Kune vanhu vakawanda, kusanganisira vaKristu, vanoona zvinonyadzisira paterevhizheni kana padandemutande kana kutenga mabhuku ezvinonyadzisira uye kunakidzwa nezvavanoona. Vanodyisa pfungwa dzavo nemifananidzo inonyandura iyi inonyandura mirangariro yevatano uye inoita fungidziro dzevatano mundangariro dzavo. Asi chii chinoitika munzvimbo yemweya, kana mumwe munhu achiona zvinonyadzisira uye achidyisa pfungwa dzake nemifananidzo iyi yepabonde? Ndeipi mhedzisiro yemweya yekuona zvinonyadzisira muhupenyu hweumwe munhu uye chii chinokonzeresa kuona zvinonyadzisira pawanano? Ko zvinonyadzisira zvinokanganisa nzanga yedu? Bhaibheri rinotii nezvezvinonyadzisira? Mukristu anogona kuona zvinonyadzisira here kana kuona zvinonyadzisira chitadzo? Ndeipi ngozi yezvinonyadzisira iyo vanhu vakawanda vasingazive?
Chii chinoitika munzvimbo yemweya kana munhu achiona zvinonyadzisira?
Chii chinoitika munzvimbo yemweya paunotarisa zvinonyadzisira? Kana ukatarisa zvinonyadzisira, mweya wehuroyi nemweya weruchiva uchapinda muhupenyu hwako. Mweya wehuroyi, nekuti unoramba uchiona zvinonyadzisira wobva wapindwa muropa nezvinonyadzisira.
Mhedzisiro yekutanga yemweya weruchiva inozozviratidza mukati kuita bonhora. Iwe uchafadzwa pabonde nezvaunoona uye kuti ugutse manzwiro ako epabonde iwe bonyora. Ukaita bonyora ukawana orgasm unenge wateerera zvinodiwa nemweya weruchiva uyu, ndiani akapinda muhupenyu hwako. Uyu mweya weruchiva uchakutonga uye kutonga hupenyu hwako.
Kana mweya wetsvina weruchiva uchitonga hupenyu hwako, hauchakwanisi kurarama usina zvinonyadzisira zvakare. Iwe uchaona zvinonyadzisira kakawanda kana kuona mamwe maitiro akanyanyisa ezvinonyadzisira uye wobva wapindwa muropa nezvinonyadzisira. Nokuti mweya weruchiva uyu unofanira kugutswa.
Zvichida iwe unotoshanyira mawebhusaiti ezvinonyadzisira, kwaunogona kutora chikamu pamhepo kuburikidza newebhucam uye kuita zvepabonde zvepa cyber.
Iwe uchapindwa muropa nebonde uye zvinonyadzisira. Kunyanya iwe unopa mazviri, kunyanya kuda zvepabonde, uye kudiwa kwepabonde iwe uchava.
Ndeipi ngozi yemweya yezvinonyadzisira muwanano?
Kana waroora woona zvinonyadzisira, unoda kuita bonde kakawanda, uye hupenyu hwako hwepabonde huchawedzera. Pamwe murume/mukadzi wako haachakwanisi kukuitira zvaunoda pabonde kana kuti unofinhwa nemumwe wako moita upombwe. (ufeve).
Kana uchidzorwa nemweya weruchiva, uchava muranda woruchiva, uye hauchazovi nesimba pamusoro pokuda kwako. Izvi zvichapedzisira zvaparadza imba yako.
Sei izvi zvichaparadza imba yenyu? Nekuti unenge usisagutsikane nemudiwa mumwe chete asi unenge uchitoda vadikani vakawanda kuti uzadzise zvido zvako zvepabonde. Pamwe uchatoedza mumwe munhu kubva kumurume wako. Uchaita hupombwe kana kushanyira pfambi kana kuenda kumapati ezvepabonde kana zvimwe zviitiko zvekusangana pabonde, kana…
Aya masimba akaipa erima achatonga pamusoro pako uye uchave muranda wepabonde. Chete nekuti waida kuziva uye waiona zvinonyadzisira muchivande.
