Obaba, ungavusa izingane zakho ukumelana nentukuthelo, funa badangele (AbaseKolose 3:21)
KwabaseKolose 3:21, UPawulu wanikeza umyalo kokhokho bebandla eColosse mayelana nokuxhumana kwabo nezingane zabo. Njengoba uPawulu ayala amadoda evesini 19 ukungabambi kepha thandani oshade naye ngothando oluphikisayo, Wayala obaba ukuthi bangavuli izingane zabo..
Obaba, ungavusa izingane zakho ukumelana nentukuthelo
Ngalezo zinsuku, ukucasulwa kobaba kuya ezinganeni zabo vele kwenzeka. Kuyo sonke leso sikhathi, Akukho lutho olushintshile emvelweni nasekuziphatheni kwe (abaningi) Obaba maqondana nokuxhumana kwabo nezingane zabo.
Namhlanje, Kusekhona obaba abaningi abavusa izingane zabo ngentukuthelo. Esikhundleni sobaba bathatha umthwalo wemfanelo uNkulunkulu awunikeza ngokungathi sína, kanye negunya labo lobuzali nobuqotho babo, Ukukhulisa Izingane Zabo NgokweZwi LikaNkulunkulu Nentando Yakhe, basebenzise kabi igunya labo labazali.
Basebenzisa kabi iziphathimandla zabo zabazali futhi bakhulisa izingane zabo endaweni evelele amandla futhi bazicasule intukuthelo futhi kaningi zijabulela lokho.
Kukhona obaba, abacabanga kakhulu ngokwabo futhi abakaze baneliseke ngokuziphatha nasekusebenzeni kwengane yabo. Bahlala besho lokho okushodayo nokuthi yini engenziwa kangcono, Ingane elahlekile noma eyenza ngayo okungalungile, esikhundleni sababa bamukela ingane yabo.
Ubaba omningi uvusa izingane zabo ukucasulwa ngamahlaya. Nokho, amahlaya noma cha, Ukuvusa izingane kuthukuthele akukuhle.
Njengobaba, Akufanele uvuse izingane zakho ukumelana ngoba kudikibalisa futhi kudideze izingane futhi kubenze bathukuthele. (AbaseKolose 3:21, Kwabase-Efesu 6:4).
Ukuvusa izingane zakho kuthukuthele kungaholela ekungavikelelweni, ukudama, ukudabuka, ukudangala noma ulaka, isiswekali, inzondo, futhi kwesinye isikhathi ngisho nokubulala.
Obaba kufanele bahlanganyele nezingane zabo ngendlela enothando
Njengobaba, Unomthwalo wemfanelo wokuxhumana nezingane zakho ngendlela enothando futhi uzikhulise ngokwesaba uJehova ngokulunga kweZwi likaNkulunkulu eliphilayo namagugu avela eZwini likaNkulunkulu (Ibhayibheli).
Ukulungisa, ukujezisa, nokukhuza izingane kufanele zenziwe othandweni hhayi intukuthelo
Njengoba kushiwo ngaphakathi Isihloko esedlule, ukujezisa, ukulungiswa, Futhi ukukhuzwa nakho kuyingxenye yemisebenzi yabazali maqondana nokukhulisa kanye nemfundo yezingane. Nokho, Lokhu kufanele kwenziwe ngolwazi lukaNkulunkulu, ukuhlakanipha, nothando, okuthululelwa enhliziyweni yekholwa elizelwe kabusha, noMoya hhayi enyameni, ukuze usabele emizweni yakho (Umuzwa).
Ubaba unesifiso esihle sezingane zakhe enhliziyweni
Obaba kufanele bamukele futhi bahloniphe izingane zabo futhi babe nentshisekelo yengane enhle kakhulu enhliziyweni. Njengoba ubaba wethu anenzuzo enhle yezingane zakhe enhliziyweni. Lokhu akusho ukuthi uNkulunkulu wamukela konke futhi avumele izingane zakhe ukuba zenze noma yini ezifunayo futhi qhubeka ukona.
Izingane kufanele zizithobe kuYise futhi zimlalele. Izingane zizokwenza akushoyo, lapho bembonisa khona lokho bayamthanda futhi umthembe.
