Bolehkah seorang Kristian melancap? Ini adalah salah satu daripada banyak soalan orang Kristian mengenai perkara-perkara dalam kehidupan yang normal kepada dunia tetapi meragukan orang Kristian. Melancap dianggap normal di dunia, tetapi apa yang Alkitab katakan tentang melancap? Adakah melancap satu dosa dalam Bible atau tidak? Apabila sesuatu menjadi dipersoalkan dalam hidup anda, anda sudah tahu jawapannya. Kerana Roh Kudus telah menyatakan kepada anda, bahawa sebagai seorang yang percaya dan pengikut Yesus Kristus, ia tidak termasuk dalam hidup anda. Malangnya, ramai penganut Kristian mempunyai watak memberontak. Mereka tidak sanggup membuang perkara-perkara tertentu dari kehidupan mereka, kerana mereka seronok melakukannya. Atas sebab itu, Orang Kristian cuba mencari alasan dan alasan untuk membuat sesuatu dipersetujui untuk dilakukan. Banyak kali, cinta kepada daging lebih besar daripada cinta kepada Yesus Kristus. Cinta kepada daging sentiasa menyebabkan usaha dengan Roh. Tetapi adakah orang Kristian dibenarkan untuk melancap? Adakah Allah merestui onani atau melancap bertentangan dengan kehendak Allah dan adakah berdosa jika melancap.?
Alam rohani menjadi kelihatan dalam
alam semula jadi
Apa sahaja yang berlaku di alam rohani akhirnya akan kelihatan di alam semula jadi. Tiada apa yang tersembunyi, semuanya akan terbongkar.
Jika anda ingin mengetahui jenis kuasa syaitan yang aktif dalam keluarga, rumah-rumah, tempat, bandar, negara, wilayah, dan dunia, maka apa yang perlu anda lakukan ialah melihat kehidupan rakyat dan tingkah laku orang ramai.
Kerana syaitan, yang merupakan roh najis, ingin memiliki orang untuk menampakkan diri. Iblis sentiasa melihat ke dalam kehidupan siapa yang boleh mereka masuki, dan siapa yang boleh mereka goda, kawalan, dan akhirnya memusnahkan. Kerana itu adalah misi syaitan, untuk menggoda, memiliki, dan memusnahkan.
Dunia berkisar tentang seks
Kita hidup di dunia, di mana segala-galanya berkisar tentang seks. Hampir ke mana sahaja anda pergi, anda akan berhadapan dengan kandungan seksual. Seperti contohnya dalam surat khabar, majalah, Buku, di televisyen, dalam iklan, di media sosial, di sekolah, dan di tempat kerja. Dan jangan lupa perbualan antara orang (Baca juga: Apakah bahaya rohani televisyen?).
Apa yang dahulunya diharamkan dan dianggap sebagai pantang larang tidak lagi diharamkan dan dianggap sebagai pantang larang. Tetapi ia telah diterima dan menjadi perkara biasa. Ini tidak berlaku dalam sekelip mata, tetapi ia berlaku dengan sangat perlahan.
Apabila anda menonton filem pada zaman dahulu, ia adalah provokatif untuk pelakon untuk mencium satu sama lain. Tetapi pada masa kini, pelakon berbogel dan bercium antara satu sama lain dan intim antara satu sama lain di hadapan krew dan kamera. Tiada pantang larang dan malu lagi.
Semuanya kerana pengaruh seksual dalam kehidupan manusia dan fakta bahawa banyak perbuatan daging yang najis dinormalisasi, onani tidak lagi dianggap sebagai pantang larang tetapi sudah menjadi perkara biasa. Kebanyakan orang bercakap bebas tentang onani dan tidak malu dengan onani.
Bolehkah orang Kristian melancap?
Tetapi apa yang berlaku, apabila anda menjadi seorang Kristian? Apa yang berlaku apabila anda percaya kepada Yesus Kristus dan bertaubat dari dosa-dosa anda dan menerima Yesus sebagai Juruselamat dan Tuhan anda dan dilahirkan semula dalam Kristus dan anda meletakkan daging anda? (Baca juga: Apa itu taubat sebenarnya?)
