Carruurta, adeeca waalidkaa wax walba: waayo, taasu Rabbiga aad bay uga farxisaa (Kolosay 3:20)
doorka carruurta ee qoyska
Gudaha Qodobka hore, Waxaa laga hadlay doorka ninka iyo naagta ee guurka. Qodobkan, Waxaa laga hadli doonaa doorka carruurta ee qoyska. Sababtoo ah caruurtu waxay sidoo kale door ku leeyihiin qoyska. Carruurtu waxay ku hoos jiraan waalidkood’ maamulka iyo waa in ay u hoggaansamaan waalidkood.
Waa idamkii ilaahay in caruurtu u hogaansamaan waalidkood, ixtiraam waalidkood, oo adeeca waalidkood wax walba. Sidaa darteed, Aad bay Rabbiga uga farxisaa markay carruurtu waalidkood addeecaan wax walba,
Sharafta aabbaha iyo hooyada waxay ahayd a Amarka Eebbe Axdigii Hore.
Oo wuxuu ahaa qaynuunkii ugu horreeyay oo ballan leh.
Haddii carruurtu sharfi jireen waalidkood, their days would be long in the land which the Lord their God would give them (Baxniintii 20:12)
This commandment still applies in the New Covenant.
If children obey their parents and through their obedience honor their parents, it will go well with them and they will live long on the earth.
Carruurta, adeeca waalidkaa xagga Rabbiga: waayo, tani waa xaq. Aabbahaa iyo hooyadaa maamuus; which is the first commandments with promise; that it may be well with thee, oo waxaad ku noolaan kartaa wakhti dheer dhulka (Efesos 6:1-2)
Every child is born in sin with a sinful nature
Every child is born in sin with a sinful nature (Sabuurrada 51:5). This nature is prideful and rebellious and won’t submit to others but wants to be in charge and reign. This becomes already visible at birth.
The first thing a baby does when the baby is taken from his mother’s womb (and safe place) is cry.
A baby must adapt to the change of environment and doesn’t like that, which is characterised by crying and (later on also) refusing to do what the baby is commanded to do, like eating and sleeping.
From birth, it’s important that the father and the mother are not led by their feelings and emotions and the cuteness of their child, but be serious and consistent and raise their child from their position and role as parent and caretaker of their child and the knowledge and wisdom of God’s Word.
The parents have been given the responsibility by God to take care of their children and to protect, teach and raise them into spiritual and natural adolescents in the fear of the Lord (great awe for God).
The attitude, edeb, and life of the parents
In raising children, waalidka’ attitude, edeb, noloshuna waxay ka ciyaartaa door muhiim ah. Waalidiintu waxay tusaale u yihiin carruurtooda. Waalidiintu waxay tusaan carruurtooda waxa is-hoosaysiin iyo addeeciddu uga dhigan tahay soo-jeedintooda iyo addeecid Eebbe iyo sida ay ula dhaqmaan waalidkood
Sidee bay uga hadlaan Aabbaha iyo Ciise, oo waxay yeelaan wuxuu yidhi? Sideey uga hadlaan waalidkood iyagoo aan ag joogin?
Carruurtu waxay fiiriyaan, dhegayso, oo waxa ay maqlaan oo ay arkaan maskaxdooda ku kaydiyaan oo waalidkood korsadaan’ ereyada iyo dhaqanka. Carruurtu waxay koobiyeeyaan erayadooda iyo dhaqankooda, hase yeeshee, ma kala gartaan waxa wanaagsan iyo waxa xun.
Haddii carruurtu ay waalidkood caasi ku arkaan oo aanay samayn waxa ku qoran Kitaabka Quduuska ah ama ay ula dhaqmaan waalidkood si aan u qalmin oo ay si xun uga hadlaan., markaas carruurtu waxay koobiyeeyaan dhaqankan, iyagoo u malaynaya inay sax tahay in la sameeyo.
Haddii waalidku aysan si sax ah u noolaan, waa in aanay filanayn in carruurtoodu ay si sax ah u noolaadaan.
Oo rabitaankiisu ka xoog badan yahay: rabitaanka waalidka ama ilmaha?
Ku dhowaad ilmo kastaa wuxuu leeyahay rabitaan xooggan oo raba inuu boqor ka noqdo qoyska. Waa shaqada waalidka in ay ‘jebiyaan’ dardaarankan oo ay ku dhaqmaan rabitaanka waalidka.
Ma aha waxa ilmuhu rabo laakiin waxa waalidku rabaan.