Lithi iZwi, Ngubani uJehova omthandayo uyalahla futhi ahlaze yonke indodana ayitholayo.
Ngakho-ke, Ingane engabina necala nguNkulunkulu ingumBastard hhayi indodana (lokhu kusebenza kokubili abesilisa nabesifazane) futhi akayona eyakhe. (Oh. Izaga 3:11-12, amaHebheru 12:5-11, IsAmbulo 3:19).
A (ngokomoya) Ubaba uhlala egwema ingane yakhe, Ngoba ubaba uyazi ukuthi ingane ayivuli futhi igxilile ngokuhlasela nokungena emuva emhlane, Kepha ngolwazi lwabazali, isiphathimandla, ukulungiswa, kanye nokujeziswa kwengane kwakhiwa futhi kuba nokuqina. (Funda futhi: Ngubani iNkosi ethandwayo, Uyahlanza futhi ahlangane).
Obaba kufanele bakhuthaze izingane zabo
Izingane akufanele zikhuliswe obaba bazo, kepha kufanele kukhuthazwe obaba babo.
Uma abazali bevuma konke futhi bahlale benza izingane zabo, Baqinisa ukuziqhenya kwabo, elikhona enyameni. Ngenxa yalokho, izingane zizizwa ziphakeme kunabanye futhi zizifaka ngaphezu kwabanye, futhi baziqhenya. Lokho akukuhle, Futhi lokho akuyona intando kaNkulunkulu.
Nokho, ukukhuthaza izingane ngesikhathi sokukhuliswa nokukhula kwabadala kubalulekile. Ukuze, Ukukholwa Kwabo, ubuntu, nokuzethemba kuyathuthukiswa ngendlela enempilo futhi bayazi ukuthi bangobani, Ungaxhumana Kanjani Nokwakha Ubudlelwano Nabanye, futhi usebenze okholweni nasemphakathini ngendlela efanele.
Okudingekayo namuhla yizingane ezicasulayo ezine-backbone, Obani abakhulela eZwini likaNkulunkulu futhi bazi intando kaNkulunkulu futhi baqonde okuhle nokubi futhi banesibindi sokumela uJesu Kristu emphakathini futhi angesabi ukumela iZwi likaNkulunkulu futhi enze intando yakhe.
Amaphupho nokulindelwe kobaba nomama
Iningi labobaba nomama banamaphupho abo engane yabo kanye nokulindelwe kwabo kwengane yabo. Ikakhulukazi maqondana nomlingiswa wengane, ukusebenza nokufunda ukusebenza esikoleni, Ukukhiza, umsebenzi, futhi ubeke emphakathini.
Kwabazali abaningi, Lawa maphupho nokulindelwe akugcwalisile, lapho bedumazeka khona enganeni yabo.
Abanye abazali bayakwamukela futhi babeke izifiso zabo futhi babheke ukuthi yini engcono ingane yabo. Kepha abanye abazali abakwenzi lokho futhi baqhubeke nokucindezela intando yabo enganeni yabo. Ngenxa yalokho, Ingane yabo yaphendulwa into ingane engeyona, Ngayo yonke imiphumela elandelayo.
Izingane ziyazi lapho zingavunyelwa ngabazali bazo futhi, njengoba bekunjalo, yenqatshelwe yizo, ngoba akuyona into abafuna ukuba baye. Lokhu kwenqaba kwabazali babo kuyabonakala ezimpilweni zabo.
Obaba nomama, Bheka Ingane Yakho Ngamehlo KaNkulunkulu
Njengobaba futhi njengomama, Kufanele ubheke ingane yakho ngamehlo kaNkulunkulu esikhundleni samehlo omhlaba, futhi wamukele ingane yakho indlela ingane yakho. Angikhulumi ngokwamukela izinto eziphikisana neZwi likaNkulunkulu nentando yakhe. (Funda futhi: Ingane elahlekile).
Ebudlelwaneni phakathi kobaba nezingane, Kukhona ukusebenzisana okuqhubekayo. Njengasebudlelwaneni phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Eyodwa yenza lokhu, enye yenza lokho. Ngale ndlela, Bakha omunye nomunye futhi bendawonye bakhe umndeni lapho iZwi nokuthula kukaNkulunkulu kubusa khona.
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