Kusho ukuthini ukuthi wothanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena?

Cishe yonke indawo lapho uya khona, umlayezo wothando uyashunyayelwa, emhlabeni nasebandleni. Kufanele uthande abanye futhi ubahloniphe futhi ubamukele njengoba beyikho. Uthanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena neminye imibhalo esebhayibhelini ngothando acashunwe. Nokho, Izikhathi eziningi imiBhalo iyakhishwa ngaphandle komongo, Ukuze sifanele emyaleko uthando lweNew Age olushunyayelwa emasontweni amaningi. A inkathi entsha uthando, evunyelwa konke futhi iyabekezelela futhi yamukele zonke izinto. Ngoba uNkulunkulu uluthando futhi iBhayibheli lisho, ukuthi kufanele uthande izitha zakho futhi uthande umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena, okusho ukuthi akufanele wahlulele ukuziphatha kwabo, isebenza, Futhi indlela abaphila ngayo, kepha kufanele ubekezelele, Vumela futhi wamukele isimilo sabo, imisebenzi nendlela abaphila ngayo. Akufanele uphazamise izimpilo zabantu, Kepha kufanele ubavumele ukuthi bahlale bangubani, Ngoba uNkulunkulu udale abantu ngendlela abanjalo ngayo. Futhi njengoba wonke umuntu eyisoni futhi ehlala eyisoni, akekho ophelele. Kepha kusho ukuthini ukuthanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena ngokwakho ngokweBhayibheli?

UDeveli ungumculi osontekile amazwi kaNkulunkulu

Yebo, UDeveli ungumculi weqiniso ngokusonta amazwi kaNkulunkulu nokuguqula iqiniso likaNkulunkulu libe ngamanga. UDeveli waphumelela endodeni elilingayo Insimu yase-Edene futhi futhi wacabanga ukuthi angenisa uJesu.

UJohane 14:10 Mina ngikuBaba noBaba ukimi amazwi engiwakhuluma kini angiwakhulumi ngokwami ​​kodwa ubaba ohlezi kimi.

Kepha uJesu wayethanda uyise futhi ayamazi uYise nentando yakhe, anikhothazele intando, izinkanuko, lezifiso zenyama.

Ngakho-ke uJesu wanqoba uDeveli ngamazwi kaNkulunkulu, ngokusebenzisa amazwi kaNkulunkulu esimweni esifanele (Funda futhi: ‘Ngizokunikeza ingcebo yomhlaba‘).

Ngeshwa, Akubona abantu abaningi abalandela uJesu’ isibonelo, Kepha abaningi badukiswa futhi balingwa nguDeveli futhi bakholelwa amanga akhe, kufaka phakathi amanga okufanele wemukele imisebenzi yenyama nobumnyama, Ngenxa yothando ngomakhelwane wakho.

Lapho nje ubhekene nabantu ngezenzo zabo noma imisebenzi yabo, Ohamba Ngokuphikisana Nentando KaNkulunkulu,  Uzwa masinyane amazwi e-pious, ukuze ungahluleli kepha kufanele uthande umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena.

Futhi amaKhristu amaningi adukiswa kangaka adukiswa athule nesono, Izinkolo ezingaziwa namafilosofi namasiko awo futhi (ukusebenzelana nemimoya) Imikhuba iyabekezelelwa futhi yamukelwa futhi ibangele ukuba insimu yobumnyama ikhuliswe (Funda futhi: ‘Ubumnyama bukhipha ukukhanya‘)

Ngabe umyalo wokuqala uthathe indawo eyesibiliumthetho?

UJesu wathi kuye, Wothanda uJehova uNkulunkulu wakho ngayo yonke inhliziyo yakho, langomphefumulo wakho wonke, nangayo yonke ingqondo yakho. Lo ngumyalo wokuqala no omkhulu. Okwesibili kufana nakho, Uyothanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena. Kule miyalo emibili ilengisa wonke umthetho nabaprofethi (Mathewu 22:37-40)

Awuzwa lutho ngomyalo wokuqala 'uthanda uJehova uNkulunkulu wakho ngayo yonke inhliziyo yakho, umphefumulo, ingqondo namandla '. Cha, Ubezwa kuphela bekhuluma ngomyalo wesibili 'Wothanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda ukuba' unikeze ukuhunyushwa kwabo kwenyama kubo.

