Ake ngikujabulise, kusho usathane kumaKristu. Ukujabulisa amaKrestu yinto udeveli namanxusa akhe abathanda ukuyenza. Udeveli uthanda ukujabulisa amaKristu ngoba ngaleyo ndlela udeveli ugcina amaKristu ekude noNkulunkulu neZwi laKhe (Ibhayibheli). Ngeshwa, amaKristu amaningi ayozela futhi alele ngokomoya. Bangabenyama futhi baphuphuthekiswe ubumpumputhe obungokomoya. Ngakho-ke abawaboni amaqhinga nemisebenzi kadeveli. Bavumela usathane abathokozise bengayazi imiphumela. Udeveli usebenzisa izinsiza eziningi nemisebenzi yokuzilibazisa ukuze ajabulise amaKristu futhi ondle inyama yawo. Udeveli aze asebenzise igama elithi ‘umKristu’ phambi kwemisebenzi yokuzilibazisa (njengethelevishini yobuKristu, Izinhlelo zobuKristu, Umculo wamaKristu, Goodtube, njll). Kodwa ukubeka igama elithi ‘umKristu’ phambi kokuthile nangokulenza libe ngumKristu, ayishintshi lutho. Kungase kwamukeleke futhi kuvunywe abantu, kodwa lokho akukwenzi kwamukeleke futhi kuvunywe nguNkulunkulu.
Usathane ufuna ukukujabulisa,
ukukugcina kude neZwi likaNkulunkulu
Wonke lamathuluzi nemisebenzi yokuzilibazisa izama ukukudedisela kude neBhayibheli; IZwi LikaNkulunkulu; uJesu. Kukuvikela kude neQiniso nasezintweni zoMbuso kaNkulunkulu. Ake sibheke izinsiza ezimbalwa udeveli azisebenzisayo ukuze akujabulise:
- Umabonakude
- Amakhompyutha/i-inthanethi
- Amageyimu
- (UmKrestu) umculo
- Omakhalekhukhwini
- Imithombo Yezokuxhumana (Facebook, I-Instagram, Twitter, Youtube njll.)
- Imibuthano yokuzijabulisa ((indawo yokuphumula)imigoqo/amakilabhu)
- Izitolo ezinkulu
- Amasinema
- Amakhonsathi
- (Okomculo) Amatiyetha
- Amapaki okuzijabulisa/amapaki okuzijabulisa
Eziningi zalezi zinsiza zithatha indawo enkulu emphakathini wanamuhla futhi cishe zibalulekile. Ngisho nasezimpilweni zamaKristu amaningi. Bachitha isikhathi esiningi kulezi zinsiza. Kwesinye isikhathi baze bachithe isikhathi esiningi kumakhalekhukhwini wabo, iphilisi, umabonakude, kanye nekhompyutha, kunamalungu omndeni wabo.
Umabonakude
Ngoba akulungile yini ukuphumula kusofa ngemva kosuku olunzima lomsebenzi futhi uthathe isilawuli kude, cindezela inkinobho eyodwa, futhi ujatshuliswe yizo zonke izinhlobo zochungechunge, (Impilo yangempela) izinsipho, izinhlelo, amamuvi, Imibhalo, imibukiso yezingxoxo, njll. isikhathi eside njengoba ufuna? Abantu bakubiza ngokuthi indlela yokuphumula. Kodwa ingabe ithelevishini iyakunikeza ngempela ukuphumula noma ibangela okuphambene?
I-inthanethi
Mangaki amahora abantu abawachitha ku-inthanethi ngesikhathi sabo esikhululekile futhi abakwazi ukuthola okwanele? Ngokuchofoza okukodwa nje, umhlaba wonke obanzi uyavuleka phambi kwabo. Bangenza konke abafuna ukukwenza. Kanti kulingeka kanjani, ukuvakashela 'kwenqatshelwe' amawebhusayithi?
Yeka ukuthi kulinga kangakanani ukunikeza ilukuluku labo futhi uvakashele ukugembula kanye amasayithi e-porn? Noma mhlawumbe bayakujabulela ukuxoxa ngasese nothile, ongeyena umlingani wabo.
Ngemuva kwesikrini sekhompyutha, ungenza noma yini ofuna ukuyenza. Ayikho imikhawulo. Futhi uyazi ukuthi iyiphi ingxenye engcono kakhulu? Akekho obonayo ukuthi yini oyibukayo nokuthi wenzani. Okungenani… yilokho okucabangayo.
Amageyimu
Imidlalo iphinde ibe yi-guzzler yamahora. Amadoda nabesifazane abaningi bachitha amahora amaningi bedlala futhi bazibone behamba kuleli zwe lezinganekwane.
Amadoda adlala imidlalo embi kakhulu, njenge Iligi Yezinganekwane, I-Grand Theft Auto V, Umhlaba Wezempi, I-Dota 2, I-EverQuest, Ukubizelwa umsebenzi, I-Counter-strike: I-Global Offensive, UDiablo III, njll.
Ngenkathi abesifazane bedlala imidlalo 'engenacala' ngaphezulu, njengeI-Sims, I-candy crush, Izinyoni ezithukuthele, Bejeweled 2, I-Farmville, Amagama agqamile, I-Sudoku, Isitolo sekhekhe2.
Nokho, kukhona abesifazane, abajabulela nokudlala ‘Umhlaba Wezempi'. Kodwa kwenzekani emqondweni wabo, ngenkathi bedlala le midlalo? (Funda futhi: Ingozi yokudlala)
Imithombo Yezokuxhumana
Inkundla yezokuxhumana ingaba yinsiza enhle. Nokho, izinkundla zokuxhumana nazo zingasetshenziswa ngendlela engafanele futhi zibe umlutha. Ezimweni eziningi, okwakamuva kunjalo.
