Sithetha ukuthini isiqhamo sobulali? Ngaba kuthetha ukonwaba, ukuncuma, ukujonga wonwabile, ukunyamezela nokwamkela nokuvuma zonke izinto? Ngaba ithetha, ukuba mnene kwaye uvumele abanye abantu bahambe phezu kwakho? Okanye ithetha enye into? Ithini iBhayibhile ngesiqhamo sobulali?
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuthamba?
Makhe sijonge kwiLizwi lantlandlolo lesiGrike, oko kukuthi 'chrêstotês' (I-G5544 Concordance Eyomeleleyo). I-‘Chrêstotês’ ivela kwi-G543 kwaye ithetha: ukubaluleka, yiyo i, ukubalasela ngokuziphatha (kwisimo okanye ngokuziphatha : – ubumnene, kulungile (-ness), ububele.
Xa ndijonga la mazwi, Ndingagqiba, ukuba'ngumKristu' kuthetha okungakumbi, kunobulali okanye ububele.
Ithatha ukuba, ukuba xa unobulali, uluncedo, kwaye siphile ngokugqwesa ngokuziphatha ngokwesimilo nangesimilo. Ngamanye amazwi, uhamba ngengqibelelo.
Ithatha ukuba, ukuba unikezela ubomi bakho bonke, kuYesu Kristu. Ukuba uhamba, indlela Ahamba ngayo, nokuba nesimilo nokuziphatha okufanayo. Kuthetha ukuba unobulali, ulungile kwaye unobubele kwabanye.
Ukuvelisa iziqhamo zobulali (okanye ububele), kuthetha okungakumbi kunokuncuma nje nokuba nobuhlobo. Ithatha ukuba, ukuba ube luncedo kwaye uhambe ngengqibelelo. Ndingathanda ukugxininisa imfezeko, ngokuba abantu abaninzi, kuquka namakholwa, ungabi sahamba ngengqibelelo.
Ukuhamba engqibelelweni
Njenge Uzalelwe ngokutsha komKristu imfezeko luphawu olubalulekileyo ukuba nalo. Nyaniseka, unyanisekile kwaye uselubala kuyo yonke into oyenzayo kwaye ungenzi izinto emfihlekweni. Kuba uThixo ubona yonke into, Ungu-Omnipotent. Musani ukuhamba ngokuchasene nomthetho, kodwa hambani ngomthetho kaMoya kwaye nikhokelwa liLizwi likaThixo. Musa ukuvunyelwa ludumo, imali, ukubawa, iinkanuko kunye neminqweno njl.
Amaxesha amaninzi abantu bajonge kakhulu emalini (sisenokuthi sithi phithi), ukuba basoloko belahlekelwa yingqibelelo yabo. Andazi ukuba kutheni ndiyibhala phantsi le nto, kodwa kuya kubakho isizathu. Makhe sibuyele kwisiqhamo sobulali.
Ungubani ngokwenene?
Ukuthantamisa kwenu makwazeke ebantwini bonke (Php 4:5)
Kwilizwe langaphandle, usenokubonwa njengomntu onentlalo-ntle kakhulu, uhlobo, ubuhlobo, umntu owonwabileyo. Unokuba nobubele, ezentlalo, kwaye ivuyisa wonke umntu kwaye abantu banokucinga: ‘onjani umntu onobubele!'.
Kodwa xa ufika ekhaya uze ubone ukuba umntwana wakho wenze umonakalo omkhulu endlwini, Ingaba wenza ntoni? Ngaba usenobubele kunye nobuhlobo? Okanye……
Okanye mhlawumbi ungumhlali kakhulu, ndonwabile, ubuhlobo, kunye nomntu onobubele kwihlabathi langaphandle, kodwa xa ufika nje ekhaya unomsindo, kwaye ujonge kumalungu osapho lwakho. Aniyi kunyamezela izinto ezininzi, kwaye acaphuke msinya kwaye abe nomsindo, ngokukhawuleza ukuba elinye lamalungu osapho lwakho lenze into, oko kuchasene nentando yakho.
Okanye mhlawumbi unobhala wekhawuntara evenkileni ukuphatha krwada kakhulu, uhlala uzolile kwaye umphathe ngobubele? Okanye umphethe ngendlela (s)ukuphethe?
Xa umntu engenzi intando yakho, okanye ayikuphathi ngendlela ofuna ukuphathwa ngayo, uhlala uthambile kwaye unobubele?
Ukuba ungathanda ukwazi, ukuba nithwala isiqhamo sobulali, uze ubuze amalungu osapho lwakho. Baya kukuxelela.
Nikela ubomi bakho kuYesu Kristu
Xa unikela ubomi bakho kuYesu Kristu kwaye wamkele ubhaptizo loMoya oyiNgcwele, niya kwamkela uMoya oyiNgcwele ngenzaliseko yakhe, hayi nje inxalenye Yakhe.
Kodwa kuxhomekeke kuwe, ukwenza yonke inxalenye yobomi bakho ithobe kuYe.
Okungakumbi ingqondo yakho iyahlaziywa ngelizwi likaThixo, ngakumbi ingqondo yakho iya kuhambelana ne intando kaThixo. You will keep His commandments and live in His will.
You will begin to live and rely on the Word, instead of the world and your flesh.
You won’t rely on your senses, circumstances and your feelings and emotions; when everything goes well, you are kind and friendly, but when things don’t go the way you want them to go and goes against your will, then you will be that kind and gentle anymore.
The fruit gentleness is a fruit of the Spirit, it is not a fruit of the flesh.
When you are gentle for one moment and the other moment, you will get mad and angry, then this gentleness is not a fruit of the Spirit. When you walk after the Spirit the fruit, which you produce will be permanent and consistent, and will be part of your character. It defines who you are.