Ngakho-ke umyalo wesibili waba umyalo wakho njengoba uzithanda wena 'uthathe indawo yomyalo wokuqala' uyothanda iNkosi uNkulunkulu wakho ngayo yonke inhliziyo yakho, umphefumulo, ingqondo namandla '

Lokhu akumangazi, Njengoba uNkulunkulu engaseyisizinda sezimpilo zabantu abaningi nasemasontweni amaningi, Kepha abantu baye baba yisikhungo.

Ikhehla, Ngubani owenyama futhi onesimo sikaDeveli futhi uholwa nguye, uthathe indawo kaNkulunkulu futhi uzimisele njengoNkulunkulu esontweni (Funda futhi: ‘UZimu wenqatshwa emasontweni amaningi‘)

Uthando Olulungile NgoNkulunkulu Luthathelwe indawo uthando lwe-humantistic

Ngoba ukubheka kwakhe lokho kwakhuthazelela ukuphikisana okunjalo kwezoni kuye, funa nigqoke futhi niphele amandla ezingqondweni zakho. Anakumelana negazi, Ukulwela Isono. Futhi nikhohliwe isikhuthazo esikhuluma kini ezinganeni, Umfana wami, Ungadeleli ukuqasha kweNkosi, futhi ungapheli amandla lapho usukhuzile: Othanda iNkosi enithandayo, futhi bahlabe yonke indodana ayitholayo. Uma ubekezelela ukushayeka, UNkulunkulu usebenzelana nawe njengamadodana; Yiliphi indodana uBaba ahlanya ngayo hhayi? Kepha uma nina nina ninankinga, Abo bonke abahlanganyeli, ke nina bastards, futhi hhayi amadodana (IsiHebheru 12:3-8)

Uthando Olulungile lukaNkulunkulu, okuvezwa eZwini lakhe kuthathelwe indawo uthando lwe-humantistic lomhlaba olubekezelela futhi luvunyelwa, amukele, futhi ugqugquzela zonke izinto eziphikisana nentando kaNkulunkulu. Kepha uthando olulungile lukaNkulunkulu akuyona uthando olungamanga lomhlaba futhi alunalutho olungaphakathi kobuntu (Funda futhi: ‘'Yini uthando lwamanga‘ futhi ‘UJesu mbumbulu Uveza AmaKristu Okungabonakali'). 

lowo emthandayo iNkosi iyamlaya imbhaxabule

Uthando lomhlaba luwuthando lobugovu futhi lujikeleza inyama nalujabulisayo nokulondolozwa kwenyama nokunikeza inyama lokho okufunayo futhi okudinga ukufeza intando, inkanuko, kanye nokufisa kwenyama.

Lolu thando lomhlaba lunikeza uDeveli namaminithi wakhe futhi luqinisekise ukuthi imiphefumulo iyaqhubeka nokuphila ebumnyameni futhi ekugcineni ilahlekile.

Uthando lukaNkulunkulu luwuthando olungenabugovu olugxile komoya nokulondolozwa komoya nokwenza imiyalo kaJesu Kristu; Izwi ukuze intando kaNkulunkulu igcwaliseke.

Labo abangowasemhlabeni futhi bangabantu benyama ababheki uthando lukaNkulunkulu njengothando lweqiniso, Kepha babheka uthando lukaNkulunkulu njengokungenakuzalwa, -nokhahlo, -nonya, ukwahlulela, sobiso bendlubabayo, futhi inhlukumeza

Lokho kungenxa yokuthi uthando lukaNkulunkulu luhlangabezana nabantu ngemisebenzi yabo futhi lifakazele ukuthi imisebenzi yabo mibi futhi ibiza abantu ukuba baphenduke, Ukuze imiphefumulo ihanjiswa embusweni wobumnyama nangokulungiswa kanye nokujeziswa hlala kusindisiwe (Funda futhi: ‘Uma usulondoloziwe njalo' futhi'Ngubani iNkosi ethandwayo, Uyahlanza futhi ahlangane').