Ndeipi maonero enyika pane zvinonyadzisira?
Vanhu vazhinji, vanogara vasina Jesu Kristu, funga zvinonyadzisira. Vanofunga kuti zvakanaka kuona zvinonyadzisira. Izvo zvaimborambidzwa mumazuva ekare zvave zvakajairika munyika yanhasi. Vanhu havachanyari asi kutaura nekunyora pachena nezvezvinonyadzisira.
Vanhu vazhinji, vakaroora, funga zvinonyadzisira sewedzero kuupenyu hwavo hwepabonde. Vanhu vakawanda vasina kuroora kana kuroorwa vanoona zvinonyadzisira, pamwe chete kuita bonhora, senzira yekuzadzisa zvido zvavo zvepabonde. Zvose zvave zvakajairika. Asi pavanongoona porn, mirangariro yavo pamusoro pevatano nevatano inova yakashatiswa.
Chii chinoguma munharaunda yedu, kuti vanhu vakawanda vanotanga kuona zvinonyadzisira?
Basa rebonde muvanhu
Chaunodyara ndicho chaunokohwa uye ndizvo chaizvo zviri kuitika munharaunda yanhasi. Tinoona kuwedzera kwekusachena kwepabonde. Paunobatidza terevhizheni, inenge purogiramu yese, broadcast, (upenyu chaihwo) sipo, bhaisikopo, kana zvekutengesa zvine chekuita nebonde.
Iwe haugone kutarisa chirongwa chisina zvebonde uye pasina kutaura kwepabonde uye majee. Nyika inonakidzwa nemashoko aya nemajee uye inoudzawo vamwe.
Bonde rine basa guru, nekuti bonde rinokwezva, anotengesa, saka bonde rine mari.
Sosaiti yedu yese ine chekuita nebonde. Izvi hatizvioni paterevhizheni chete, asi tinozviona zvakatipoteredza muupenyu hwedu hwemazuva ose: mune ads, zvikwangwani, mu (e-)magazini, mabhuku, theatre, mafirimu, music, zvipfeko, hurukuro, kubasa, chikoro, etc.
Vana kuchikoro havaore moyo uye havarambidzwe kuita bonde. Havana kudzidziswa kumirira kusvika varoora. Asi vanodzidziswa kushandisa kondomu pavanosangana pabonde. Vadzidzisi vanovakurudzira kuita zvepabonde, nekuvaudza kuti hazvina kunaka kuita bonde chero ukashandisa kondomu. Maererano nenyika, kondomu rinoita kuti muite bonde zvakanaka. Kupenga kwakadii ikoko?
Ngozi yezvinonyadzisira uye kukanganisa kwezvinonyadzisira munharaunda
Vanhu vanofunga kuti kuona zvinonyadzisira hakukuvadzi, asi icho hachisi chokwadi. Chinhu chiripo, kuti vanhu vakawanda vanorarama vasina Mwari uye vane pfungwa dzenyama uye vanorarama maererano nenyama munzvimbo inooneka, pachinzvimbo chekuva nepfungwa dzemweya uye kurarama maererano neMweya munzvimbo yemweya. Havana nzwisiso yezvemweya.
Vanoona nhamo yese ye (zvepabonde) kushungurudzwa, (zvepabonde) mhirizhonga, denda, zvirwere, etc., nokuwedzera kwetsvina yakavapoteredza, asi havaoni chikonzero.
Kuwedzera kwemhirizhonga yepabonde
Munyika yose, tinoona kuwedzera kwekushungurudzwa kwepabonde uye mhirizhonga yepabonde. Tinoona kuwedzera kwekutengesa pabonde, chipfambi chevana, kushungurudzwa kwevana pabonde, pedophilia, uye kurara nemhuka.
Asi tinoona zvakare kuwedzera kwehutsvina hwepabonde nekutsveyamisa senge bonyora, kugara pamwe chete vasina kuroora kana kuroorwa, kuita zvepabonde musati maroorana, husiku humwe chete, kuita upombwe, ufeve, kuita hukama hwepabonde hwakawanda kunyangwe kunze kwewanano, partner swap, bonde reboka, kushanyira pfambi, ungochani, transgender, etc.
