UThixo wathumela iLizwi laKhe emhlabeni, ukuze wonke umntu okholwayo kwiLizwi lakhe asindiswe aze anikwe amandla okuba ngunyana kaThixo (amadoda nabafazi (UYohane 1:1-14)). Abantu abakholwayo baligqale iLizwi laKhe njengenyaniso, kwaye uthobele wenze iLizwi laKhe, ngabakaThixo. Baphila njengabantwana bOsenyangweni kwaye bahamba emva koMoya kwaye bakhokelwe liLizwi kwaye baya kubudla ilifa ubomi obungunaphakade. Kodwa abantu abalahlwayo baze balishiye iLizwi laKhe baze bafune izinto zehlabathi baze bazibandakanye nemicimbi yeli hlabathi., bakhokelwa bubuxoki kwaye baya kurhaxwa ngokomoya. ILizwi liyalumkisa kwiNcwadi yeMizekeliso malunga namandla atshabalalisayo omfazi ongaqhelekanga kwaye liyalele amakholwa ukuba aphambuke kuye.. Makhe sijonge oko iBhayibhile ikutshoyo ngamandla atshabalalisayo omfazi ongaqhelekanga.
Iindlela ezimbini zobomi
Kukho iindlela ezimbini ebomini; indlela kaThixo, eyindlela yobulungisa, kunye nendlela kaMtyholi, eyindlela yentswela-bulungisa. Indlela kaThixo ilawulwa lizulu kwaye indlela kasathana ilawulwa sisihogo; IHadesi.
Abantu abathobelayo babe ngabenzi beLizwi; Ubomi, baya kuhamba emendweni kaThixo (indlela yobomi) Kwaye bubudle ilifa ubomi banaphakade. Kodwa abantu abala iLizwi baze bathobele amazwi kaMtyholi; ukufa kuya kuyishiya indlela kaThixo kwaye kungene endleleni yomtyholi (umendo wokufa) badle ilifa ukufa okungunaphakade.
Umfazi ongaqhelekanga
Incwadi yeMizekeliso ibhala ngomfazi ongaqhelekanga, osebenza esihogweni. Umfazi wasemzini wenza konke anako ukulukuhla abantu abangamalungisa, abakhokelele endleleni yakhe, abathimbe endlwini yakhe, abatshabalalise.. Kuba yiloo njongo yomfazi ongaqhelekanga; Umhlaba.
Indlela yodwa yokuzigcina kumfazi ongaqhelekanga kukuhlala elilulamelayo ilizwikaThixo kwaye ungaze uwashiye amazwi akhe.
Xa ubulumko bungena entliziyweni yakho, ukwazi kwenzelwe mnandi umphefumlo wakho; ingqiqo yokulondoloza, ukuqonda kokugcina:
Ukuba kukuhlangule endleleni yongendawo, emntwini othetha izinto ezigwenxa; Kwabashiya umendo wokuthe tye, ukuhamba ngeendlela zobumnyama; abavuyela ukwenza ububi;, Uyoliswa bubugwenxa babangendawo; Iindlela zabo zigwenxa, batyeka emendweni wabo:
Ukuze uhlangulwe kumkamntu, Kowasemzini, ontetho igudileyo; Lowo ushiya ikholwane lobutsha bakhe, Iwulibale umnqophiso woThixo wayo.
Kuba indlu yakhe itshonela ekufeni, Nomendo wakhe kwesa kwabafileyo. Akukho namnye oya kuye obuya abuye, Abazibambi iindlela zobomi.
Ukuze uhambe ngendlela yabalungileyo, Uze ugcine umendo wamalungisa. Ngokuba abathe tye baya kulima ilizwe;, nabagqibeleleyo baya kuhlala kuyo. Ke bona abangendawo baya kunqunyulwa emhlabeni, baya kuncothulwa kuyo abakreqi kuyo (IMizekeliso 2:10-22)
Ichaphaza njengenqatha lobusi imilebe yomfazi wasemzini
Unyana wam, Zibazele ubulumko bam, Kwaye yithobele indlebe yakho kukuqonda kwam: Ukuze uyiqonde ingqiqo, Nomlomo wakho ubagcine ukwazi. Kuba ivuza incindi yobusi imilebe yomfazi wasemzini;, Ubuthelezi ngaphezu kweoli umlomo wayo: Ke ukuphela kwakhe kukrakra njengomhlonyane, libukhali njengekrele elintlangothi mbini.