Uthando lomhlaba luyamukela isono futhi luvikele abantu besono, baphikelela esonweni, Kodwa uthando lukaNkulunkulu luyayinakekela isono futhi lubiza abantu ukuba baphenduke futhi basuswe isono futhi bangela ukuba abantu bahambe ngokulunga.

Uthando ngoNkulunkulu

Ngalokhu siyazi ukuthi siyabathanda abantwana bakaNkulunkulu, lapho sithanda uNkulunkulu, futhi ugcine imiyalo yaKhe. Ngoba lolu uthando lukaNkulunkulu, ukuthi sigcine imiyalo yakhe: nemiyalo yaKhe ayinzima. (1 UJohane 5:2-3).

Uma ningithanda Mina, gcina imiyalo Yami (UJohane 14:15)

Lowo onemiyalo yami, futhi ubagcine, nguyena ongithandayo: futhi ongithandayo uyothandwa nguBaba waMi, futhi ngizomthanda, futhi ngizozibonakalisa Mina kuye (UJohane 14:21)

UJohane 15:9-10 Uma ugcina imiyalo yami uyakugcina othandweni lwami

Lapho uzalwa kabusha kuKristu noMoya oNgcwele bahlala kuwe, Ngemuva kwalokho unalo uhlobo lukaNkulunkulu kanye nomthetho kaNkulunkulu, Umthetho womoya nangoMbuso wakhe uhlala kini. 

Uthanda uNkulunkulu ngaphezu kwakho konke, Ngoba lokho kungukuqala komthetho kaNkulunkulu futhi unikezwe uJesu njengomyalo wokuqala wale miyalo emibili lapho kugcwaliseka khona umthetho wonke (Eksodusi 20, Duteronomi 6:5. Mathewu 22:37, Maka 12:30) 

Uma umthanda uNkulunkulu ngaphezu kwakho konke, Lapho-ke niyakuzithoba kuye, nigcine imiyalo yakhe, nihambe emva kwentando yakhe, njengoJesu, owayemlalela ngokuphelele uYise futhi wahamba emva kwentando yakhe, Ngenxa yothando lwakhe ngoYise.

Kusuka othandweni, onayo ngoNkulunkulu, Uzokwazi ukuhamba ngemuva komoya othandweni umakhelwane wakho.

Kusuka enyameni, Awukwazi ukuhamba othandweni kumakhelwane wakho

Kusuka enyameni, Akunakwenzeka ukuhamba othandweni kumakhelwane wakho, Njengoba uNkulunkulu ayehlose kakhulu, Kepha uzohamba othandweni lwezwe lomhlaba, Yiluphi uthando lobugovu. 

Ngakho-ke kuyadingeka beka inyama nemisebenzi yayo, Ukuze uhambe ngemuva komoya othandweni lweqiniso ngoNkulunkulu futhi uthande umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena, Njengoba uNkulunkulu ayehlose kakhulu.

Ngoba uhlobo lwenyama, lapho yonke imisebenzi yobumnyama iyatholakala khona, kungobugovu, ozihlwini, -vukelayo, -ngenalo iqiniso, -leleleleli, -bi, futhi ufuna ukuqamba amanga, ukweba, shwile, ukufisa, Ukhanuka abanye, Nikela ubufebe, gila ukuphinga, uthukuthele, Inzondo nokwenza zonke lezo zinto ezimbi eziphikisana nentando kaNkulunkulu. Ngoba ngokwenza lezi zinto inyama izondliwa futhi yaneliseke.

Uma uthanda i-neigbour yakho njengoba uzithanda wena, Uyohlonipha uyihlo nonyoko

Uma uthanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena, Uzothanda abazali bakho futhi ubadumise esikhundleni sokuzonda futhi uzobaphatha, indlela ofuna ukuphathwa ngayo.