Zvivi zvose izvi zvinoitika nokuti vanhu vakarasa Mwari uye vakaramba Shoko rake.
Vanhu vazhinji, usafamba uchitevera Shoko neMweya, asi ndevenyama uye vanotungamirirwa nenyama yavo uye nemweya wenyika ino. Panyaya iyi, vanotungamirirwa nemweya we (zvepabonde) ruchiva. Uye zvichangowedzera uye kuwedzera.
Kushanya kwepabonde
Vanhu vakawanda vari kurwisana nekutengesa pabonde nechipfambi chevana uye vanosemburwa nekushungurudzwa kwevana nechisimba pabonde. Asi panguva ino, kumba, vanoona zvinonyadzisira zvevechidiki, vechidiki, uye zvichida kunyange vana uye vanonakidzwa nezvavari kuona.
Uye zvakadini nekushanyirwa kwepabonde? Vangani vanhu vanobhuya zororo kunyika dzakaita seThailand kana Philippines, nokuda kwoufeve hwavo uye nokuva nazvo (kutsveyamiswa) sex? Vangani vanhu vanoshanyira nyika idzi kuti vaite bonde nevasikana vadiki uye/kana vakomana vadiki?
Kubiwa kwevanhu
Kune mapimps akawanda, vanobata vasikana nevakomana vasina mhosva mumambure avo etsvina. Vanopinza vasikana nevakomana ava muuranda muupenyu hwechipfambi. Vanova varanda vepabonde uye vanova vanyajambwa vezvinonyadzisira zvevana kana kuti vanotengeswa vopiwa kuvanhu, vanenge vabatwa nemweya weruchiva vovarega vachishungurudza nekubhinya vana vasina mhosva ava.
Aya mapundu aripo nekuti anowana mari yakawanda yekuzadzisa zvinodiwa nevanhu, vakabatwa nemweya weruchiva. Ava vasikana nevakomana varombo vanova vanyajambwa venzanga yedu yenyika yakatsveyama, iyo yakazarura mikova yayo yezvinonyadzisira.
Vanhu vanopomera mapimps aya, pane kutarisa chikonzero: nzanga nezvido zvayo zvepabonde. Kana kudiwa kwevanhu kwaizomira saka mapimp aya aizosara asina basa uye aisazokuvadza vana vasina mhosva zvakare..
Mweya weruchiva muChurch
Asi kwete vanhu chete, vanorarama vasina Mwari, ona zvinonyadzisira, uye murarame mutsvina. Kune akawanda enyama 'maKristu', vanozviti vanoziva Jesu Kristu uye vanomushumira, nepo vari pachivande vanoona zvinonyadzisira uye vanobatanidzwa mukusachena kwevatano, uye vanodzorwa nemweya weruchiva uyu.
Ehe, mweya weruchiva uyu wapinda mumakereke mazhinji. Kune nhengo zhinji dzekereke, madhikoni, kumwewo, vafundisi, vavhangeri, vaprofita, navapostori, vanotungamirirwa nemweya weruchiva uye kuona zvinonyadzisira muchivande kana zvimwe zvirongwa zvinonyadzisira, series, mafirimu, etc.
Havatungamirirwi neMweya waMwari, asi nomweya wenyika ino, izvo zviri munyaya iyi, mweya weruchiva. Iyi mweya inonyengera inodzora mahara panguva yeshumiro, conferences, seminars, etc.
Kune madhikoni akawanda, kumwewo, vafundisi, vaprofita, vavhangeri, etc., vanotarisa zvinonyadzisira uye/kana bonyora kana kuita upombwe pachivande, panguva yebasa vanoisa maoko pamusoro pevatendi (i.e. panguva yekudaidza kuatari), uye nokuda kwokuiswa maoko pamusoro, vanotamisa mweya uyu weruchiva pavatendi.
