Isithelo ukubekezela, yisithelo, okudingekayo emhlabeni wethu Namuhla. Kangaki, ingabe abantu bayayeka ukubekezela futhi bathukuthele, uma umuntu ebathuka? Kangaki, abantu bazizwa becasukile, dumela, futhi bafuna ukuziphindiselela, ngoba kukhona obaphathe kabi? Kangaki, ingabe abantu bayakhononda futhi bayakhononda ngenxa yesimo ababhekene naso. Izikhathi eziningi, abantu balahlekelwa ukubekezela futhi bavumele imizwa nemizwelo yabo ibuse phezu kwabo. Lithini iBhayibheli ngesithelo ukubekezela?
Yini edala ukuthi uphelelwe isineke?
Lapho uphelelwa isineke, kungenxa yokuthi kukhona okwenzekile ngokumelene lakho intando noma okulindelweyo. Ezinye izimbangela zingaba: umuntu unomunye umbono, ukungakhulumisani kahle, engalaleli, incazelo engalungile, ukungaziphathi kahle, ukungezwa (lapho othile engafuni ukulalela isiyalo sakho), ukwehluleka, ukucasuka njll.
Kungenzeka phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, umzali nengane, uthisha kanye nomfundi, abaphathi nabasebenzi, abangani, mangale, omakhelwane, amakholwa, Izingane, uyisho. Ungase usho, ukuthi ukulahlekelwa isineke sakho futhi uthukuthele futhi uthukuthele, kuvela ebugovuni.
Bangaki abantu abaxabene nomuntu? Lezi zingxabano ziqale ngokungaboni ngaso linye, noma bazizwa becasukile futhi/noma bethukwa.
Kodwa ukuxegisa ukubekezela nentukuthelo yakho kuyisithelo senyama hhayi sikaMoya. Kuphambene ngokuphelele nokubekezela.
Ubani ocindezela izinkinobho zakho?
Izikhathi eziningi abantu bathi: “lowo muntu wazi kahle ukuthi ungazicindezela kanjani izinkinobho zami”. Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi, ukuthi awunazo izinkinobho! Ngakho-ke uma ungenayo izinkinobho, akekho ongabaphusha. Uma usho kanje, noma lapho uzizwa ucasukile, futhi siphile ngokungathetheleli, kukhombisa kuphela, lokho Inyama yakho ayifanga okwamanje. Niseyinyama futhi nisabuswa inyama yenu, esikhundleni salokho ukuthi umoya wakho ubuse phezu kwenyama yakho.
Nguwe, olamandla okubusa phezu kwenyama yenu. Umoya wakho ungabusa phezu kwemizwa yakho nemizwa yakho. Lokho ke kuxhomeke kuwena, ozoba yigunya elikhulu empilweni yakho: umoya wakho noma inyama yakho.
Lapho uhamba emva kukaMoya, khona-ke akukho okungakuthatha ungaqaphile. Ngeke ushukunyiswe yilutho, kodwa bayohlala ngokuthula okupheleleyo.
INkosi iyabekezela
Bheka uNkulunkulu futhi ubheke uJesu, bayisibonelo esiphelele sokubekezela. Ukubekezela kwaba futhi kungenye yezici Zabo. Yebo, uBaba wethu uyabekezela:
- UJEHOVA uyabekezela, lomusa omkhulu, othethelela ububi neziphambeko, futhi ungalokothi ukhulule onecala, ehambela ububi bawoyise kubantwana kuze kube isizukulwane sesithathu nesesine (Num 14:18)
- Kodwa wena, O Nkosi, unguNkulunkulu ogcwele ububele, futhi unomusa, ukubekezela, futhi kuchichima umusa neqiniso (IHubo 86:15)
- Noma udelela ingcebo yobubele bakhe nokubekezela nokubekezela kwakhe; ungazi ukuthi umusa kaNkulunkulu ukuholela ekuphendukeni? (Rom 2:4)
- Okwathi ngesinye isikhathi babengalaleli, lapho ukubekezela kukaNkulunkulu kwakulindile ezinsukwini zikaNowa, ngenkathi umkhumbi usalungiswa, lapho abambalwa, leyo, imiphefumulo eyisishiyagalombili yasindiswa ngamanzi. (1 Isifuba khadi 3:20)
- INKOSI ayihlangeleli ngokusethembisi kwakhe, Njengoba amanye amadoda abala ukuncipha; Kepha ukubekezelela i-US-U-US, Azimisele ukuthi noma yini okufanele ishabalale, Kepha bonke kufanele baphenduke (2 Isifuba khadi 3:9)
Senziwe safana naye. UMoya wakhe oNgcwele uhlala kithi, ngakho-ke uma sihamba ngokukaMoya nathi siyakuthela izithelo ukubekezela.