Mangaki amahora ngosuku abantu abawachitha ezinkundleni zokuxhumana? Mangaki amahora owachitha ezinkundleni zokuxhumana?
Akumangalisi yini ukuthi ungahlala unolwazi lwakamuva futhi ubukele izimpilo zozakwenu, mangale, abangani, umndeni, abagqugquzeli bezenhlalo, osaziwayo, njll.? Ungabuka ‘ukuphila kwabo okuphelele’ ngisho nokukopisha izinto kubo. Kodwa ungakwazi futhi ukudala impilo ephelele, ubulokhu ucabanga futhi ufuna, futhi wabelane ngayo nomhlaba wonke. Kodwa sikhohlisa bani?
Ukuthenga
Ake sikhulume ngokuthenga. Ingabe kuliqiniso, ukuthi abesifazane banokuthile ku-DNA yabo, okubenza babe imilutha yokuthenga? Abesifazane abaningi sebephenduke abathengi abayimpoqo futhi kufanele bathenge okuthile okungenani kanye ngesonto ukuze banelise inkanuko yabo yenyama.. Kodwa lokhu okubizwa nge-DNA yokuthenga kuphinde kube amanga kasathane.
UDeveli ufuna sikholwe amanga akhe, ukwenza konke kulunge ukuchitha amahora ngosuku noma isonto ezitolo ezinkulu futhi uchithe amadola amaningi ezimpahleni, izicathulo, imikhiqizo ye-skincare kanye ne-makeup, ifenisha, njll.,
Iningi labesifazane liqhubeka nokusebenzisa imali, ngisho nalapho bengenamali futhi behlala ezikweletini. Kubukeka sengathi isikweletu siphezulu, lapho bechitha ngaphezulu.
Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokuthenga, kodwa akulungile uma uholwa umoya wokuhaha nenkanuko, futhi ube umlutha oyimpoqo shopper.
Imibuthano yokuzijabulisa
Futhi okokugcina, zonke izindawo zokuzijabulisa zomphakathi, njenge (imuvi) amatiyetha, (indawo yokuphumula)imigoqo, amakilabhu, amapaki okuzijabulisa, njll.
AmaKristu afuna ukuzijabulisa
Zonke lezi zinsiza zisetshenziselwa ukujabulisa abantu ngoba yilokho abantu abakufunayo: bafuna ukujatshuliswa. Ukuze, bangaphunyuka okwesikhashana emhlabeni wangempela, nalo lonke usizi lwayo, futhi bazijabulele.
Kodwa lokho abantu abaningi abakwazi, ukuthi ngenkathi bezijabulisa enyameni futhi bondla izinkanuko nezinkanuko zenyama yabo, baya kude neQiniso baze balale ubuthongo obukhulu obungokomoya.
AmaKristu amaningi awakwazi ukumelana nezilingo zalezi zinsiza futhi alawulwa yizo.
Ingqondo yabo yonke igcwele futhi imatasatasa ngazo zonke izinhlobo zolwazi lwenyama. Inyama yabo iyondliwa futhi ngenxa yalokho, ingqondo yabo igcwele izithombe nolwazi futhi inhliziyo yabo igcwele umhlaba.
Usuku lonke, bondla imiqondo yabo ngezinto zezwe. Lapho sebeyolala futhi bazame ukufunda iBhayibheli 5-10 imizuzu, imicabango yabo iyazulazula, kuvele izithombe ezingqondweni zabo. Baphazamisekile futhi abakwazi ukugxila eZwini likaNkulunkulu, ngiyeke ukukhuleka. Hhayi-ke, mhlawumbe umthandazo omfushane nje ojwayelekile, Kepha kunjalo.
Umoya uyalamba futhi inyama iyaphakelwa
Umoya wabo ulambile futhi inyama yabo iyondliwa futhi ibusa njengenkosi ezimpilweni zabo. Abantu bayaphela amandla futhi bakhungethwe imizwa yokukhathazeka, ukwesaba, ukuthukuthela, umona, umona, ukuzidabukela, ukwenqatshwa, ukudana, njll.
Abantu abaningi abanaso isineke futhi banolaka olufushane, ukufutheka, futhi uyikhiphele phezu kwabantu, abaseduze kakhulu kubo, njengabazali babo, oshade naye wesifazane, Izingane, njll. Lokhu hhayi emangazayo, ngoba nxa uhlanyela enyameni, uyakuvuna isithelo senyama.
Abaqapheli ukuthi bavule umnyango ezimpilweni zabo futhi bamema amandla amademoni ukuba angene ezimpilweni zabo.
Ezikhundleni ezilandelayo zebhulogi, Ngizoqhubeka nalesi sihloko sokuthi usathane ujabulisa kanjani abantu futhi sixoxe ngobungozi obusemuva kwezinsiza eziningi empilweni, ezifihliwe emehlweni emvelo.
Kuyadabukisa ukusho, kodwa amaKristu amaningi akaziboni izingozi ezifihliwe. Kungani kunjalo? Ngoba amakholwa amaningi angawenyama futhi awaphili ngokulandela uMoya, kodwa ngokwenyama yabo. Baphuphuthekiswe ngokomoya futhi abakwazi ukubona indawo engokomoya, ngemuva kwendawo yemvelo. Abaliboni ithonya lalezi zinsiza zokuzijabulisa ezimpilweni zabantu nokuthi udeveli ulawula kanjani ingqondo yabo nempilo yabo. Abantu bacabanga ukuthi bakhululekile, kodwa iqiniso likhona, ukuthi baboshwe usathane.
‘Yibani usawoti womhlaba’