Asi kutamiswa kwemweya weruchiva hakungoitike chete nekuturika maoko, asiwo nokutaura.
Kana mufundisi, muprofita, mupostori, etc. anoparidza muchechi asi ane mweya weruchiva uye anogara mukusachena kwepabonde, ipapo mweya wetsvina uyu weruchiva uchaendeswa kuungano yose.
Ungano yese ichabatwa nemweya weruchiva uyu. Izvi zvicharatidzwa nekuwedzera kwe (zvakavanzika) tsvina yepabonde mukereke, sepfungwa dzepabonde, kuita bonhora, kugara pamwe chete vasina kuroora kana kuroorwa, hukama hwepabonde pasina kuroorana, upombwe, ufeve, kubiridzira, ungochani, pedophilia, etc.
Mweya yetsvina inopinzwa pachena mukereke
Makereke mazhinji ndeenyama uye anoparidza uye rarama maererano nenyama, panzvimbo ye Mweya. Nokuda kwaizvozvo, mweya yetsvina iyi haionekwe uye inopinzwa pachena kukereke nehupenyu hwemaKristu.
Just look at the vakawanda vatungamiri vemakereke, vanobatwa nemweya weruchiva voita hupombwe kana kushinha nevana. Vanodzorwa nekutungamirirwa nemanzwiro avo eruchiva uye vanovateerera.
Machechi mangani anoputsika uye anoparadzwa nezvinonyadzisa zvepabonde? Nokuti mushumiri wenyama aitungamirirwa nemweya weruchiva uye aisakwanisa kudzora manzwiro ake ezvepabonde uye aifanira kugutsa zvido zvake zvepabonde.. Kuzadzikisa chishuvo chavo chevatano kunokosha zvikuru kwavari kupfuura kuva Shoko raMwari (Verenga zvakare: ‘Unogona kukunda muedzo here?‘)
Dhiyabhorosi akavaka chigaro chake cheushe mumakereke mazhinji
Dhiyabhorosi akavaka chigaro chake cheushe mumakereke mazhinji, apo vatendi vakanga vari, uye zvichiri, akarara. Havazivi zviri kuitika. Mumakore ose, miganhu yakawanda yachinja. Zvishoma nezvishoma kereke yakadiridza vhangeri uye nedimikira uye nekutaura chaiko mvura muwaini.
Machechi akawanda aita senyika uye anoita zvepabonde pasina kuroorana, garai pamwe chete musina kuroora kana kuroorwa, bonyora, kurambana, kubvisa pamuviri, kuita upombwe, bvuma ungochani, transgender, etc (Verenga zvakare: ‘Kereke yakagara murima‘ uye ‘Chigaro chasatani‘)
Vachaita zvavanoda kuita uye kugamuchira zvinhu zvose zvenyika uye kushandisa mazwi Nyasha uye rudo kuti zvigadzirike.
The Shoko (Jesu) rakarambwa mumachechi akawanda. Nyika (dhiyabhorosi) inotonga muhupenyu hwevanhu vakawanda, vanozviti vaKristu. Vakristu vazhinji vanofunga kuti vanorarama zvinoenderana kuda kwaMwari. Asi pane kudaro, vanorarama munhema uye vari munzira kuenda kugehena.
Nokuti Shoko, Jesu, anodaro:
Naizvozvo urayai mitezo yenyu iri panyika; ufeve, kusachena, rudo rwakapfurikidza, kuchiva kwakaipa, uye ruchiva, ndiko kunamata zvifananidzo: Nokuda kwezvinhu izvo ‘hasha dzaMwari dzinouya pavana vokusateerera: imwiwo maimbofamba mazviri, pamaigara mazviri (VaKorose 3:5-7)
Shoko rinoti, kuti unofanira kuuraya mitezo iri panyika, soufeve, kusachena, etc. Panzvimbo pokuvapa zvokudya, nokupa mukunzwa uku kweruchiva nechishuvo nokufanana nenyika, unofanira kuvadzivisa.