Kusho ukuthini ukubekezela?
Ukubekezela kuhunyushwa egameni lesiGreki elithi makrothumia (G3115) kanye nezindlela: longanimity, leyo, (ngobuqotho) ukubekezela noma (ngokuzithoba) isibindi: – ukubekezela, ukubekezela.
Ngokwezichazamazwi, ukubekezela kusho:
- Ukuhlupheka isikhathi eside ngaphandle kokukhononda : ukubekezela okukhulu ngezikhathi ezinzima , ukubekezelela ngesineke ukoniwa okuhlala njalo noma ubunzima (Merriam Webster)
- Ukubekezelela ngokubekezela ububi noma ubunzima. (I-American Heritage Dictionary)
- Ubuhlungu obungapheli, ukungajabuli, njll ngaphandle kokukhononda, ukukhuthazela okude nokubekezela (Collins English isichazamazwi)
Kungenzeka kunezinto ezenzekayo empilweni yakho njengamanje, okukunikeza isizathu esihle sokububula nokukhononda, noma ukudabuka, hlanya, uthukuthele njll. Mhlawumbe uke waphathwa kabi noma uthukwe omunye umuntu, noma mhlawumbe ugule kakhulu, noma ukhubazeke ngenxa yengozi, obekungelona iphutha lakho.
Kodwa uma uhamba emva kukaMoya futhi uthela isithelo sikaMoya, uyakuthela izithelo ukubekezela. Lapho uthela izithelo ukubekezela, ngeke ukhononde futhi ukhononde, ngeke uzizwe udabukile, uthukuthele ugane unwabu. Uma usubekezela akukho lutho oluzokuthinta, kodwa uyakuhlala ekuthuleni okupheleleyo. Wen uthela izithelo ukubekezela, kunokuba kungabikho muntu futhi akukho okungakwenza uhlanye noma uthukuthele; akekho ongacindezela izinkinobho zakho. Ngoba awusenazo izinkinobho; inyama yakho yafa.
Isithelo ukubekezela okubonakalayo ezimpilweni zabangcwele
UPawulu wabhala kaningi ngesithelo ukubekezela. Wabhala ngokuhamba kwakhe njengenceku yeNkosi nokuthi abangcwele kufanele baziphathe futhi bahambe kanjani:
- Kodwa kukho konke sizibonakalisa njengezikhonzi zikaNkulunkulu, ngokubekezela okukhulu, ezinsizini, ngezidingo, ekucindezelekeni, Ngemigqa, emajele, ezinxushunxushwini, emisebenzini, ekubukeni, ekuzileni ukudla; Ngokuhlanzeka, ngolwazi, ngokubekezela, ngomusa, ngoMoya oNgcwele, ngothando olungazenzisi, Ngezwi leqiniso, Ngamandla kaNkulunkulu, ngezikhali zokulunga ngakwesokunene nangakwesokhohlo, Ngokuhlonishwa nokuhlaziswa, ngombiko omubi nombiko omuhle: njengabakhohlisi, futhi nokho kuyiqiniso; Njengoba engaziwa, futhi nokho eyaziwa kakhulu; njengokufa, futhi, bheka, siphila; njengokujeziswa, futhi angabulawa; Ngokudabukisayo, nokho bethokoza njalonjalo; njengabampofu, nokho ecebisa abaningi; njengabangenalutho, kanti silakho konke (2 Ukukhanywa 6:4-10)
- Kodwa isithelo sikaMoya siluthando, injabulo, ukuthula, ukubekezela, ubumnene, ukulunga, ukholo, ubumnene, ukugxila: akukho mthetho omelana nabanjalo (Gal 5:22-23)
