Ukuhlala kunye okanye ukungatshata okanye ukungatshatiso ngaphambi komtshato kube yinto eqhelekileyo kwiLizwe laseNtshona. Into eqala eScandinavia (IYurophu) ngabantu abadala abangengonqulo, zasasazeka kuwo onke amazwe asentshona ngeli xesha lidlulileyo. Abancinci abangakholelwayo babengafuni ukuzibophelela kwiqhina lomtshato kwakhona. Babengafuni kuxelelwa ukuba benze ntoni kwaye bangaphila njani ubomi babo kwaye bangenise kwimithetho nemigaqo. Kunoko, Abantu abancinci babefuna ukukhululeka kwaye baphile ubomi babo, Ukwenza ukhetho lwabo kunye nemithetho ebomini. Ngezi ntsuku, abantu abaninzi, kuquka namaKristu, qwalasela i-goatages eqhelekileyo kunye nento elungileyo. Kodwa nangona uninzi lujonga ukuhlala kunye ngaphambi komtshato oluqhelekileyo kunye nento elungileyo, Ngaba uyayivuma uThixo? Ithini iBhayibhile ngokuhlala kunye ungatshatanga, kwaye ukuba amaKristu ahlala kunye nomntu, ngubani iqabane labo?
Ukwehla kwegalelo lobuKristu kwefuthe njani inkcubeko kunye nemilinganiselo yayo yokuziphatha
Ngelishwa, Ukwehla kobuKristu kunye nokwaliwa kweBhayibhile kwabangela inkcubeko yasentshona kunye nemilinganiselo yayo yokuziphatha, kubandakanya ukutshintsha iziko lomtshato kunye nokufumana i-cohabiby, Aka uhlala kunye engatshatanga.
Abantu abaninzi bahlala kunye bengatshatanga kwaye abayiboni imfuneko yokutshata. Ngoku, ungacinga ukuba ukucocwa yinxalenye yehlabathi kwaye kuphela abangakholwayo abahlala kunye. Kodwa ngelishwa, Ayisiyo imeko.
Ngenxa ye-carnal Meting kunye nelizwe lamaKristu, ohamba emva kwenyama, Uninzi lwamaKristu lwamkela amasiko ehlabathi, kubandakanya ukuhlala kunye.
Banomoya weli lizwe ihleli kuzo. Ngoko ke, Bacinga kwaye baphila nje ihlabathi. Bathathe indawo yeZiko eliNgcwele lomtshato kunye nokuhambahamba, kwaye usebenzise ubuxoki obuninzi bokuvuma. Kuba akufuneki ukuba niye nizakuzazana kuqala, Ngaphambi kokuba utshate kwaye wenze ukuzibophelela komtshato?
Ithini iBhayibhile ngomnqophiso womtshato?
IBhayibhile ithi uThixo wasungula umtshato njengomnqophiso ongcwele phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Ngomnqophiso womtshato, Indoda iya kubotshwa emfazini, yaye baya kuba nyama-nye. Ngenxa yenyani, Ukuba umtshato sisiko elingcwele elivela kuThixo, UThixo Usinika Intsikelelo Yakhe.
Ngenxa yoko indoda yomshiya uyise nonina;, inamathele emfazini wayo: yaye baya kuba nyama-nye (IGenesis 2:24)
Kwaye yena (UYesu) baphendule bathi kubo, Awufundanga, ukuba abenze ukuba abe sekuqalekeni kwabenza babe ngamadoda nabafazi, watsho, Ngenxa yesi sizathu uya kumshiya uyise nonina, Uya kunamathela kumfazi wakhe: Kwaye bobabini baya kuba nyama-nye inyama? Kungoko bengasabi ngaphezulu, kodwa inyama enye. Oko ke ngoko uThixo akumanyeneyo kunye, makungabikho mntu wumbi (UMateyu 19:4-6)
Uthini uThixo ngoqhawulo-mtshato Ngebhayibhile?