“Rega ufeve, tsvina yose kana kuchiva ngazvirege kurehwa pakati penyu”
Shoko rinototi, kuti zvinhu izvi, haifaniri kurehwa kana kurehwa pakati pavatendi:
Asi ufeve, netsvina yose, kana kuchiva, ngazvirege kutongorehwa pakati penyu, sezvazvakafanira vatsvene; Kana tsvina, kana kutaura zvoupenzi, kana majee, izvo zvisina kunaka: asi zviri nani kuvonga. Ndizvo zvamunoziva nazvo, kuti pasava nemhombwe, kana munhu asina kuchena, kana munhu ane ruchiva, uyo ari munamati wezvifananidzo, tine nhaka muushe hwaKristu nehwaMwari (vaEfeso 5:3-5)
Hey, nyasha nerudo zvakaendepi? (Verenga zvakare: ‘Chii chinonzi rudo rwenhema?‘ uye ‘‘Rasika mugungwa renyasha‘, ‘Unogona here kuramba uchitadza pasi penyasha?‘)
Vakristu vazhinjifunga ivo ziva Mwari, asi havazivi kuda kwaMwari. Nekuti ukatarisa hupenyu hwavo nekufamba kwavo havararami uye kufamba zvinoenderana nekuda kwaMwari. Kuda kwaMwari chii?
Nokuti ndiko kuda kwaMwari, kunyange utsvene hwako, kuti murege upombwe: kuti mumwe nomumwe wenyu azive kudzora muviri wake noutsvene nokukudzwa; Kwete mukuchiva kweshungu, savahedheni vasingazivi Mwari: Kuti parege kuva nomunhu anodarika achinyengera hama yake pachinhu chipi nechipi: nokuti Jehovha ndiye mutsivi wezvose zvakadai, sezvatakagara takuudzai uye tikakupupurirai. Nekuti Mwari haana kutidanira kutsvina, asi kuutsvene. Naizvozvo unozvidza, haazvidzi munhu, asi Mwari, akatipawo Mweya wake Mutsvene(1 VaTesaronika 4:3-8)
Tendeuka kuna Jesu Kristu utendeuke pamabasa ako
Nzira chete yekumisa kuwedzera kwehutsvina ndeyekutendeukira kuna Jesu Kristu. Kumbira ruregerero kuna Mwari uyetendeukai zvemabasa ako. Cheneswa zvose zvakaipa zvenyu nezvivi zvenyu, neropa rinokosha raJesu. Iva kuzvarwa patsva uye famba saiye chisikwa chitsva mushure meMweya.
Kana wazvarwa patsva uye vandudza pfungwa dzako neShoko raMwari, ipapo unofanira funga, act, uyefamba mushure meShoko (Jesu), uye urarame maererano noMweya.
Iwe uchazviisa pasi, uye wova anoteerera kuShoko rose raMwari. Uchararama maererano nokuda Kwake, pachinzvimbo chekuda kwenyu.
Chete paunoramba uchifamba uchitevera Mweya, muchasunungurwa kubva pauranda hwadhiabhori.
Ndinotaura izvi zvino, Famba noMweya, uye hamungaiti kuchiva kwenyama. Nekuti nyama inochiva zvinopesana neMweya, noMweya uchipikisana nenyama: uye izvi zvinopesana chimwe nechimwe: kuitira kuti murege kuita zvamunoda (vaGaratia 5:16-17)
Paunofamba uchitevera Mweya, Mweya uchatonga muhupenyu hwako, panzvimbo yenyama yenyu. uzvichengete, utize (zvepabonde) tsvina neupombwe.
Asi paunongotanga kufamba uchitevera nyama, uye kupinda mukuona zvinonyadzisira uye kusachena kwepabonde, muchasungwa nemasimba erima. Aya masimba akaipa achatonga hupenyu hwako uye achakonzera kuparadzwa uye kutongwa kusingaperi.
Kana Mweya wakutonga muhupenyu hwako uye iwe unoramba uchifamba uchitevera Mweya, muchagara mukusununguka kwechokwadi.
“Iva munyu wenyika”
