person is bound to the flesh. At vide dette, how can a pastor, pastor, ældre, pastoral caretaker, or other church leader, who is bound to the flesh by a spirit of lust, deliver others from a demonic spirit of lust? Det er umuligt!
If a church leader masturbates and preaches to the congregation, then the spirit of lust that controls the preacher’s life will be transferred to the hearers. When a person comes for help, and the church leader prays and lays hands on the person, this spirit of lust will be transferred into his life.
Church leaders should not be carnal and should not be slaves of the flesh and live in sin. But church leaders should live holy and walk as mature sons of God after the Spirit in righteousness in obedience to God and His Word.
How can church leaders lead, guide, and correct the congregation if their own life is one big mess? How can they preach sanctification, if they don’t live holy lives?
And how can they walk after the Spirit if they keep walking after the flesh fulfilling the lusts and desires of their flesh?
If you are born again and the Spirit of God abides in you, then you shall not walk after the flesh anymore, but you shall walk after the Spirit as the new creation (romere 8:9)
When you masturbate and satisfy your carnal sexual feelings, you obey your flesh and are still a slave of your flesh (romere 8:12).
God is a holy God. God expects from His sons and daughters, who are born of Him and have His Holy Spirit abiding in them, that they obey God and walk holy because they have the nature of their Father.
May single Christians masturbate?
May single Christians masturbate? The fact that someone is single doesn’t give someone the right to masturbate. Whatever the world and other so-called Christians say. A single Christian has no exceptional position to keep doing the works of the flesh and satisfy carnal lusts and desires. Single Christians have to lay down the works of the flesh, including masturbation.
If you are a single Christian and you masturbate on sexual images, tanker, and fantasies, you defile your mind and commit adultery.
Paul said the following, Nu om det, som I skrev til mig: Det er godt for en mand ikke at røre en kvinde. Ikke desto mindre, for at undgå utugt, lad enhver mand have sin egen kone, og lad enhver kvinde have sin egen mand (1 Korinterne 7:1-2)
Defraud you not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency (1 Korinterne 7:5-6)
Although this applies to marriage, this principle of temptation applies to every Christian.
When satan tempts you with feelings of sexual lust and desire and you are unable to master these feelings then the Bible says you have a lack of self-control (incontinence (Læs også: Kan du modstå fristelsen?)).
It’s therefore important to crucify the will, lyster, and desires of the flesh and to put off the old man and Sæt på den nye mand and walk after the Spirit.
Når du går efter Ånden, you shall not fulfill the lust and desires of the flesh.
A married person cares for things of the world (to please the spouse). An unmarried person cares for the things of the Lord. How the person may please the Lord (1 Korinterne 7:32).
How do you reign over sexual feelings?
When you are not married and walk after the Spirit, you shall care for the things of the Kingdom of God. As long as you stay focused upon the Kingdom of God and seek those things that are above, instead of the things that are in this world, you won’t be bothered with sexual unclean thoughts, fantasies, or feelings of lust.
That’s how you reign over sexual feelings, by walking after the Spirit and seeking the things that are above and by being busy with the things of the Kingdom of God.
When you are single, and you wrestle with sexual feelings of lust, that will lead to masturbation, then it’s important to ask yourself, with what things do you feed your mind? Do you feed your mind with the Word (reading and studying the Bible), og det, der hører Guds rige til? Or do you feed your mind with the entertainment and the things of this world? (Læs også: Lad mig underholde dig!)
The church of Christ should live holy and righteous
They that are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts (Galaterne 5:24)
Kristi legeme bør leve helligt og retfærdigt. Kirken burde vandre efter Ånden og ikke efter kødet. Mange seksuelle urenheder finder sted i Kristi legeme, hvorved mange kirker er blevet besmittede.
Det sker jævnligt, at præster, Prædikanter, tilbedelsesledere, pastorale viceværter, eller andre ledere eller medlemmer af kirken ser porno, onanere, begå utroskab, utugt, har homoseksuelle forhold, seksuelt misbrugte børn, etc. Hvorfor sker dette? Fordi de er kødelige og styret af en begærs ånd og ledet af kødelige følelser af begær og begær.
Alle disse seksuelle urene gerninger af kødet finder sted blandt kirkeledere og kirkemedlemmer, fordi de ikke virkelig er født på ny.
De har ikke korsfæstet deres kød i Kristus. De kan sige, at de er født på ny og har korsfæstet deres kød i Kristus, men deres handlinger taler højere end deres ord.