Iinyawo zakhe zihla ziye ekufeni;; Ukunyathela kwakhe kubambelela kwelabafileyo. Hleze ufanele ukucamngca ngendlela yobomi, Iindlela zakhe zinokuhamba, ukuba ungabazi.
Ndiphulaphule ke ngoku, Oh abantwana, ungasuki emazwini omlomo wam. Mayibe kude kuye indlela yakho, ungasondeli emnyango wendlu yakhe: Hleze unike abanye uzuko lwakho, iminyaka yakho sisijorha: Hleze bahluthe abasemzini bubutyebi bakho; ukubulaleka kwakho kube sendlwini yolunye uhlanga; Uze wenze isijwili ekupheleni, xa kuthe kwadliwa inyama yakho nomzimba wakho, Kwaye utsho, Ndiwucaphukele njani umyalelo, yasigiba isohlwayo intliziyo yam; Aniliphulaphulanga ilizwi labafundisi bam, andiyithobelanga indlebe yam kubafundisi bam! Ndaphantsa ukuba sebubini bonke Esazulwini sesikhungu nebandla (IMizekeliso 5:1-14)
Musa ukukhanuka ubuhle bomfazi ongaqhelekanga entliziyweni yakho
Unyana wam, gcina umthetho kayihlo, Ungawushiyi umyalelo kanyoko: Sibophe entliziyweni yakho amaxesha onke, uzinxibe emqaleni wakho. Xa uhamba, Iya kukukhokela; Xa ulele, kuya kukugcina; Kwaye xa uvukile, iya kuthetha nawe.
Ngokuba usisibane umthetho; nomthetho ukukukhanya; Ziyindlela yobomi izohlwayo zoqeqesho: Ukuba ugcinwe kumfazi onobubi, Ekugudeni kolwimi lomfazi wasemzini. Musa ukubukhanuka ubunzwakazi bakhe ngentliziyo yakho;; angakubambisi ngeenkophe zakhe. Kuba ngenxa yehenyukazi umntu uda adle kuphela intendana yesonka;: Umkrexezikazi uzingela umphefumlo onqabileyo (IMizekeliso 6:20-26)
Indlu yomfazi wasemzini iyindlela eya kwelabafileyo, wehla waya kumagumbi okufa
Unyana wam, Gcina amazwi am, ndiyiqwebele kuwe imithetho yam. Gcina imiyalelo yam, kwaye uphile; Nomyalelo wam njengokhozo lweliso lakho. Zibophe eminweni yakho, Zibhale etafileni yentliziyo yakho. Yithi kubulumko, Ungudade wethu; yibize ingqondo ngokuthi, sisihlobo sakho: Ukuze ugcinwe kumkamntu, Kowasemzini, ontetho igudileyo.
Kuba ngefestile yendlu yam, ndavela ndalunguza;, Wakhangela phakathi kweziyatha, Ndaqonda phakathi kolutsha, Umfana oswele ukuqonda, Edlula esitratweni kufuphi nekona yakhe; wahamba ngendlela eya endlwini yakhe, Ngorhatya, ngokuhlwa, kubusuku obumnyama nobumnyama: Kwaye, khangela, waqubisana naye umfazi, Enengubo yehenyukazi, nobuqhophololo bentliziyo. (Uyangxola kwaye unenkani; Azihlali endlwini yakhe iinyawo zakhe: Ngoku akanayo, ngoku ezitratweni, ulalela emagumbini onke.)
Ngoko wambamba, wamanga, wathi kuye, eshwabile ubuso, Ndinemibingelelo yoxolo kum; Namhla ndizizalisile izibhambathiso zam.
ngenxa yoko ndiphume ndeza kukukhawulela, ukufuna ngenkuthalo ubuso bakho, ndikufumene ke. Umandlalo wam ndiwandlele ngemiqamelo, ngemisebenzi eqingqiweyo, ngelinen ecikizekileyo yaseYiputa. Ndiqhole ibhedi yam kunye nemore, ikhala, kunye nesinamon.
Yiza, masihluthe ngothando kude kuse: masizolise ngothando. Kuba indoda ayikho ekhaya, uhambe uhambo olude: Uphethe ingxowa yemali, kwaye uya kubuyela ekhaya ngomhla omiselweyo.