IBhayibhile ithi uThixo uyamthiyile uqhawulo-mtshato (Ukuqhekezwa komnqophiso womtshato) Njengoko sifunda eMalaki 2:16.
Ke ngoko uqonde umoya wakho, Kwaye makungabikho namnye uchasene nenkosikazi yobutsha bayo. INkosi, UTHIXO kaSirayeli, utsho ukuba uyamthiyile (thumela kude (uqhawulo-mtshato)): Kuba umntu ugubungela ubundlobongela ngengubo yakhe, utsho uYehova wemikhosi: Ke ngoko uqonde umoya wakho, Ukuba unganenkohliso. (uMalaki 2:15-16)
UMtyholi uwuyithiyile umnqophiso womtshato kwaye uyathanda ukuqhawula umtshato
Njengoko uThixo ethiyile uqhawulo-mtshato, UMtyholi umthiyile umtshato. UMtyholi uyithiyile yonke iminqophiso kaThixo isusiwe, kubandakanya umnqophiso womtshato. Ngoko ke, Umtyholi uya kwenza konke okusemandleni akhe ukungcolisa kwaye atshabalalise umnqophiso womtshato.
Usathana inqambi kwaye wawutshabalalisa njani umtshato womtshato? Ngokuhenyuza, ukukrexeza, ukuhlala kunye engatshatanga, Vula imitshato, kunye nemitshato yesini esifanayo.
Ngokuvunywa kunye nokumisela imitshato yesini efanayo, Umtshato woMtshato oNgcwele phakathi kwendoda nomfazi inqambi. Nokuba imeko iyenza abantu bakholelwe abantu kunye nento efunyanwa ngabantu, UThixo akaze amkele umtshato ofanayo. Kungenxa yokuba uThixo ukujonga ubufanasini isikizi, kwaye loo nto ayisoze itshintshe. (Funda kwakhona: Ithini iBhayibhile ngobufanasini?).
Asiyonto ingaqhelekanga ukuba amathandabuzo enze yonke into abanakho ukwenza imitshato yesondo efanayo, Ngelixa i-hetersexials ayifuni ukutshata kwakhona, Kodwa hlalani kunye?
UMtyholi akasebenzi kuphela uhenyuzo, ukukrexeza, kwaye uqhawulo-mtshato ukungcolisa nokwaphula umnqophiso womtshato, kodwa kukutya kwangokuhlwa..
UMtyholi wenza ukuba amaKristu akholelwe ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuphila kunye okanye ukuhlala kunye phambi komtshato.
Ngenxa yobuxoki bakhe, AmaKristu amaninzi athatha ukuhlala kunye engatshatanga ngendlela elungileyo, Kuba uza kuyazi njani umntu? Ukuba uhlala ngaphandle komnye, Awuyi kuba nakho ukuqaphela ngokupheleleyo.
Mhlawumbi umgama udlala indima, Ke kulula ukuhamba kunye. Uninzi lwamaKristu lunjalo Amaxesha kunye neLizwe zitshintshile. Ngoko ke, bayavuma ukuhlala kunye.
Ewe, UMtyholi usebenzisa ubuxoki abaninzi ukulahlekisa amaKristu kwaye kubenza bawakholelwe ngamazwi akhe. Ukuze benze ukuthanda kwakhe endaweni yokuthanda kukaThixo. Kanye njengokuba uMtyholi wenzayo kwi Umyezo wase-Eden Xa walingeka i-Eva ngamagama ayo enkohliso.
Unyana okanye intombi kaThixo ithobela iBhayibhile (ILizwi likaThixo) kwaye ungahlali ndawonye
Kodwa unyana okuqinisekileyo okanye intombi kaThixo, Ngubani ozele nguMoya oyiNgcwele, kwaye unemo yakhe, soze uphinde uphile kunye!
