Bạn làm nghề gì, when you’re a Christian and believe in Jesus Christ, but your spouse doesn’t believe in God and refuses to accept Jesus as Savior and Lord? Bạn làm nghề gì, when you live with an unbelieving spouse and your spouse doesn’t want to go to church with you, đọc Kinh thánh, và cầu nguyện? Do you feel lonely in your marriage, because your spouse doesn’t believe the same way you do and disagree with how you want to raise your children? Maybe you’ve tried all kinds of things to convert your unbelieving spouse, like applying prayer methods for an unbelieving husband or proclamations, but it didn’t work and now you wonder what to do. Tốt, then this article is for you! Find out what the Bible says about living with an unbelieving husband and how to convert your unbelieving spouse to Christianity.
Do you feel lonely in your marriage?
Khi bạn và người phối ngẫu của bạn không có cùng đức tin và không cùng đẳng cấp, bạn có thể trở nên rất cô đơn trong cuộc hôn nhân của mình. Có nhiều phụ nữ Công giáo, người đã kết hôn với một người không có đức tin.
Một số nữ tín đồ Đấng Christ cố tình kết hôn với một người không tin đạo, bất chấp lời cảnh báo của Lời Chúa. Họ nghĩ rằng họ có thể giành được người phối ngẫu của mình cho Chúa Giêsu, không có thời gian, nhưng điều đó đã không xảy ra. Có những phụ nữ Cơ Đốc khác, những người được cải đạo trong cuộc hôn nhân của họ. Và có những người phụ nữ, người đã kết hôn với một tín đồ, nhưng trong cuộc hôn nhân của họ, chồng họ đã bỏ đức tin.
Nhưng bạn làm gì, trong những hoàn cảnh này? Bạn có kiên nhẫn và chung thủy với người phối ngẫu không cùng đức tin của mình không?? Hay bạn chán ngán với mọi chuyện và bước ra khỏi giao ước hôn nhân và ly hôn.?
Có chiến lược cầu nguyện hiệu quả nào để cải đạo người phối ngẫu không tin Chúa của bạn không??
There are many sermons and Christian books about chiến lược cầu nguyện in combination with ăn chay for the conversion of people. Many Christians apply these prayer strategies and methods to convert their spouses. But when their spouse is not converted after a few months or years, they become frustrated and give up. Or even worse, they give up on their marriage and break their marriage covenant.
When Christians give up on their marriage and break their marriage covenant by getting a divorce, they act out of the flesh; out of selfishness. They don’t act out of the spirit in obedience to the Word of God. Because divorce is not the will of God and it will never become His will. (Đọc thêm: ‘Kinh thánh nói gì về ly hôn?‘).
If you feel hopeless and embittered about the fact that your unbelieving husband is still not converted, despite your many prayers, I would like to encourage you and say, that there is one way to lead your unbelieving spouse to Jesus Christ according to the Bible.
Làm thế nào để cải đạo người phối ngẫu không tin tưởng của bạn?
There is one way to convert your unbelieving spouse and that’s through you! Đúng, bạn đọc nó rất hay, through you! Let’s have a look at what the Bible says about an unbelieving husband and how to convert an unbelieving spouse:
Tương tự như vậy, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; cái đó, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; Nhưng hãy để đó là người đàn ông ẩn giấu trong trái tim, trong cái không thể hư hỏng, ngay cả vật trang trí của một tinh thần nhu mì và trầm lặng, đó là điều có giá trị lớn lao trước mắt Chúa (1 Peter 3:1-4)
It’s important that you acknowledge your husband as the head of your family, as Christ is the Người đứng đầu Giáo hội. Through your subjection to your spouse and by respecting him, through your behavior your spouse will be won for Jesus Christ. That’s what the Bible; the Word of God says.
“How can you submit yourself to God,
if you can’t submit yourself to your husband?”
The Lord has appointed the man, as the head of the family. But because the spirit of feminism (spirit of darkness), rules in the lives of many women, women become rebellious against their spouses. They want to be head of the family and refuse to submit to their spouse.
Submission doesn’t mean being treated like a slave and being controlled and abused (physically and mentally) by your spouse. But submission means, that you recognize your spouse as your husband, as the head of the family, and that you respect your husband.
Don’t judge your husband. Don’t put him down, by making fun of him or by making sarcastic remarks about your husband, especially in front of your children and others. But honor your husband.
Acknowledge your husband’s task to care for and provide for his family. While your task is to nurture the members of your family. (Đọc thêm: The marriage covenant).
She talks piously, but what about her walk?
Will you convert your unbelieving spouse, by your words? By your daily preachings, sự sửa chữa, và sự trừng phạt? Câu trả lời là không. This will only drive your husband further away from the faith.
The only way to convert your unbelieving spouse is by your behavior; through your pure manner of life which is accompanied by a reverential fear.
Here we have the main problem because many Christian women don’t bear this fruit. Their spouses don’t see their pure manner of life.
They don’t see a changed woman, người đi theo Thánh Thần. Thay vì, they see a rebellious woman, who doesn’t respect her husband and doesn’t want to listen and submit to her husband.
They see a person, who wants to lead her own life, doing her own will and enforcing her will on her husband and children.
They see someone, who is haughty, maybe gossip, speak evil about others, phàn nàn, MULMUR, vân vân.
The unbelieving spouse sees an unchanged woman, who lives like the world, doing the same works and bearing the same fruit (ngoại tình, sự gian dâm, ô uế, sự dâm đãng, sự thờ hình tượng, phép thuật phù thủy, nổi loạn, sự thù ghét, phương sai, thi đua, cơn thịnh nộ, xung đột, sự nổi loạn, dị giáo, sự ghen tị, vụ giết người, say rượu, sự mặc khải, và như thế).
Vì thế, the unbelieving husband is not drawn to become a Christian and serve Jesus. The husband doesn’t see any benefit in becoming a Christian and the necessity of repentance. Because he doesn’t see a difference in the lifestyle of a Christian and an unbeliever.
The only thing the husband sees that differs from his lifestyle, is that his believing spouse reads the Bible and goes to church on Sundays. But that’s it. (Đọc thêm: If Christians live like the world what should the world repent of?).
miễn là, as you won’t change,
your spouse will not change either
When you do what the Word tells you to do and you submit yourself to the Word and begin to respect your husband, instead of controlling your husband and confronting your husband all the time with his errors, shortcomings, and flaws, then the situation shall change.
There shall be a change because you have changed.
When you do what the Bible says and bear the fruit of the Spirit, đó là yêu, vui sướng, hòa bình, Longsuffering, sự dịu dàng, Tốt đẹp, sự tin tưởng, sự nhu mì, Và ôn hòa, your husband shall notice the change in you. Lối này, you shall win your husband for Christ.
You shall not convert your unbelieving spouse by your words, but by your deeds
Kinh thánh nói, that you shall not win your unbelieving husband by your many words, but by your deeds.
When your unbelieving husband notices your meek and quiet spirit and sees the fruit of the Spirit, thì sẽ không lâu đâu, before your unbelieving husband gives his life to Jesus Christ.
How long does it take? Không ai biết, but it shall happen because the Bible says so. And we know that the Bible; các Word of God is the truth. Therefore if you want to convert your unbelieving spouse, hãy kiên nhẫn, phục tùng Lời Chúa, và làm những gì Kinh thánh bảo bạn làm, because God’s Word doesn’t lie.
‘Hãy là muối của trái đất’
