Nima ish qilasiz, siz nasroniy bo'lganingizda va Iso Masihga ishonganingizda, lekin sizning turmush o'rtog'ingiz Xudoga ishonmaydi va Isoni Najotkor va Rabbiy sifatida qabul qilishdan bosh tortadi? Nima ish qilasiz, when you live with an unbelieving spouse and your spouse doesn’t want to go to church with you, Injilni o'qing, va ibodat qiling? Do you feel lonely in your marriage, because your spouse doesn’t believe the same way you do and disagree with how you want to raise your children? Maybe you’ve tried all kinds of things to convert your unbelieving spouse, like applying prayer methods for an unbelieving husband or proclamations, but it didn’t work and now you wonder what to do. Xo'sh, then this article is for you! Find out what the Bible says about living with an unbelieving husband and how to convert your unbelieving spouse to Christianity.
Do you feel lonely in your marriage?
When you and your spouse don’t share the same faith and are not on the same level, you can become very lonely in your marriage. There are many Christian women, who are married to an unbeliever.
Some Christian women deliberately married an unbeliever, Xudo Kalomining ogohlantirishiga qaramay. They thought they could win their spouse for Jesus, qisqa vaqt ichida, but that didn’t happen. There are other Christian women, who are converted during their marriage. And there are women, who married a believer, but during their marriage, their husband left the faith.
But what do you do, in these circumstances? Do you stay patient and faithful to your unbelieving spouse? Or are you fed up with the whole situation and step out of the marriage covenant and get a divorce?
Are there effective prayer strategies to convert your unbelieving spouse?
There are many sermons and Christian books about ibodat strategiyalari in combination with ro'za tutish for the conversion of people. Many Christians apply these prayer strategies and methods to convert their spouses. But when their spouse is not converted after a few months or years, they become frustrated and give up. Or even worse, they give up on their marriage and break their marriage covenant.
When Christians give up on their marriage and break their marriage covenant by getting a divorce, they act out of the flesh; out of selfishness. They don’t act out of the spirit in obedience to the Word of God. Because divorce is not the will of God and it will never become His will. (Shuningdek o'qing: ‘Ajrashish haqida Injil nima deyilgan?').
If you feel hopeless and embittered about the fact that your unbelieving husband is still not converted, despite your many prayers, I would like to encourage you and say, that there is one way to lead your unbelieving spouse to Jesus Christ according to the Bible.
Qanday qilib imondosh bo'lmagan turmush o'rtog'ingizni aylantirish?
There is one way to convert your unbelieving spouse and that’s through you! Ha, yaxshi o'qiding, through you! Let’s have a look at what the Bible says about an unbelieving husband and how to convert an unbelieving spouse:
Xuddi shunday, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; bu, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; Ammo bu yurakning yashirin odami bo'lsin, buzilmaydigan narsada, hatto muloyim va sokin ruhning bezaklari, Xudoning nazdida bu juda qimmat (1 Piter 3:1-4)
It’s important that you acknowledge your husband as the head of your family, as Christ is the Cherkov boshlig'i. Through your subjection to your spouse and by respecting him, through your behavior your spouse will be won for Jesus Christ. That’s what the Bible; the Word of God says.
“How can you submit yourself to God,
if you can’t submit yourself to your husband?”
The Lord has appointed the man, as the head of the family. But because the spirit of feminism (spirit of darkness), rules in the lives of many women, women become rebellious against their spouses. They want to be head of the family and refuse to submit to their spouse.
Submission doesn’t mean being treated like a slave and being controlled and abused (physically and mentally) by your spouse. But submission means, turmush o'rtog'ingizni eringiz deb tan olishingizni, as the head of the family, va siz eringizni hurmat qilasiz.
Eringizni hukm qilmang. Uni pastga tushirmang, uni masxara qilish yoki eringiz haqida kinoyali so'zlar bilan, ayniqsa bolalaringiz va boshqalar oldida. Ammo eringizni hurmat qiling.
Eringizning oilasiga g'amxo'rlik qilish va boqish vazifasini tan oling. Sizning vazifangiz oilangiz a'zolarini tarbiyalashdir. (Shuningdek o'qing: Nikoh shartnomasi).
U taqvodor gapiradi, lekin uning yurishi haqida nima deyish mumkin??
Imonsiz turmush o'rtog'ingizni aylantirasizmi, so'zlaringiz bilan? Kundalik va'zlaringiz bilan, tuzatishlar, va jazolar? Javob yo'q. Bu eringizni iymondan uzoqlashtiradi, xolos.