Apabila anda menjadi ciptaan baru dalam Kristus, bolehkah anda terus melancap? Baik, adalah melancap satu kerja Roh atau kerja daging?
Alkitab mengatakan bahawa anda perlu menanggalkan perbuatan daging. Itu, jika onani bukan kerja Roh tetapi onani adalah kerja daging, anda perlu menangguhkan onani mengikut Bible (Baca juga: Cara menanggalkan lelaki tua?).
Bila dan mengapa anda melancap?
Bilakah anda melancap? You masturbate when you are wrought up and overwhelmed with sexual feelings of lust in your flesh that you want to satisfy. These carnal sexual feelings of lust don’t appear suddenly, they don’t appear out of the blue. But these feelings of lust came from your carnal senses (what you perceived) and your carnal mind.
Your senses perceived sexually explicit images or content, which entered your mind. Dalam fikiran anda, you dwelled upon these sexual images, kandungan, and fantasies, which provoked these sexual feelings of lust. These sexual feelings of lust may lead to masturbation.
Sebelum perbuatan melancap berlaku, banyak perkara telah berlaku dalam minda dan badan anda.
Anda tidak boleh melancap tanpa pemikiran seksual, imej seksual, dan/atau fantasi seksual. Itu adalah mustahil! Kerana pemikiran seksual atau imej seksual membawa kepada perasaan seksual nafsu yang membawa kepada melancap.
Melancap dipupuk oleh deria dan fikiran duniawi anda. Oleh itu, perkara yang anda tonton adalah penting, apa yang anda baca, apa yang anda dengar, dan apa yang anda lakukan.
Menonton televisyen boleh membawa kepada melancap
Mari kita lihat beberapa contoh dari kehidupan seharian yang boleh membangkitkan perasaan nafsu seksual. Mari mulakan dengan mata dan apa yang anda lihat. Apabila anda menonton filem, siri, atau program di televisyen dengan kandungan seksual, the sexual images will settle in your mind and can provoke sexual feelings of lust.
Apa yang berlaku di alam rohani? Di alam rohani, the unclean spirit of lust will try to enter your life via these images. This is the same unclean spirit of lust, from which the movie, siri,s or program has originated.
When the spirit of lust has entered your life, the unclean spirit will manifest itself in your flesh. He will defile your mind and bring up perverse thoughts and images to your mind and create sexual fantasies that will cause sexual feelings of lust, you want to satisfy. The only way to satisfy these feelings of lust is by masturbating and so you will masturbate.
Porn may lead to masturbation
And let’s not forget porn. Ia sukar dipercayai, how many Christians watch porn (secara rahsia) di televisyen, internet, in erotic magazines, dan lain-lain.. They feed themselves with unclean images that defile their minds. (Baca juga: ‘Apakah bahaya pornografi?).
These unclean images represent everything that goes against the Word of God. Seperti contohnya, perzinaan, zina, seks sebelum berkahwin, same-sex, group sex, sex with animals, sex with minors, Dan sebagainya.
These sexual images and content enter your mind and open the door for an unclean spirit of lust to enter your life, and possess your mind and shall not leave you alone.
This spirit of lust will constantly bring up these unclean images in your mind and provoke sexual feelings of lust. And to satisfy these feelings of lust, you will masturbate.
Not only through television, (sosial) media, Buku, majalah, and porn you may be confronted with sexual images and content. In your daily life, you can also be confronted with sexual images; via billboards or the way someone is dressed on the street, di sekolah, di tempat kerja, or even in the church. You look at that person and what you perceive can create sexual thoughts and perverse images in your mind that can lead to feelings of lust. The feelings of lust may lead to masturbation.
romantic books may lead to masturbation
An unclean spirit of sexual lust can also enter your life through (sosial) media, Buku, and magazines. The words you read can create sexual images, fikiran, and fantasies in your mind that provoke sexual feelings of lust. These feelings of lust may lead to masturbation.