Ngentetho yakhe emnandi umfazi ongengowamazi wamwisela umthetho umfana lowo
Ngobuninzi bentetho yakhe entle, wamwisa, ngokucengacenga komlomo wakhe wamnyanzela. Amlandele kwaoko, njengenkomo isiya ekuxhelweni, okanye njengesidenge ekulungisweni kwezitokisi; Ude utolo luphumele esibindini sakhe; njengentaka ikhawulezela esibatheni, engazi ukuba kungenxa yomphefumlo wakhe.
Umfazi ongaqhelekanga ubulele amadoda amaninzi anamandla
Ndiphulaphule ke ngoku, Oh abantwana, Uyibazele indlebe intetho yomlomo wam. Intliziyo yakho mayinganxaxheli ezindleleni zakhe, ungalahleki emendweni wakhe. Ngokuba uwisile abaninzi abangxwelerhiweyo;: ewe, maninzi amagorha abulewe nguye. Indlu yakhe yindlela eya esihogweni, wehla waya kumagumbi okufa (IMizekeliso 7)
Unyana wam, ndinike intliziyo yakho, Amehlo akho makakhangele iindlela zam. Kuba sisihogo esinzulu ihenyukazi; Liqula elimxinwa umfazi wolunye uhlanga. Kananjalo ulalela njengexhoba, Uya kubandisa abakreqi phakathi kwabantu (IMizekeliso 23:26-28)
Ngaba izinto zehlabathi azinabungozi?
Ulwazi, ubulumko, kwaye izinto zeli hlabathi zikhangeleka zingenabungozi. Kubonakala ngathi akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngayo, ude unikezele kwaye ufumanise ukuba ubambeke ebuxokini. Ihlabathi liyakuhenda kwaye lifuna ukuba ubambene nalo.
Umfazi ongaqhelekanga usebenzisa zonke iintlobo zeendlela, iimfundiso, kunye neendlela zendalo zokuphumelela. Uyakubiza aze akuhenxe ngamazwi akhe amnandi nangokwezithembiso ezimangalisayo.
Xa uphulaphule amazwi omfazi ongaqhelekanga kwaye uphendule kwaye uthobele, ngokukholwa nokuthobela amazwi akhe, ukubeke apho ufuna khona.
Umfazi ongaqhelekanga uyakukhokela ngentetho yakhe egudileyo akuthabathe ahambe nawe akuvalele egumbini. Emva koko ugcwalisa igumbi ngamanzi de urhaxwe kwaye ubomi bukushiye.
Oko kwenzeka ngokwasemoyeni, xa nifuna izinto zeli hlabathi, nizixakekise ngezinto zeli hlabathi.
Umfazi ongaqhelekanga uyayazi into oyifunayo
Umfazi ongaqhelekanga uyazi kakuhle into efunwa yinyama yakho. Ngokuba wondle inyama yakho yonke loo minyaka. Ke yena wazi kakuhle ukuba ungubani kwaye ufuna ntoni.
Uyawazi amandla akho kunye nobuthathaka bakho. Ngethuba nje ungenayo wabethelela inyama yakho kwaye ungabomeleza ubuthathaka bakho, uya kuba nako ukukuhenda kwaye uya kunikezela kwizilingo zakhe.
Uyazi ukuba ekugqibeleni uya kunikezela kwizilingo zakhe. Into ekufuneka ayenze kukuqhubeka enkqonkqoza, Ndithatha, nokungqiba.
Ngoko ke, akayi kuyeka. Kuba uyazi, ukuba ekugqibeleni unikezele kwaye unikezele.
Amandla okutshabalalisa umfazi ongaqhelekanga
Xa ushiya amagama eBhayibhileni kwaye unikezele kumfazi ongaqhelekanga, uyakuthatha akubophelele kuye. Buya kunifumana, bunihluthe;. Uya kukugcina emandleni akhe nakwiziqhamo zakhe; isiqhamo sokufa (isono), iya kubonakala enyameni yakho (ebomini bakho).
Umfazi wasemzini uya kukunika into oyifunayo;, kodwa woyithabatha kuwe into ayifunayo; Uya kwenjenjalo lawula ingqondo yakho nomzimba kwaye anindulula.
Umfazi wasemzini uya kulawula kwaye alawule ubomi bakho bonke kwaye uya kumphulaphula umthobele. Uya kukukhokela akugcine ebukumkanini bakhe bokufa ude uphefumle umoya wakho wokugqibela emhlabeni kwaye uwavale amehlo akho kwaye uya kuba nawe ngonaphakade..
‘Yibani yityuwa yehlabathi’