Inyama ifuna ukuvukela futhi isukume, Kepha ngenxa yokuthi ubeke inyama kuKristu, awuyikuvukela futhi umelene nabo, qalekisa, kanye / noma ukuhamba, Lapho besho okuthile okungeke kube ngokwentando yakho kanye / noma lapho beyala futhi bekulungisa khona, Njengoba lokhu kuyingxenye yothando lukaNkulunkulu. Kepha niyakunikela kubo ngokuhlonipha nangokubalalela.

Awusoze wakhuluma okubi ngabazali bakho ngemuva futhi ungathetheleleli. Awuyikubashiye esikuthobeni sabo futhi ungazinakekeli, Ngoba umatasa kakhulu kuwe kanye nempilo yakho. Kepha uyakubanakekela futhi ubanakekele. 

Ungabulali

Le ndoda entsha ihanjiswa ekufeni futhi ayiseyona eyakho yokufa futhi ayisekho enkonzweni yakhe. Ngakho-ke uma usuyindoda entsha awuyikubulala. Ngoba umthanda uNkulunkulu ngaphezu kwakho konke futhi uyawathanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba nje ungamlimaza omunye umuntu futhi ungangenzi okubi ngakho-ke awuyikubulala.

Awuyikuqeda impilo yomunye umuntu futhi ungathathi unecala kuwe icala kuwe. Lokhu kusho futhi, ukuthi awuyikukhipha isisu noma i-euthanasia. Awuyikubulala abanye noma uzibulale (ukuzibulala), Njengoba ababulali bengeke bazuze ifa lombuso kaNkulunkulu (Oh. IsAmbulo 22:15)

Umhlaba ungabhalisile ngokusemthethweni ukunqanyulwa kwezimpilo Aka ukubulala izimpilo zabanye noma wena (ukuzibulala), Kepha uNkulunkulu akasoze abhale ngokusemthethweni ukubulala abanye noma wena, Njengoba uNkulunkulu engakashintshi futhi izwi lakhe limi kuze kube phakade.

Ungebi

Uma uthanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba wena ngeke weba. Uyakugcina izandla zakho ezintweni zomakhelwane wakho. Awuyikufisela impahla yomakhelwane wakho ngakho-ke awuyikuntshontsha, defraud kanye / noma uboleke okuthile kumakhelwane wakho hhayi ukubuyisa.

Kepha nina niyathembeka nihambe ngobuqotho, ningekho ngasese, Noma kungekho muntu obheke futhi noma umuntu noma inkampani eyeba nayo inemali eningi. Kukhona eyodwa, Ngubani obukeka futhi obona konke futhi akukho lutho olufihliwe.

Awuyikuqamba amanga

Kunini lapho unesimo sikaNkulunkulu futhi uthanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena, Lapho-ke uyakukhuluma iqiniso, ungalali umakhelwane wakho, ukhohlise umakhelwane wakho.

UDeveli ungumqambimanga nobaba we izoni, Obani futhi amanga. Inyama ifuna ukuqamba amanga futhi ikhohlise abanye. Inyama isebenzisa amanga, kufaka phakathi amanga amancane amhlophe, njengezaba, isembozo, ukuzivikela futhi / noma ukufeza okuthile.

AbaseKolose 3:9 Ungalali omunye komunye umuntu obona ukuthi ususe indoda endala ngezenzo zayo

Kepha uNkulunkulu akamqambimanga. UNkulunkulu ukhuluma iqiniso. Ngakho-ke uNkulunkulu uthembekile futhi uthembekile futhi wonke umuntu, Ngubani owazalelwa wona uyokhuluma iqiniso futhi athembeke futhi ahambe ngobuqotho.

Uma uzalelwe ngokubuya kuJesu Kristu noMoya oNgcwele bahlala kuwe, Lapho-ke umoya weqiniso uhlala kini futhi nizokhuluma iqiniso. 

Awuyikuqamba amanga futhi ukhohlise abanye futhi wenze izithembiso ezingamanga ngamazwi akho, njengoba wenze ngaphambi kokuzalwa kabusha, Lapho uDeveli enguYihlo futhi wahamba ebumnyameni.

Uma uqhubeka nokuqamba amanga, ngaphandle komoya ongcwele ukubhekana nawe, kufanele uzibuze ngokungathí sina, ukuthi ngabe uMoya oNgcwele uhlala kini noma ngomunye umoya ohlala kini ebangela ukuba ugcine amanga (Funda futhi: ‘Wonke amasiko ayanyamalala kuKristu‘).