What are you listening to?
katakan, you are conversing with someone and suddenly, the person tells you a dirty joke or story. Dengan mendengar, you grant your ears to the dirty words, yang dituturkan. These dirty words will be transformed into sexual thoughts and images in your mind. These sexual thoughts and images in your mind can provoke sexual feelings of lust, which could lead to masturbation.
What do you feel?
During sports, di sekolah, or at your job, you can become very close to someone or someone may have ulterior motives. The person tries to seduce you by standing close to you, touching you, or embracing you, which could cause sexual fantasies, and provoke sexual feelings of lust, which you will satisfy by masturbating.
What do you drink?
Alcohol and sex are spiritual friends. When you drink a couple of glasses of wine, beer, or other alcoholic beverages, the alcohol will provoke sexual feelings of lust, which can lead to masturbation.
These are just some of the many examples, whereby sexual feelings of lust are provoked that can lead to masturbation.
Masturbation is a work of the flesh and not of the spirit
One thing is certain, masturbation originates from your feelings and is a work of the flesh. Your feelings are controlled by your mind. Your mind is fed by what you perceive with your senses. Ini bermakna, that if you are overwhelmed with sexual feelings of lust, then a lot of things have already taken place in your mind.
It is important to live a disciplined life and to keep an eye on your senses to guard your mind.
You have to be careful what you watch, apa yang anda baca, kepada siapa anda mendengar, Dll. (Baca juga: Mengapa anda perlu menjaga fikiran anda?)
You should guard your mind from unclean sexual images or content that can create sexual fantasies. You must be careful about what thoughts you dwell upon in your mind.
When you seek the things that are above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of the Father and are busy with the things of the Kingdom of God and keep your mind pure and holy and guard your senses and mind against these sexual images, kandungan, and fantasies, then your mind shall not provoke sexual feelings of lust that lead to masturbation.
But as soon as you seek the things on earth and allow the things of this world to enter your mind and you open yourself to all kinds of sexual filthiness that create sexual images, fikiran, and fantasies in your mind, then feelings of lust will be provoked and it won’t be long before you will masturbate.
Committing adultery through masturbation
Many Christians are also ignorant of the fact that when you masturbate you commit adultery.
You can’t masturbate without having erotic images, fikiran, or fantasies in your mind. Kata Alkitab, that if you only look at a person with lust, then you have already committed adultery.
What does the Bible say about sexual thoughts, imej, and fantasies?
Kamu telah mendengar bahawa ia telah dikatakan oleh mereka pada zaman dahulu, Janganlah kamu berzina: Tetapi saya katakan kepada anda, Bahawa sesiapa yang memandang perempuan dengan berahi kepadanya sudah pun berzina dengannya di dalam hatinya (Matthew 5:27-28)
Jesus knew the spirit realm. He knew the consequences in the spiritual realm of an act in the natural realm. (Baca juga: Berjuang melawan musuh yang tidak kelihatan).
Jesus knew what would happen if you lust in your mind (hati) after someone, Siapa bukan pasangan anda. Itulah sebabnya Yesus berkata, that if you lust after someone, Siapa bukan pasangan anda, you have already committed adultery in your heart.
When you allow that spirit of lust to have its way in your mind and create sexual images of another person in your mind, kemudian di alam rohani, you will be joined together with that person.
What does the Bible say about feelings of lust and desire?
Antaranya juga kita semua mempunyai perbualan kita pada masa lalu dalam nafsu daging kita, memenuhi keinginan daging dan fikiran; dan secara semula jadi anak -anak murka, walaupun seperti yang lain (Efesus 2:3)
Orang, who are not born again or are spiritual babies, live in subjection to their flesh. They are led by their senses, fikiran duniawi, dan perasaan. Their feelings, emosi, and thoughts reign in their lives and dictate them what to do. If the flesh wants to satisfy its sexual lusts and desires, they obey the flesh and masturbate.