Imonsiz turmush o'rtog'ingizni o'zgartirishning yagona yo'li sizning xatti-harakatlaringizdir; hurmatli qo'rquv bilan birga bo'lgan sof hayot tarzingiz orqali.
Bu erda bizda asosiy muammo bor, chunki ko'plab masihiy ayollar bu mevani bermaydilar. Ularning turmush o'rtoqlari o'zlarining sof hayot tarzini ko'rmaydilar.
Ular o'zgargan ayolni ko'rmaydilar, kim Ruhga ergashadi. O'rniga, ular isyonkor ayolni ko'rishadi, erini hurmat qilmaydigan va erini tinglashni va bo'ysunishni istamaydigan.
Ular odamni ko'rishadi, kim o'z hayotini boshqarishni xohlaydi, o'z irodasini bajarish va o'z irodasini eri va bolalariga bajarish.
Ular kimnidir ko'rishadi, kim mag'rur, balki g'iybat, boshqalar haqida yomon gapiring, shikoyat qilmoq, nolish, va hokazo.
Imonsiz turmush o'rtog'i o'zgarmagan ayolni ko'radi, kim dunyo kabi yashaydi, bir xil ishlarni qilish va bir xil meva berish (zinokorlik, zinokorlik, nopoklik, lovinlik, butparastlik, jodugarlik, isyon ko'tarish, nafrat, o'ziga xoslik, ta'sir, qahr, janjalkash, cho'kindi, bid'atlar, hasad qilish, qotillik, mastlik, oyatlarga oid, va bunday kabi).
Shuning uchun, imonsiz er masihiy bo'lishga va Isoga xizmat qilishga jalb qilinmagan. Er nasroniy bo'lishdan va tavba qilish zaruriyatidan hech qanday foyda ko'rmaydi. Chunki u nasroniy va imonsizning turmush tarzida farqni ko'rmaydi.
Er ko'rgan yagona narsa uning turmush tarzidan farq qiladi, Uning imonli turmush o'rtog'i Injilni o'qiydi va yakshanba kunlari cherkovga boradi. Lekin shunday. (Shuningdek o'qing: Agar nasroniylar dunyoga o'xshab yashasalar, dunyo nimadan tavba qilishi kerak?).
Qachonki, chunki siz o'zgarmaysiz,
turmush o'rtog'ingiz ham o'zgarmaydi
Qachonki siz Kalom sizga buyurgan narsani bajarsangiz va o'zingizni Kalomga bo'ysunib, eringizni hurmat qila boshlaysiz, eringizni nazorat qilish va eringizni xatolari bilan doim qarshi turish o'rniga, kamchiliklar, va kamchiliklar, keyin vaziyat o'zgaradi.
O'zgarish bo'ladi, chunki siz o'zgargansiz.
Muqaddas Kitobda aytilgan narsalarni bajarib, Ruhning mevasini keltirganingizda, qaysi muhabbat, quvonch, tinchlik, uzoq vaqt, muloyimlik, yaxshilik, ishonch, kamtarlik, va tiniqlik, eringiz sizdagi o'zgarishlarni sezadi. Bu yerga, Masih uchun eringizni yutib olasiz.
Imonsiz turmush o'rtog'ingizni so'zlaringiz bilan o'zgartirmang, lekin sizning harakatlaringiz bilan
Bibliyada aytilishicha, ko'p so'zlaringiz bilan imonsiz eringizni mag'lub qilmasligingiz uchun, lekin sizning harakatlaringiz bilan.
Imonsiz eringiz sizning muloyim va sokin ruhingizni payqab, Ruhning samarasini ko'rganida, Keyin u uzoq bo'lmaydi, imonsiz eringiz o'z hayotini Iso Masihga bermasdan oldin.
Bu qancha vaqt oladi? Hech kim bilmaydi, Lekin bu sodir bo'ladi, chunki Bibliyada shunday deyilgan. Va biz Bibliyani bilamiz; the Xudoning Kalomi haqiqatdir. Shuning uchun agar siz imonsiz turmush o'rtog'ingizni aylantirmoqchi bo'lsangiz, sabrli bo'ling, so'zga topshiring, Va Bibliyada nima qilish kerakligini qiling, chunki Xudoning Kalomi yolg'on gapirmaydi.
"Yerning tuzi bo'l’