Oonyana neentombi zikaThixo zithanda kwaye bathobela uyise, benze ukuthanda kwakhe, bangaze benze into engoyiki uyise nomoya wakhe. Abayi kuphulaphula amazwi nengcebiso kaMtyholi, Kuba ukuhlala kunye kungatshatanga kungaphelelwa ngaphandle komtshato, Kwaye ngenxa yoko sisisono. UMoya oyiNgcwele, Abahlala emntwini, iya ukugwetywa umntu wesono sobunye.
Ithini iBhayibhile ngokuhlala kunye ungatshatanga?
IBhayibhile icacile ukuthanda kukaThixo ngokuhlala kunye okanye ukuba nobudlelwane ngesondo nendoda okanye umfazi, ongelilo iqabane lakho. Kwakucacile kakhulu malunga nolwalamano lwesini ngaphandle kweqhina lomtshato, Xa wayejamelene nomfazi ongumSamariya ngasequleni likaYakobi.
Xa uYesu wayehlala phantsi ngequla le-ntshoa eSicher, Esi sisixeko eSamariya, Umfazi ongumSamariya weza kukha amanzi. Xa uYesu wacela umfazi ongumSamariya ukuba amnike amanzi okusela, uphendule, Unjani, UmYuda, wayenokumbuza, umSamariya, ukumnika amanzi okusela. Kuba amaJuda ayengavumelekanga ukuba axhonywe namaSamariya. Emva koko uYesu wanikela ubungqina malunga namanzi aphilayo, ukuba kuphela anokubonelela. Xa lo mfazi wakuva amazwi akhe, Wacela uYesu ukuba amnike la manzi aphilayo. Ngoku, Masibone, Oko kwathethwa nguYesu kuye:
Athi uYesu kuye, Yiya, biza umyeni wakho, uze apha. Ibhinqa laphendula laza latsho, Andinandoda. UYesu wathi kuye, Uthethe kakuhle, Andinandoda: Kuba ubenamadoda amahlanu; Lowo unaye ngoku akangomyeni wakho,: Kwelo lizwi (UYohane 4:17-18).
Lo mfazi wayenamadoda amahlanu, ebengengomyeni wayo ngokusemthethweni, kodwa ngubani onobuhlobo naye. Kwaye lowo wayenayo ngelo xesha wayengengomyeni wakhe nokuba. Waye kunye nendoda, Ngubani awangatshatiyo kwaye uYesu wamvumelana nalo ngalo mbandela.
Ngaba ukuxhaphaza ngaphambi komtshato uThixo okanye isono?
Ukuthathwa komtshato akuyontando kaThixo. Ukuba uhlala kunye nomntu, ongelilo iqabane lakho, Uhlala esonweni. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba unobuhlobo bokwabelana ngesondo okanye hayi (phantse ayinakwenzeka). Inyani yile, ukuba uhlala phantsi kophahla olufanayo kwaye wabelane nekhaya kunye nolwalamano lomtshato.
Oku kukwasebenza nakumaKristu angatshatanga, Ngoobani abalele kunye kwaye babelana ngesondo ngaphambi komtshato. Ukuba uhlala kunye okanye ukuba uhlala ngokwahlukileyo kodwa unesondo nomntu, ongelilo iqabane lakho, wenza uhenyuzo. Uhenyuzo alukho ngokokuthanda kukaThixo kwaye ngenxa yoko isesono.
Ke kaloku, ngokubhekisele kwiindawo enandibhalela ngazo: Kulungile ukuba indoda ingamchukumisi umntu oyinkazana. Nangona kunjalo, ukuphepha uhenyuzo, elowo makabe nowakhe umfazi, elowo ke makabe neyakhe indoda (1 KwabaseKorinte 7:1-2)
Nditsho ke kubahloli nabahlolokazi, Kulungile kubo ukuba bathobela njengam. Kodwa ukuba ayinakho, mabazeke: kuba kungcono ukutshata kunokutshisa. (1 KwabaseKorinte 7:8-9)
Uninzi lwamaKristu luphila njengehlabathi
AmaKristu, Ngoobani abahlala kunye ngaphambi komtshato kunye / okanye babe nobudlelwane bezesondo ngaphandle kokutshata, Ngaba i-carnal kwaye ingowehlabathi. Abanayo ingqondo kaKristu kodwa banengqondo yehlabathi kwaye benze imisebenzi yehlabathi.