But born-again believers, yang anak lelaki Tuhan (lelaki dan perempuan) walk after the Spirit and not after the flesh. They rule over their thoughts, emosi, perasaan, dan akan. (Baca juga: ‘Mengambil kuasa atas pemikiran anda sebelum mereka berkuasa atas anda').
The Holy Spirit dwells in them and they discern the spirits and see, what takes place in the spiritual realm.
They discern the darkness from light. Itu, they’ll turn away from things, that cause unclean thoughts, imej, dan perasaan. Not because they can’t control their feelings, but because they don’t want to defile their minds.
They don’t want to have communion with unclean spirits. They don’t want to be partakers of the works of darkness. Sebaliknya, they keep their minds pure.
The children of God discern good from evil. They won’t engage in evil, because they know where evil originates from. They know that sin leads to bondage and death. (Baca juga: Tidakkah anda mati jika anda terus berdosa?)
When you masturbate, you obey your flesh and are a slave of your flesh. You obey this unclean spirit that operates in your flesh and controls your mind. You give what this spirit of lust demands, which is sex.
Masturbation is a bondage of the flesh
Masturbation is a bondage of the flesh (ketagihan). Therefore masturbation is not a one-time thing. Once you start masturbating and obey and feed that spirit of lust through masturbation, you allow that spirit of lust to rule over you. You become his slave and become addicted to masturbation and you shall not be able to stop masturbating.
The images in your mind that turned you on in the beginning, shall not work anymore. Therefore you shall push your boundaries and create more perverse sexual thoughts, imej, and fantasies.
How to stop masturbation?
When you become aware of who keeps you in bondage and you don’t want to be controlled by that evil spirit anymore and you want to stop masturbating, then you should stop obeying his commandment to masturbate. You should command that spirit of lust to leave your body and stop giving in what he wants.
You shall command him to go, in the Name of Jesus and that spirit must obey your command. Because you have been given the authority in Jesus Christ (Baca juga: Iman dalam Nama Yesus).
But it’s all about your will. Do you really want to stop masturbating and be delivered from your masturbation addiction?
Is your love for Jesus greater than the love for your flesh?
If your will is possessed by an evil spirit and you think you don’t have any willpower and are not able to cast out this unclean spirit from your life, then you can search for a fellow believer, who is born again and walks after the Spirit in the authority of Christ and can deliver you from these demonic powers.
The authority of Jesus and the power of the Holy Spirit can set any person free instantly.
No human therapy can compete with that. It doesn’t matter if you are possessed by one demonic spirit or hundreds of demonic spirits. Atas nama Yesus Kristus, you can be set free instantly. (Baca juga: Adakah psikologi Kristian wujud?).
What do you do when the spirit of lust returns?
Apa yang anda buat, if you are delivered and the evil spirit tries to return, by bringing up unclean images and thoughts in your mind, or feelings of lust in your body? Don’t give in! But remind him that you’ve commanded him to go in the Name of Jesus.
You tell him he has no right to occupy your mind. Because your mind belongs to Jesus Christ. You are not his servant anymore but you are a servant of Christ.
You should take every thought, yang menentang Firman Tuhan, captive in Jesus Christ; perkataan itu. But you can only do that if you know the Word.
Therefore you have to read and study the Bible. You have to feed your mind with the words of God and meditate on the Word. You should dwell day and night on the words of God and let them not depart from your mind. As long as your mind stays on the Word of God, you will see that these feelings of lust will leave your mind and your body.
What happens when church leaders masturbate?
As long as someone does the works of the flesh, the person is bound to the flesh. Mengetahui ini, how can a pastor, pendeta, Penatua, pastoral caretaker, or other church leader, who is bound to the flesh by a spirit of lust, deliver others from a demonic spirit of lust? Itu mustahil!
If a church leader masturbates and preaches to the congregation, then the spirit of lust that controls the preacher’s life will be transferred to the hearers. When a person comes for help, and the church leader prays and lays hands on the person, this spirit of lust will be transferred into his life.
Church leaders should not be carnal and should not be slaves of the flesh and live in sin. But church leaders should live holy and walk as mature sons of God after the Spirit in righteousness in obedience to God and His Word.