Awuyikufeba

Lapho unesimo sikaNkulunkulu nomoya ongcwele uhlala kuwe, awuyikukhohlisa owakwakho futhi ngeke uqaphele nothile, ongeyena umlingani wakho. Ngoba ungomunye oshade naye futhi awufuni ukulimaza oshade naye ngokukopela kuye, Ngoba uthanda owakwakho njengoba uzithanda wena.

Uma wenza ubufebe, Kubonisa ukuthi inyama yakho ayibethelwanga kuKristu, Kepha ukuthi inyama yakho ibusa njengenkosi empilweni yakho esikhundleni somoya.

Indodana kaNkulunkulu ezelwe kabusha, ohamba ngemuva komoya, ngeke eze ubufebe. Indodana kaNkulunkulu ngeke ibe nomcabango wokuthi (ucansi) inkanuko ngemuva komunye umuntu, makuyeke ukubeka ilungelo lakhe lobuzibulo nokungapheliyo emgqeni ukuze kwanelise izinkanuko zakhe nezifiso zakhe.

Kuningi, obeka ubuphakade babo emgqeni, Ukuze uthole injabulo yenyama nokwenelisa izinkanuko zazo zesikhashana zenyama nezifiso. Njengo-Esawu, owathengisa ubuzibulo bakhe kuJakobe ukuze anelise izinkanuko zakhe zesikhashana zenyama nezifiso. Kepha uNkulunkulu uyakuzonda lokhu kuziphatha, enze sasazisa ngeZwi laKhe (UMalaki 1:3, AmaRoma 9:10-13 (Funda futhi: ‘Ungakwazi yini ukumelana nesilingo?))

Ungaphingi

UNkulunkulu ukhiphe izivumelwano, isivumelwano somshado. Isivumelwano somshado phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane uyisivumelwano esingcwele ngemuva kwentando yakhe.

Lapho owesilisa nowesifazane benquma ukushada futhi bangene esivumelwaneni somshado indoda nowesifazane baba nyamanye. Abasebabili kodwa munye. Bahlangene omunye komunye futhi bazophila kulesivumelwano esingcwele impilo yabo yonke kuze kube (-yimvelo) Ukufa kuyaba yingxenye.

UDeveli obhongayo ibhubesi uhamba ngokufuna abaphendukayo 1 UPetru 5:8

UDeveli uyamzonda uNkulunkulu nakho konke uNkulunkulu adalile futhi asungula, kufaka phakathi isivumelwano somshado. Ngakho-ke uDeveli wenza konke okusemandleni akhe ukungcolisa umshado futhi abhubhise isivumelwano somshado.

Futhi uma sibheka ngathi, singaphetha, ukuthi umsebenzi wakhe uphumelele impela.

Ngabe uDeveli angaphumelela kanjani kangaka? UDeveli uphumelele kangaka, Ngoba abantu abaningi, abathi bangamaKhristu abazalwa ngokuphindaphindwayo futhi bangabantu benyama futhi banengqondo yomhlaba.

Abazibeki enyameni yabo yonke imizwa yayo, izinkanuko, kanye nezifiso, Kepha ngenxa yobulukhuni benhliziyo yabo, balalela intando, imizwa, izifiso, nezinkanuko zenyama yabo.

Ngakho-ke abantu abaningi, Obani abathi bangamaKristu bahlukane futhi baphule isivumelwano somshado esingcwele uNkulunkulu.

