Uyazi ukuthi kungani abesifazane behlukaniswa namadoda esinagogeni? Abantu abaningi bayacabanga futhi basho, ukuthi abesifazane babengaphansi kwabesilisa, kodwa kuyiqiniso lokho? Lithini iBhayibheli ngokuhlukaniswa kwabesilisa nabesifazane ethempelini? Ake sibheke izizathu ezimbili, kungani abesifazane behlukaniswa namadoda esinagogeni.
Isizathu sokuqala sokuthi kungani abesifazane behlukaniswa namadoda
Ngokomthetho wamaJuda, abesilisa nabesifazane kwadingeka bahlukaniswe phakathi umthandazo, ngoba kuphela lapho, babekwazi ukuzinikela ngokuphelele ekukhulekeni naseNkosini. Amadoda nabesifazane babehlukaniswa ngekhethini noma udonga, noma abesifazane babehlezi kuvulandi. Isizathu kwakungengenxa yokuthi babephansi kunamadoda, kodwa isizathu sasiwukuthi, ukuthi kwakufanele bazinikele ngokuphelele emthandazweni. Noma yini eyayizophazamisa ukunaka kwabo kwakufanele isuswe.
Lapho owesifazane okhangayo ehlala eduze kwendoda, indoda ingaphazanyiswa nguye, futhi lokhu kungaphazamisa emthandazweni wakhe kuNkulunkulu.
Amadoda ephazanyiswa abesifazane
Mangaki amadoda, namuhla, baphazanyiswa esontweni abesifazane abakhangayo, noma ngabesifazane, abagqoka izingubo ezivusa inkanuko?
Njengabesifazane, kumele sinake, endleleni esigqoka ngayo. Kufanele sigqoke ngendlela ehloniphekile, ikakhulukazi uma kuyiwa esontweni. Akumele sibe isiphazamiso samadoda. Ngakho-ke, kufanele sigweme izingubo eziveza ucansi; iziqongo ezingezansi ezikhombisa izingxenye zamabele, izingubo ezingenamichilo, noma ama-mini-skirts/ama-shorts anemilenze engenalutho ebonisa i-bum yakho njll. Akumele uzimboze ngokuphelele, futhi akufanele ubukeke uyisidala. Kodwa qaphela, ukuthi ungabi yisiphazamiso samadoda.
Isizathu sesibili esenza ukuthi abesifazane bahlukaniswe namadoda
Esinye isizathu, kungani abesifazane behlukaniswa namadoda, kwakunjalo ngaleso sikhathi, imikhosi eminingi yobuqaba, yayiqukethe izenzo zocansi kanye nemibuthano ethokozisayo. Ngokuhlukanisa abesifazane kwabesilisa, bebezokugwema lokhu kuziphatha.
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