KwiBhayibhile kwiMizekeliso 10:12, kubhaliwe kwathiwa, Intiyo ixhokonxa ingxabano, ke lona uthando lugubungela zonke izono. Ithini iMizekeliso 10:12 thetha?
Intiyo ngumsebenzi wenyama kwaye uthando sisiqhamo soMoya
Inyama noMoya ziphambene. Ke inyama ikhanuka ngokuchasene noMoya;, uMoya ke ukhanuka ngokuchasene nenyama. Ngoko ke akunakwenzeka, ukuba bobabini baya kuhamba kunye (kwabaseGalati 5:17).
I imisebenzi yenyama zichasene ne isiqhamo soMoya. Intiyo, oko kungumsebenzi wenyama, sisichasi sothando, esisiqhamo soMoya.
Indlela Intiyo exhokonxa ngayo iingxabano?
Intiyo ixhokonxa ingxabano: ke lona uthando lugubungela zonke izono (IMizekeliso 10:12)
Abantu benyama bakhokelwa ngokuthanda kwabo, iimvakalelo, kunye neemvakalelo. Umzuzu omnye, banokuba nobuhlobo nothando; Okulandelayo, banokumthiya umntu omnye. Yonke into ixhomekeke kwiimeko zabo, iimeko, nendlela abaphathwa ngayo ngabanye.
Logama nje yonke into ihamba ngokwentando yabo, kwaye abantu bayabaphatha, indlela abafuna ukuphathwa ngayo, yonke into iilungile. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza ukuba into ayihambi ngokwentando yabo, iimvakalelo zabo zitshintsha ngoko nangoko.
Umzuzu omnye, banokuphatha umhlobo ngothando nangentlonelo, kodwa xa umhlobo wabo ebaphatha kakubi, unika impendulo engafunekiyo, ubatyhola ngobuxoki, okanye enze enye into echasene nentando yabo, ke akuyi kuba lixesha elide, ngaphambi kokuba bacaphuke kwaye babe nomsindo, kwaye bakhulise iimvakalelo zentiyo ngakumhlobo wabo.
Bahlakulela iimvakalelo zentiyo kuba umhlobo wabo akazange abaphathe ngendlela ababefuna ukuphathwa ngayo.
Umzekelo womhlobo unikiwe, kodwa inokuba a (mkhulu)umzali, iqabane, umntwana okanye elinye ilungu losapho, Ukwazi, umlingane njl.
Xa abantu bengabenyama kwaye bekhokelwa ziimvakalelo zentiyo nokuba nomsindo, ke akuyi kuthatha ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba ubudlelwane buphazamiseke kwaye ngamanye amaxesha lude luphele.
Abantu benyama baya kwenza, oko ihlabathi libaxelela ukuba bakwenze kwaye basabele njengoko ihlabathi lisabela. Baya kukhubeka, phindezelani ukuziphindezela, ningaze nibulibale ubugwenxa babo.
baya kuthetha kakubi ngaye loo mntu, bangcolise igama laloo mntu. Intiyo idala ingxabano;, iingxabano, imbambano, kunye nemilo. Kaloku intiyo isoloko ixhokonxa ingxabano; imbambano, ukungavisisani, ubutshaba, ingxabano, ubutshaba, ingxabano, njl.
Uthando lugubungela zonke izono?
Kodwa xa abantu bezalwa ngokutsha baze bahambe emva koMoya, baya kwandula ke hamba eluthandweni. Olu thando asilulo uthando lweli hlabathi. Ayilothando olukhokelwa ziimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo kwaye aluxhomekeke kwiimeko nakubantu. Kodwa lo luthando Uthando lukaThixo kwaye ukhokelwa nguMoya oyiNgcwele kwaye hayi inyama.
Olu thando aluyekeleli kunye nehlabathi kwaye luyayivuma kwaye lwamkele imisebenzi yobumnyama (isono) nazo zonke ezinye izinto ezichasene nentando kaThixo.
Kodwa olu uthando uthanda uThixo ngaphezu kwayo yonke into kwaye uyayigcina imiyalelo yakhe (1 UYohane 5:3), kwaye uyabathanda abanye, nto leyo ethetha ukuphatha abanye ngendlela abafuna ukuphathwa ngayo. (Funda kwakhona: Kuthetha ntoni ukuthanda ummelwane wakho njengawe?).
Xa a (mkhulu)umzali, iqabane, umntwana, okanye elinye ilungu losapho, umhlobo, Ukwazi, umlingane, njl. uyabaphatha kakubi, unika impendulo engafunekiyo, uthetha kakubi ngomntu, okanye utyhola loo mntu ngobuxoki. Baya kukhokelwa luthando lukaThixo kwaye baya kumxolela umntu aze awulibale wonke umcimbi.
Abayi kubuza malunga nobugwenxa obenziwe kubo kodwa baya kukuyeka. Xa abantu behamba eluthandweni, ke akunamsebenzi, into ethethwayo nesenziwa ngabanye abantu kubo. Umntu uya kuhlala exolela abanye kwaye akayi kuxabana.
Uthando luya kugubungela konke ukungaziphathi kakuhle, imvukelo, nezono zenziwe kubo. Abayi kuthanda ngentetho kuphela, kodwa baya kuthanda ngezenzo nangenyaniso (1 UYohane 3:18)
Ngoko ke, izenzo zomntu ziyangqina, nokuba umntu uhamba ngentiyo okanye ngothando.
‘Yibani yityuwa yehlabathi’