If they keep walking after the flesh, they are led by the flesh. (Læs også: ‘Hvad siger Bibelen om homoseksualitet?‘ og ‘Vidste du, hvad der skete i byen Gibea‘).
Utugt, og al urenhed, eller eftertrædelse, Lad det ikke en gang navngivet blandt jer, som det passer de hellige; Hverken snavshed, heller ikke tåbelig tale, heller ikke jesting, som ikke er praktiske: men snarere tak. For dette ved I, at ingen horemonger, heller ikke uren person, heller ikke begjær mand, Hvem er en afgudsdirektør, har enhver arv i Kristi rige og af Gud (Efeserne 5:3-5)
If the flesh (with the affections and lusts) is crucified, which means that the flesh is dead, how can a person walk in it? You can only walk in it if the flesh is not dead but alive.
God wants your sanctification
God wants your sanctification. Because that is the will of God, that you abstain from fornication, that you know how to possess your vessel in sanctification and honour and not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles, who know not God (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5)
That unbelievers masturbate is normal, because they belong to the world and don’t know God and live without Him. They live from their fallen state and walk after the flesh in submission to the will, lyster, og deres køds ønsker.
But a child of God, who is born of His Spirit, har crucified the flesh with all the lusts and desires, og skal ikke længere vandre som en træl af deres kød som en synder og leve i synd. Men de vil herske over deres kød (Læs også: Lad synden ikke længere herske som konge i dit liv!).
Hvad siger Bibelen om onani? Hvorfor er onani en synd?
For alt, hvad der er i verden, kødets begær, og øjnenes lyst, og livets stolthed, er ikke af Faderen, men er af verden (1 John 2;16)
Hvad siger Bibelen om onani? Er onani en synd? Ifølge hvad der er skrevet ovenfor og skrifterne, vi kan konkludere, at onani er en synd. Onani er et køds værk. Derfor er onani imod Guds vilje og hans ord.
Når du onanerer, har du samleje med dig selv, med dit kød. Dit kød skriger og kræver at blive seksuelt tilfredsstillet, og du giver, hvad dit kød vil have.
Hvis Bibelen siger, at et Guds barn ikke skulle vandre efter kødet; efter hans kødelige lyster og begær, hvordan kan et Guds barn onanere? Onani er en seksuel handling, der stammer fra følelser af kødet og er et køds værk. Onani er en handling af lydighed mod kødet.
Det nye liv i Jesus Kristus
Gå i Ånden, og I skal ikke opfylde kødets lyst (Galaterne 5:16-17)
Livet i Jesus Kristus er ikke en religion, der består af at følge alle slags regler og forskrifter, du tilføjer til dit liv, så du kommer til himlen (Læs også: Religion eller forhold?).
Hvis du har omvendt dig, så ønsker du ikke at leve, som du levede før din omvendelse.
Når du er døbt til Kristi døde og din ånd opstår fra de døde, og du modtager dåben med Helligånden, din natur har ændret sig.
Djævelens syndige natur, der er til stede i kødet og altid har regeret i dit liv, udskydes og erstattes af en ny hellig Guds natur, der er til stede i ånden.
Du og dit liv vil ændre sig, fordi Guds Helligånd bor i dig. Og så længe du underkaster dig Jesus Kristus og vandrer i lydighed mod Ordet efter Ånden, du skal gøre hans vilje og gøre, hvad der behager ham.
Gud skal aldrig godkende kødets gerninger
Desværre, mange kristne er ikke villige til at nedlægge deres kød med dets lyster og begær. Derfor, de justerer og ændrer Guds ord, så de kan blive ved med at gå efter kødet og opfylde viljen, lyster, og kødets ønsker, og leve som verden, uden at føle sig fordømt. (Læs også: Vil Gud ændre sin vilje for menneskers lyster og ønsker?).
Men selvom prædikanter godkender onani og siger, at det ikke gør noget, at du onanerer, mange gange siger de dette, fordi de onanerer, Gud skal aldrig godkende kødets gerninger. Gud skal aldrig velsigne synd. Derfor vil Gud ikke godkende onani. Fordi onani er et køds værk og ikke Åndens værk.
Gud er meget klar i sit ord. Lige meget hvilke mennesker, der kalder sig kristne, sige, herunder prædikanter, teologer, profeter, etc. Guds ord er og forbliver sandheden og står for evigt! Til sidst, det er Guds ord, der skal dømme enhver efter hans eller hendes gerninger.
Hvis du adlyder kødet og bliver ved med at gøre kødets gerninger, skal du tjene Djævelen og ophøje og herliggøre ham i stedet for Gud (Læs også: Djævelens magt drives af synd)
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