Umhlaba uyakuvumela ukuhlala kunye, Kodwa ngokwebhayibhile, bahenyuza kwaye ngenxa yoko bangabaqeqeshi. Nangona bavuma ukuba bayakholelwa kwaye ngamaKristu, imisebenzi yabo zingqina enye into.
UMtyholi uyakholelwa kwaye uMtyholi akasindiswanga. Ngaba yimisebenzi kunye nobomi bomntu bubonisa ukuba ngubani umntu: Umhlaba (UMtyholi) okanye nguYesu Krestu. (Funda kwakhona: ‘Ukuthanda kukaThixo ngokuchasene nentando kaMtyholi‘).
Abantu, Abathanda uYesu baya kumamela amazwi akhe, thobela amazwi akhe, kwaye uphila ngokwentando yakhe. Ziya kuzisusa zonke izono nokungahlambuluki kweli lizwe, oko kubangela ukwahlulwa phakathi kwabo noThixo ebomini babo.
Kodwa abantu, othanda umhlaba uya kumamela oko ihlabathi kunye nokunganyanisekanga, kwaye uphile njengehlabathi. Ziya kwenza ezo zinto, yiyo amasikizi kuThixo kwaye chasa ukuthanda kwakhe. Ngoko ke, Ubomi bomntu bubonisa ukuba ngubani umntu.
Umtshato mawubekeke ngeendlela zonke, nesilili sasingadyojwa: ke abenza umbulo nabakrexezi, uThixo uya kubagweba (Hebhere 13:4 (Phawula: Oku kubhaliwe emva kokubethelelwa emnqamlezweni kunye novuko lukaYesu Krestu kwaye ke yinxalenye ye UMnqophiso Omtsha)
Ngaba icawa iphumelele ukugcina umtshato uHognike kwaye uthintele uhenyuzo?
Luxanduva lweCawe Ukubopha kunye nokukhululeka; Ukunqanda imisebenzi yesono yobumnyama besono kwaye kuvumeleke imisebenzi elungileyo yobukumkani bukaThixo. Nangona kunjalo, Icawe ayizange ihlawulele amasango akhe njengoko kufanele.
Icawe ayizange ivale iminyango yesango yemisebenzi yehlabathi kwaye iimfundiso zobuxoki. Kunoko, ICawe yavula iminyango kwaye yavumela iimfundiso nemisebenzi yehlabathi, kubandakanya uhenyuzo kwiCawe. Kuba ukuba uphila kunye ungatshatanga uhenyuza.
Xa imiqondiso yokuqala yokutshintsha komtshato yafunyanwa ibonakale kwaye uninzi lwabantu abancinci bafuna kwaye bagqiba ekubeni baphile kunye, Icawe ifanele ukuba ithathe indawo yakhe kuma ilizwi likaThixo.
Icawe ifanele ihlale ithobela uYesu Kristu; ILizwi eliphilayo kunye neNtloko yeCawa. Icawe ifanele ihlale ithembekile xa imela ukuthanda kukaThixo nobukumkani.
(Iinkokeli ze) Icawe ifanele ithethe, UThixo wasungula umnqophiso womtshato kunye namakholwa kufuneka agcine umtshato ubekekile.
Icawe ifanele ithethe, ingqeqesho, kwaye ulungiselele abantu abaselula bebandla, Ngubani ofuna ukwenza ukuthanda kwenyama kwaye aphile kunye engatshatanga.