- Mina-ke, isiboshwa seNkosi, ngiyanincenga ukuba nihambe ngokufanele ukubizwa enabizwa ngakho, ngakho konke ukuthobeka nobumnene, ngokubekezela, nibekezelelana ngothando; nikhuthalele ukugcina ubunye bukaMoya ngesibopho sokuthula (Efe 4:1-3)
- Iqiniswe ngawo wonke amandla, ngokwamandla akhe enkazimulo, kukho konke ukubekezela nokubekezela kanye nenjabulo (Kol 1:11)
- Ngakho-ke kufakwe, Njengabakhethiweyo bakaNkulunkulu, Ngcwele futhi sithandwa, amathumbu wesihe, umusa, ukuthobeka kwengqondo, ubumnene, ukubekezela; nibekezelelana, futhi bathethelelana, Uma noma yimuphi umuntu exabana nanoma yikuphi: njengoba nje noKristu wakuthethelela, kanjalo nani (Kol 3:12-13)
- Nokho ngenxa yalokhu ngathola umusa, ukuze kimi kuqala uJesu Kristu abonakalise konke ukubekezela, ngibe yisibonelo kulabo abazakukholwa nguye kusukela kwalokhu kuze kube sekuphileni okuphakade (1 UThim 1:16)
- Shumayela Izwi; yiba khona ngesizini, ngaphandle kwesizini; sola, khuzaka, khuthaza ngakho konke ukubekezela nemfundiso (2 UThim 4:2)
Yini noma ubani umthombo wakho empilweni?
Lapho uJesu Kristu enguMthombo wakho, nalapho niphila ngoMoya, niyakuthela izithelo ukubekezela. Uzoba nokubekezela futhi uzohamba egunyeni likamoya likaJesu Kristu. Uyoba namandla futhi uyobusa phezu kwayo yonke imizwelo yenyama nemizwa, njengokuzidabukela, intukuthelo, inzondo, ukuntula isineke njll.
Kodwa lapho umthombo wakho kuyinyama (usathane, Umhlaba) futhi uzidlisa ngezinto zezwe, khona-ke niyakuthela izithelo zolaka, inzondo, ukuntula isineke njll. Lapho kwenzeka into encane empilweni yakho, ukucasuka kuzovela, futhi kuzoholela ekuphelelweni isineke, nokuqubuka kolaka, inzondo, ulaka njll.
Ngakho-ke kubalulekile, ukudweba eMthonjeni ofanele. Ngakho-ke, hlala eZwini likaNkulunkulu futhi uthuthukise ubuwena eZwini likaNkulunkulu, esikhundleni samamuvi, uchungechunge lwethelevishini, omagazini, izincwadi, inkundla yezokuxhumana njll.
Gqoka indoda
Khumbula lokho phambi kwakho wazalwa ngokusha, waphila njengomhlaba. Naphila ngezinkanuko nezinkanuko zenyama yenu.
Ngokuba nathi ngesinye isikhathi sasiyiziwula, -ngalaleli, ukhohlisiwe, ukukhonza izinkanuko nezinjabulo ezihlukahlukene, ukuhlala ngobubi nomona, enenzondo, lokuzondana (Uthayela 3:3)
Ngakho-ke, alikhumule ikhehla kanye nezenzo zayo kanye gqoka umuntu omusha, owenziwa musha ekwazini ngokomfanekiso wakhe, owamdalayo. Yembathani uJesu Kristu.
Lapho uhlala ezwini Lakhe, futhi nihambe emva kukaMoya, aniyikufeza izinkanuko zenyama yenu. Aniyikuthela izithelo zenyama, kodwa lizaveza izithelo zikaMoya.
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