Ngokuba izindebe zowesifazane ongaziwa ziconsa izinyosi, nomlomo wakhe ubushelelezi kunamafutha: Kodwa ukuphela kwakhe kubaba njengomhlonyane, ebukhali njengenkemba esika nhlangothi zombili (Izaga 5:3,4)
Indodana kufanele ilalele ukuhlakanipha kukayise futhi imlalele. Ubaba uxwayisa indodana yakhe, kowesifazane ongaziwa, owesifazane ongayazi iNkosi. Owesifazane ongaziwa ubonakala emuhle kakhulu, unokubukeka okuhle nokuthakazelisayo futhi usebenzisa amagama ayengayo. Akubonakali kungalungile kakhulu ukuthandana naye, futhi ube nobudlelwano naye. Kodwa ngokushesha nje uzonikela kuye, khona ukuphela kwakhe kuyakuba munyu njengomhlonyane, futhi libukhali njengenkemba esika nhlangothi zombili.
USolomoni wabhala lesi saga, wayazi ukuthi akulungile ukuba nobuhlobo nabesifazane abangaziwa. Wabhala izikhathi eziningi ngowesifazane ongajwayelekile. USolomoni waba ongathembekanga kuJehova, futhi yayiyini imbangela yakho? Kulungile: abesifazane abangaziwa.
Abesifazane abangaziwa, kwabangela ukuwa kwakhe. Wazibonela, ukuthi isiphetho sowesifazana ongaziwa sibaba njengempethu, futhi libukhali njengenkemba esika nhlangothi zombili. USolomoni wayenobuthakathaka kulaba besifazane abayinqaba. Wayazi ukuthi akulungile ukuba nobudlelwano nabo, kodwa wakwenza noma kunjalo. Wabalalela, Esikhundleni sikaNkulunkulu.
Ungavumeli owesifazane ongaziwa akuyenge
Bangaki abantu abesaba uNkulunkulu namuhla, bayengwa abesifazane noma amadoda amahle? Bangaki abantu abaphuphuthekiswa ukubukeka kwabo, noma ngamazwi abo amnandi, futhi bayengwa yibo? Bangaki abantu ababuka ukubonakala kwangaphandle, esikhundleni sokubonakala kwangaphakathi nokuxhumana kokomoya eNkosini?
Lapho umKristu engowenyama futhi ehamba enyameni, bese kuba ukubonakala kwangaphandle (ukubukeka) womuntu, kanye nenyama (ucansi) ukukhangwa kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngokuvamile kubaluleke kakhulu kubo, bese kuba isici esingokomoya.
Lapho umKristu enza isinqumo esisekelwe ekubukekeni kwangaphandle, khona- (s)angenza iphutha elikhulu kakhulu empilweni yakhe. Lapho umshado usekelwe ekubukekeni kwangaphandle (ukubukeka, nangokwenyama (ucansi) ukukhangwa), khona-ke kungaba njalo, ukuthi umshado ungaba ijoka elisindayo, futhi ngeke kuhlale phakade.
Ngakho-ke zigcine, futhi uhlale ulalela uNkulunkulu. Ngisho nasekukhetheni umngane wakho womshado. Ungathathi isinqumo ngaphandle Kwakhe, nalapho uthatha isinqumo, kufanele ukwenze phezu kwesisekelo seZwi laKhe; Iseluleko sakhe.
USolomoni akazange amlalele uNkulunkulu, wahamba ngendlela yakhe. Ungalenzi iphutha alenzile. Ungacabangi ukuthi ngeke kwenzeke kuwe. Ungacabangi ukuthi uhlukile, ngoba awunjalo. Kwenzekani kuSolomoni, kuzokwenzeka nakuwe, ngenkathi ukhetha ukulandela intando yakho, esikhundleni sentando kaBaba.
‘Yibani usawoti womhlaba’