Icawe ifanele ibe nayo eBhayibhileni kwaye ibhekiswe ukuba ukuhlala kunye kungalingani kuhenyuzo kwaye hayi ngokokuthanda kukaThixo. Ke ukuba abantu abaselula bayagqiba kwelokuba baphulaphule amazwi kaThixo kwaye bathobele ukuthanda kwakhe, Kodwa endaweni yoko hlalani ninemvukelo nxamnye amazwi kaThixo, Icawe ifanele ibe nayo bashenxisile Ukusuka ecaweni, ngenxa yempilo kunye nokukhusela amanye amakholwa ebandleni. Kuba igwele elincinci libilisa intlama iphela. (Funda kwakhona: ‘Kuthetha ukuthini ukunikezela umntu kuSathana?’).
ngaphandle koko, Ukuba icawe ibe yayize nendawo yokuma eLizwini kwaye ihlala ithembekile kwiLizwi, Ukoyika uYehova bekuya kuhlala ebandleni.
Ngaba icawe iqubude ebantwini abancinci?
Kodwa icawe ayenzelwanga ngaloo ndlela. Endaweni yokuthatha i-time eLizwini; UYesu, Ukuhlala uthembekile kwaye Ethobela KuYesu Krestu, Icawa iqubude kwezelelo lolutsha olunemvukelo kwaye ilalanisa nehlabathi.
Ngokuvumela amaKristu ukuba aphile kunye, Icawe yavumela umoya weli lizwe kunye nomoya wohenyuzo ebandleni.
Mhlawumbi icawe yoyika ukuphulukana nabantu abancinci. Kodwa isiphumo sokuvumela i-chietionation kukuba icawe izele (ifihliwe) ukungahlambuluki kwezesondo kunye nokugqwetha, njengokuphila kunye, Ukuba nobudlelwane besini ngaphandle kokutshata, ukuphulula amalungu esini, njl.).
Icawe izele ngabahenyu, abakrexezi, abapheki, 'Johns', I-Horemors, I-vermosexuals, I-Sneaky porn balirs, pedophiles, zoophiliacs, kwaye nangokunjalo. Iinkokeli ezininzi zecawa zinomoya wokuzihetha ezihlala kuzo. (Funda kwakhona: Sithini isono seenkokheli zecawe ngabo?).
Uninzi lwamaKristu lubanjiwe kwiWebhu yobuxoki
Zonke ezo zinto, eyi amasikizi Kuba nguThixo, Ngoonyana bakaThixo obizwa ngokuba ziintombi. UMtyholi uphumelele kumaKristu akhohlisayo kwaye ethatha ibandla ecaweni ngobuxoki bakhe. Kwaye eyona nto imbi kakhulu, Owona maKristu amaKristu, kubandakanya neenkokeli zecawa, ziyimfama ngokomoya. Ababoni kwaye baqonde ukuba bayakhohliswa kwaye babanjiwe kwiWebhu yedemon yobuxoki.
Uninzi lwamaKristu lucinga, Ukuba bayamkholisa uThixo, Ngelixa uThixo sele ebashiye. Ngenxa yokuba ubulungisa bunobuquzeleli nentswela-bulungisa? Ubungcwele bunokuphumelela njani kubudlelane nesono? Yintoni ukukhanya okuqhelekileyo kubumnyama?
UYesu wajongana nesono kunye nengxaki yesono yohlobo lomntu. Lo nto, Ngokholo kunye Ukuhlaziywa kuye, wonke umntu wayenokwazi ukuba ngu indalo entsha Ngaphandle kwendalo yesono kwaye uhambe njengonyana okanye intombi kaThixo ngobulungisa kunye nobungcwele obulawulayo ngenxa yesono nokufa.
Icawe nabantu banokuvuma zonke iintlobo zezinto, Kodwa uLizwi yinyaniso kwaye uLizwi uthatha isigqibo. Ekugqibeleni, ayingomntu ngaphandle Ilizwi eliya kugweba wonke umntu ngokwemisebenzi yakhe (ISityhilelo 20:12, 15).
Ngoko ke, utsho uYehova: "Gcwaya, Ngelixa usenako kwaye ususe izono, zizinto endizithiyayo, ndilisikizi kum, ndize ndinembeko yam,, Kubomi Bakho "
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