Abantu abaningi bacabanga futhi bacabange ukuthi uNkulunkulu ngeke akhathalele nokuthi uNkulunkulu uqonda lesi simo nokuthi abantu bahlukane nokuthi uNkulunkulu wamukela isehlukaniso. Kepha laba bantu, Obani abacabanga ngale ndlela abalazi iZwi futhi abanawo umoya kaNkulunkulu kodwa umoya wamanga wezwe. Ngoba uNkulunkulu akasoze avuma isehlukaniso ukuze anelise intando nezinkanuko nezifiso zenyama. UNkulunkulu Uyakuzonda Isehlukaniso (UMalaki 2:15-16)

Njengoba ubaba acacile eZwini lakhe, UJesu futhi wasobala, Lapho ekhuluma nabaFarisi mayelana nokuphinga futhi wanikeza isizathu esisodwa, lapho abantu bavunyelwe ukuhlukanisa, okungubuhlungu. Kepha othile, othanda ngempela umakhelwane wakhe njengoba unjalo, ngeke eze ubufebe (Mathewu 5:31-32; 19:3-9, Maka 10:2-12).

Uma umthanda uNkulunkulu ngaphezu kwakho konke, Lapho-ke uyakuhlala uthembekile kuye futhi ulalele izwi lakhe, kepha nina ngeke niphingile. Uma uthanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena, Kusuka othandweni onalo ngoNkulunkulu, Lapho-ke awuyikuhlukanisa, Kepha niyakuthanda oshade naye othandweni onalo ngoNkulunkulu.

Uyothanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena

Owena akekho umuntu noma yini, Kepha ukuthandana: Ngoba othanda omunye ugcwalise umthetho. Kwalokhu, Ungaphingi, Ungabulali, Ungebi, Ungafakazi amanga, Ungafisi; Futhi uma kukhona omunye umyalo, Kuqondiswa kafushane kuleli zwi, okungukuthi, Uyothanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena. Uthando alusebenzi kabi umakhelwane wakhe: ngakho-ke uthando luwukugcwaliseka komthetho (AmaRoma 13:8-10)

Lapho uthanda uNkulunkulu ngaphezu kwakho konke nomakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena, Uyophatha abanye ngendlela ofuna ukuphathwa ngayo. 

Lokhu akusho, ukuthi uzokwehlisa umzimba nomhlaba futhi ubekezelele futhi wamukele zonke izinhlobo zokuziphatha, ububi, imisebenzi yobumnyama (isono), Izinkolo Ezingajwayelekile Nefilosofi, kanye namasiko ayo futhi (ukusebenzelana nemimoya) Imikhuba (Funda futhi: Ukuhlonipha okwengeziwe kwabantu nabanye onkulunkulu kunoNkulunkulu onamandla onke). 

Ngubani ogcina izwi lakhe kuye lithando lukaNkulunkulu liphelele 1 UJohane 2:5

Akusho ukuthi uzocubungula izinto, okubhekwa uNkulunkulu njengokubi, kuhle, futhi ubheke izinto, uNkulunkulu akubheka njengokuhle, njengokubi. 

Akusho ukuthi uzohamba ngemuva kwenyama othandweni lobugovu lwenyama ongamthandi uNkulunkulu ngaphezu kwazo zonke kodwa azithandi umakhelwane wakhe kodwa azithanda kuphela ukwenza lezo zinto, okungokwentando yakhe nangokwentando yakhe nalokho okuthokozisayo futhi kwamethane futhi kuqhubeke nokwenza imisebenzi yenyama.

Uma uthanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzifuna ukuthi kukhona okubi ukwenzeke kubo.

Awufuni bahlupheke futhi baphile ebugqilini bakaDeveli embusweni wobumnyama. Awufuni ukuthi umakhelwane wakho aye esihogweni futhi ekugcineni aphonswe echibini eliphakade lomlilo, Kepha ufuna umakhelwane wakho akhululwe futhi abuyisane noNkulunkulu ngoJesu Kristu futhi adle impilo ephakade, njengawe. 

Ngakho-ke uyakushumayela iqiniso levangeli likaJesu Kristu, ebiza abantu ukuba baye ukuphenduka nokususwa kwesono. Uzokhuluma iqiniso, Akunandaba noma ngabe abantu bacabangani ngawe futhi kungakhathalekile ukushushiswa, Ukuze imiphefumulo eminingi iyosindiswa futhi ibe nesiyalo, ukulungiswa, futhi ukujaha kusalondoloziwe. 

Uthando lukaNkulunkulu aluqondiswa imizwa nemizwa, Kepha ngamazwi kaNkulunkulu.

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