How can church leaders lead, panduan, and correct the congregation if their own life is one big mess? How can they preach sanctification, if they don’t live holy lives?
And how can they walk after the Spirit if they keep walking after the flesh fulfilling the lusts and desires of their flesh?
If you are born again and the Spirit of God abides in you, then you shall not walk after the flesh anymore, but you shall walk after the Spirit as the new creation (orang Rom 8:9)
When you masturbate and satisfy your carnal sexual feelings, you obey your flesh and are still a slave of your flesh (orang Rom 8:12).
God is a holy God. God expects from His sons and daughters, who are born of Him and have His Holy Spirit abiding in them, that they obey God and walk holy because they have the nature of their Father.
May single Christians masturbate?
May single Christians masturbate? The fact that someone is single doesn’t give someone the right to masturbate. Whatever the world and other so-called Christians say. A single Christian has no exceptional position to keep doing the works of the flesh and satisfy carnal lusts and desires. Single Christians have to lay down the works of the flesh, including masturbation.
If you are a single Christian and you masturbate on sexual images, fikiran, and fantasies, you defile your mind and commit adultery.
Paul said the following, Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Namun begitu, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband (1 Korintus 7:1-2)
Defraud you not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency (1 Korintus 7:5-6)
Although this applies to marriage, this principle of temptation applies to every Christian.
When satan tempts you with feelings of sexual lust and desire and you are unable to master these feelings then the Bible says you have a lack of self-control (incontinence (Baca juga: Bolehkah anda menahan godaan?)).
It’s therefore important to crucify the will, Nafsu, and desires of the flesh and to put off the old man and kenakan lelaki baru and walk after the Spirit.
Semasa anda berjalan selepas semangat, you shall not fulfill the lust and desires of the flesh.
A married person cares for things of the world (to please the spouse). An unmarried person cares for the things of the Lord. How the person may please the Lord (1 Korintus 7:32).
How do you reign over sexual feelings?
When you are not married and walk after the Spirit, you shall care for the things of the Kingdom of God. As long as you stay focused upon the Kingdom of God and seek those things that are above, instead of the things that are in this world, you won’t be bothered with sexual unclean thoughts, fantasies, or feelings of lust.
That’s how you reign over sexual feelings, by walking after the Spirit and seeking the things that are above and by being busy with the things of the Kingdom of God.
When you are single, and you wrestle with sexual feelings of lust, that will lead to masturbation, then it’s important to ask yourself, with what things do you feed your mind? Do you feed your mind with the Word (reading and studying the Bible), dan perkara -perkara kerajaan Tuhan? Or do you feed your mind with the entertainment and the things of this world? (Baca juga: Biarkan saya menghiburkan anda!)
The church of Christ should live holy and righteous
They that are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts (Galatia 5:24)
The Body of Christ should live holy and righteous. The Church ought to walk after the Spirit and not after the flesh. Many sexual impurities take place in the body of Christ, whereby many churches have been defiled.
It happens regularly, that pastors, pendakwah, pemimpin ibadat, pastoral caretakers, or other leaders or members of the church watch porn, melancap, melakukan perzinaan, perzinaan, have homosexual relationships, sexually abuse children, Dll. Why does this happen? Because they are carnal and controlled by a spirit of lust and led by carnal feelings of lust and desire.
All these sexual unclean works of the flesh take place among church leaders and church members because they are not truly born again.
They haven’t crucified their flesh in Christ. They may say hey are born again and have crucified their flesh in Christ, but their actions speak louder than their words.