Waalidiinta (Hay'ada Caafimaadka Aduunka Eebbe jecel oo addeeca Masiix oo ku socda waddooyinka Rabbiga) ulajeedada ugu wanagsan caruurtooda.
Aqoon bay leeyihiin oo waxay yaqaaniin wanaagga iyo xumaanta carruurtooda.
Carruurtu weli ma haystaan aqoontan iyo garashadan, laakiin waxaa maamula hilibkooda (dareen, dareen, iyo shucuurta). Sidaa darteed, carruurtu waa inay aaminaan waalidkood oo ay ku tiirsanaadaan waalidkood’ aqoon iyo caqli.
Haddii carruurtu aaminaan waalidkood, way adeeci doonaan.
Sidaa darteed, waalid ahaan, waa muhiim inaad u muujiso carruurtaada inaad jeceshahay oo aad ku daryeesho camalkaaga halkii aad odhan lahayd.
Sidee carruurtu u bartaan u hoggaansanaanta iyo addeecidda Eebbe?
Is-hoosaysiinta iyo addeecidda Eebbe waxay mar hore ka bilaabantay bilowgii barbaarinta. Ccarruurtu waxay bartaan inayan samayn doonistooda oo mar walba waxay helaan jidkooda, laakiin in la sameeyo rabitaanka waalidka. Haddii carruurtu tan bartaan oo ay tan sameeyaan, waxay awoodaan inay u hoggaansamaan Ilaah iyo doonista Ilaah samee dhulka.
Haddii caruurtu tan baran waayaan oo waalidku caruurtooda u korin waayaan si sax ah balse ay u daayaan rabitaankooda oo ay u daayaan caruurtooda dariiqooda oo ay qaataan go'aankooda., si ay uga farxiyaan oo ay u qanciyaan ugana hortagaan dooda iyo dagaalka guriga, markaa carruurtu ma awoodi doonaan inay u hoggaansamaan kuwa kale (oo ay ku jiraan Ilaahay iyo maamulada kale) oo adeeca.
Waxay noqon doonaan kuwo kibir badan oo caasiyoobay, oo uma oggolaan doonaan qof kale ama amar inuu u sheego waxay samaynayaan. Kaliya waa inay sameeyaan rabitaankooda oo ay ku riixaan rabitaankooda kuwa kale waxayna filayaan inay u hoggaansamaan iyaga, sida waalidkood sameeyeen.
Barbaarintu waxay si toos ah uga soo horjeedaa Kitaabka Qudduuska ah (Erayga Ilaahay)
Maanta waan aragnaa, taas oo loo marayo faragelinta aqoonta iyo xikmadda adduunku (barbaarin, cilmi nafsiga iyo cilmi nafsiga), which is foolishness to God according to the Bible and diametrically oppose God’s Word, and the influence of (ee bulsho) warbaahinta, children are rebellious and don’t do what their parents say and want, and what God says and wants, but they stand up against their parents, Ilaahow, and other authorities (ku. 1 Korintos 3:18-21, 2 Timoteyos 3:1-2).
The spirit of the world reigns in many families
The spirit of the world, which originates from the devil and dwells in his children (children of disobedience), reigns in many families, including Christian families.
Waxaa laga yaabaa inaad u malaynayso, That may be true, but in my family, the devil can’t enter. Oh, maya?
Do you know what television programs and movies your children watch?
Do you know what your children watch on their mobile phone, iPad, or computer and with whom they communicate?
Oo ma ogtahay what kind of games they play?
Are you aware of what kind of books your children read and what kind of music they listen to?
Maalmihii hore, everything was hidden, laakiin maalmahan, the influence and manifestations of demonic spirits and the darkness are clearly visible on television (ee bulsho) warbaahinta, ciyaarid, jardiinooyinka madadaalada, other sources of entertainment, iwm.
Since many parents are too busy with themselves and their daily occupations, they miss these things.
Parents, pay attention to your children
Watch your child and pay attention to your child; know what your child is doing. Hold on to God’s Word instead of the carnal wisdom and knowledge of the world, and admonish and correct your child if needed.
Do not shy away from confrontations, but confront your child, knowing that everything you do is out of love and for the best interest of your child and eventually benefits your child.
Is it easy to raise a child in this age of time? Maya, it’s not easy because the world is full of wickedness and darkness. But has it always been easy? Maya, every time had its challenges.
But as parents, you’ve decided and taken on the responsibility of having children and to nurture, provide, and protect them. Raising a child is a challenge, but together as husband and wife in the power and the wisdom of God and with His help, you can do it.
‘ Dhulka milix ahow’