Xa iimeko kunye neemeko zingahambi njengoko bekucwangcisiwe, uhlala uthambile kwaye uzolile. Xa umntu elungisa okanye ejongene nawe, uyayamkela kwaye uya kucinga ngayo, endaweni yokuba uphambene, ukhubekile kwaye ucaphukile.
Senziwe ngokomfanekiselo wakhe
Akukho macala afihlakeleyo kuThixo. Uzityhilile zonke izinto eziseLizwini lakhe. ILizwi laKhe liyangqina ukuba ungubani na. Xa unobudlelwane naye, Uya kumazi, ngeLizwi lakhe kwaye niya kubona, ukuba akaxoki kodwa uthembekile.
Lonke iLizwi, athe uThixo wakuthetha, kwaye usathetha, i inyani; abukho nabunye ubuxoki eBhayibhileni.
Ndiyazi njani ngokuqinisekileyo? Kungenxa yokuba inxalenye yeBhayibhile iphuma kwiziprofeto, kude kube namhlanje, sonke isiprofeto sizalisekile. Kusekho iziprofeto ezibhalwe eLizwini lakhe, ezingekazaliseki, kodwa siyazi ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba ngexesha elifanelekileyo, ziya kwenzeka zonke.
UThixo unobulali
UThixo unobulali. Ububele bakhe yenye yeempawu zakhe;
- Makabongwe uYehova: Ngokuba endenzele inceba ebalulekileyo emzini onqabileyo (IiNdumiso 31:21)
- Dumisa inkosi, nonke zintlanga: mdumiseni, nonke bantu. Ngokuba inceba yakhe inkulu kuthi;: Inyaniso kaYehova ingunaphakade. Dumisani uYehova (IiNdumiso 117:1-2)
- Ngomkhukula woburhalarhume ndabusithelisa ubuso bam kuwe okwephanyazo; ndiya kuba nenceba kuwe ngenceba engunaphakade, utsho uMkhululi wakho uYehova (Yi 54:8)
- Ngokuba ziya kumka iintaba;, neenduli zishukume; yona inceba yam ayiyi kumka kuwe, ungashukumi nomnqophiso wam woxolo, utsho onemfesane kuwe, uYehova (Yi 54:10)
UnoMoya oyiNgcwele ophila ngaphakathi kuwe. Ngoko ke, isiqhamo sobulali (ububele) kufuneka ibe yenye yeempawu zakho. Xa u hlaziya ingqondo yakho ngeLizwi likaThixo kwaye usebenzise iLizwi ebomini bakho, uya kuqalisa ukuhamba emva kweLizwi noMoya. Xa uhamba emva koMoya, novelisa isiqhamo sobulali (ububele).
Nangona kunjalo, xa uhlaziya ingqondo yakho, kuya kubakho ezinye 'iimvavanyo'. Iimeko ziya kuza, apho unokhetho: ukuhlala unobubele okanye ukucaphuka, wakhubeka waza ekugqibeleni waphambana.
Uyagqiba, nokuba inyama yakho iyalawula, nokuba umoya wakho uyalawula
UPawulos wathi kuKol 3:12, ukuba wambathe ububele , ngoko ke iyi- isenzo. Ngamanye amaxesha iimvakalelo zakho aziyi kusebenzisana nawe, abafuni ukuba nobulali okanye ububele. Kodwa kuxhomekeke kuwe, wenzani: noyidlisa inyama yakho, okanye umoya wakho? Ngaba uya kunikezela kwiimvakalelo zakho kwaye wondle inyama yakho? Okanye uyaxhathisa iimvakalelo zakho kwaye ulahle iimvakalelo zakho phantsi, ngokuthetha iLizwi likaThixo, wondle umoya wakho? Uyagqiba, ukuba inyama yakho iyalawula okanye uMoya oyiNgcwele uyalawula.
Yoyisa ububi ngokulungileyo
KwiMizekeliso kubhaliwe kwathiwa: Ukuba utshaba lwakho lulambile;, mnike isonka atye; ukuba uthe wanxanwa, mseze amanzi: Kuba ufumba wena amalahle omlilo phezu kwentloko yakhe, uYehova wokuvuza (UPro 25:21-22)
Sifunda kwaloo myalelo kwabaseRoma: zintanda, musani ukuziphindezelela, yikhweleleni ingqumbo: kuba kubhaliwe, Impindezelo yeyam; ndiya kubuyekeza mna, utsho uYehova. Ngoko ke, ukuba utshaba lwakho lulambile, mtyise; ukuba unxaniwe, mseze: kuba ngokwenjenjalo ke, woba ufumba amalahle omlilo phezu kwentloko yalo. Musa ukoyiswa bububi;, woyise ububi ngokulungileyo (I-ROM 12:19-21)
A likholwa elizelweyo uyazahlula ngokwakhe kolu kuziphatha. Ngenxa yokuba unokuba mhle kwaye unobubele, emntwini, ongakuphathanga kakuhle? Oku kunokwenzeka kuphela ukuba uhamba ngoMoya.
Xa unayo wabethelela inyama yakho kwaye uyazi ngubani onguye kuKristu. Uya kuhamba emva koMoya. Uyakuxelela into omawuyenze, endaweni yokuba ingqondo yakho ikuxelele into omawuyenze. UMoya ufuna ukuba nenceba kubo bonke;, nokuba bakuphatha njani na. Xa uphila eLizwini nasemva koMoya, ize ke akukho nto iya kuchukunyiswa kuwe; uze ube ngothantamisayo, kwaye unobubele, nithwale isiqhamo kubo bonke;.
‘Yibani yityuwa yehlabathi’