If they keep walking after the flesh, they are led by the flesh. (Baca juga: ‘Apa yang Alkitab katakan tentang homoseksualiti?‘ dan ‘Adakah anda tahu apa yang berlaku di bandar Gibeah‘).
zina, dan segala najis, atau ketamakan, jangan sekali-kali disebut di antara kamu, sebagai menjadi orang kudus; Tidak juga kekotoran, mahupun bercakap bodoh, mahupun bergurau, yang tidak selesa: tetapi lebih kepada ucapan terima kasih. Untuk ini kamu tahu, bahawa tiada pelacur, mahupun orang yang najis, mahupun manusia yang tamak, yang menyembah berhala, mempunyai apa-apa warisan dalam kerajaan Kristus dan Allah (Efesus 5:3-5)
If the flesh (with the affections and lusts) is crucified, which means that the flesh is dead, how can a person walk in it? You can only walk in it if the flesh is not dead but alive.
God wants your sanctification
God wants your sanctification. Because that is the will of God, that you abstain from fornication, that you know how to possess your vessel in sanctification and honour and not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles, who know not God (1 Tesalonika 4:3-5)
That unbelievers masturbate is normal, because they belong to the world and don’t know God and live without Him. They live from their fallen state and walk after the flesh in submission to the will, Nafsu, dan keinginan daging mereka.
But a child of God, who is born of His Spirit, mempunyai crucified the flesh with all the lusts and desires, and shall no longer walk as a slave of their flesh as a sinner and live in sin. But they will rule over their flesh (Baca juga: Biarkan dosa tidak lagi memerintah sebagai raja dalam hidup anda!).
What does the Bible say about masturbation? Why Is masturbation a sin?
Untuk semua yang ada di dunia, nafsu daging, dan nafsu mata, dan kebanggaan hidup, bukan dari Bapa, tetapi dari dunia (1 John 2;16)
What does the Bible say about masturbation? Is masturbation a sin? According to what is written above and the Scriptures, we can conclude that masturbation is a sin. Masturbation is a work of the flesh. Therefore masturbation is against the will of God and His Word.
When you masturbate you have sexual intercourse with yourself, with your flesh. Your flesh screams and demands to be sexually satisfied and you give what your flesh wants.
If the Bible says, that a child of God should not walk after the flesh; after his carnal lusts and desires, how can a child of God masturbate? Masturbation is a sexual act that derives from feelings of the flesh and is a work of the flesh. Masturbation is an act of obedience to the flesh.
The new life in Jesus Christ
Berjalan dalam Roh, dan kamu tidak akan memenuhi keinginan daging (Galatia 5:16-17)
Life in Jesus Christ is not a religion that exists of following all kinds of rules and regulations you add unto your life, so that you will go to heaven (Baca juga: Agama atau perhubungan?).
If you have repented, then you don’t want to live the way you lived before your repentance.
When you are baptized into the dead of Christ and your spirit is raised from the dead and you receive the baptism with the Holy Ghost, sifat anda telah berubah.
The sinful nature of the devil that is present in the flesh and has always reigned in your life is put off and is replaced by a new holy nature of God that is present in the spirit.
You and your life will change because God’s Holy Spirit dwells in you. And as long as you submit to Jesus Christ and walk in obedience to the Word after the Spirit, you shall do His will and do what pleases Him.
God shall never approve the works of the flesh
Malangnya, many Christians are not willing to lay down their flesh with its lusts and desires. Itu, they adjust and change the words of God, so that they can keep walking after the flesh fulfilling the will, Nafsu, dan keinginan daging, and live like the world, tanpa rasa terkutuk. (Baca juga: Will God change His will for the lusts and desires of people?).
But even if preachers approve of masturbation and say that it doesn’t matter that you masturbate, many times they say this because they masturbate, God shall never approve the works of the flesh God shall never bless sin. Therefore God shall not approve of masturbation. Because masturbation is a work of the flesh and not of the Spirit.
Tuhan sangat jelas dalam Firman -Nya. Tidak kira apa orang, yang memanggil diri mereka sebagai orang Kristian, katakan, termasuk pendakwah, ahli teologi, nabi, Dll. God’s Word is and remains the truth and stands forever! Pada akhirnya, it’s the Word of God that shall judge everyone according to his or her works.
If you obey the flesh and keep doing the works of the flesh you shall serve the devil and exalt and glorify him instead of God (Baca juga: Kekuatan syaitan dikuasakan oleh dosa)
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