Buah yang sabar, is a fruit, that is needed in our world Today. Berapa kali, do people loose their patience and become angry, when someone insults them? Berapa kali, do people feel offended, kecewa, and want to take revenge, because someone has mistreated them? Berapa kali, do people complain and murmur because of the situation they are experiencing. Banyak kali, people loose their patience and let their feelings and emotions rule over them. What does the Bible say about the fruit longsuffering?
What causes you to loose your patience?
When you loose your patience, it is because something happened Terhadap anda akan Atau jangkaan. Some causes can be: someone is having another opinion, a miscommunication, not listening, wrong interpretation, misbehaviour, ketidakpatuhan (when someone doesn’t want to listen to your instruction), failure, irritation etc.
It can occur between a husband and wife, parent and child, teacher and student, managers and employees, rakan, kenalan, jiran, orang beriman, kanak -kanak, anda namakannya. Anda mungkin berkata, that loosing your patience and becoming upsad and angry, originates from selfishness.
How many people are having quarrels with someone? These quarrels started with a disagreement, or they felt offended and/or insulted.
But loosing your patience and angriness is a fruit of the flesh and not of the Spirit. It is the total opposite of longsuffering.
Who’s pushing your buttons?
Often times people say: “that person knows exactly how to push my buttons”. Tetapi hakikatnya, that you have no buttons! Therefore if you have no buttons, no one can pushes them. When you say this, or when you feel offended, and live in unforgiveness, it only shows, itu daging awak belum mati lagi. You are still carnal and are still being ruled by your flesh, sebaliknya that your spirit rules over your flesh.
Anda adalah satu, who is able to reign over your flesh. Your spirit can rule over your emotions and your feelings. Terpulang kepada anda, who will be the greater authority in your life: your spirit or your flesh.
Semasa anda berjalan selepas semangat, then nothing can take you off guard. You will not be moved by anything, but will live in absolute peace.
The Lord is longsuffering
Look at God and look at Jesus, they are the perfect example of longsuffering. Longsuffering was and is one of Their characteristics. Ya, our Father is longsuffering:
- The LORD is longsuffering, and of great mercy, forgiving iniquity and transgression, and by no means clearing the guilty, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation (Bil 14:18)
- Tetapi awak, Wahai Tuhan, art a God full of compassion, and gracious, Panjang sabar, and plenteous in mercy and truth (Mazmur 86:15)
- Atau engkau menghina kekayaan kebaikan dan kesabaran dan kesabaran-Nya; tidak mengetahui bahawa kebaikan Tuhan membawa kamu kepada pertobatan? (ROM 2:4)
- Yang kadang-kadang ingkar, Apabila sekali taat tuhan menunggu pada zaman Nuh, Semasa Tabut sedang bersiap, di mana sedikit, itu, lapan jiwa telah diselamatkan oleh air. (1 Pe 3:20)
- The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, kerana sesetengah lelaki mengira kemalasan; tetapi berpanjangan kepada kita-wad, tidak mahu ada yang binasa, tetapi semua harus bertaubat (2 Pe 3:9)
We have been made into His image. His Holy Spirit lives in us, therefore if we walk after the Spirit we shall also bear fruit longsuffering.
What does longsuffering mean?
Longsuffering is translated from the Greek word makrothumia (G3115) dan cara: longanimity, itu, (objectively) forbearance or (subjectively) ketabahan: – Panjang sabar, kesabaran.
Menurut kamus, longsuffering means:
- Suffering for a long time without complaining : very patient during difficult times , patiently enduring lasting offense or hardship (Merriam Webster)
- Patiently enduring wrongs or difficulties. (The American Heritage Dictionary)
- Enduring pain, unhappiness, etc without complaint, long and patient endurance (Collins English dictionary)
There may be things happening in your life right now, which gives you a good reason to murmur and complain, or to be up sad, mad, angry etc. Maybe you’ve been mistreated or insulted by someone else, or maybe you’ve become seriously ill, or you’ve become disabled due to an accident, which wasn’t your fault.
But if you walk after the Spirit and bear the fruit of the Spirit, you will bear the fruit longsuffering. When you bear the fruit longsuffering, you won’t murmur and complain, you won’t feel up sad, mad angry. When you are longsuffering then nothing will affect you, but you will stay in perfect peace. Wen you bear the fruit longsuffering, than no one and nothing can make you mad or angry; no one can pushes your buttons. Because you have no buttons anymore; your flesh died.
The fruit longsuffering visible in the lives of the saints
Paul wrote often about the fruit longsuffering. He wrote about his walk as a servant of the Lord and how the saints should behave and walk:
- But in all things approving ourselves as the ministers of God, in much patience, in afflictions, in necessities, in distresses, In stripes, in imprisonments, in tumults, in labours, in watchings, in fastings; By pureness, by knowledge, by longsuffering, by kindness, by the Holy Ghost, by love unfeigned, By the word of truth, oleh kuasa Tuhan, by the armour of righteousness on the right hand and on the left, By honour and dishonour, by evil report and good report: as deceivers, and yet true; As unknown, and yet well known; as dying, dan, lihatlah, we live; as chastened, and not killed; As sorrowful, yet alway rejoicing; as poor, yet making many rich; as having nothing, and yet possessing all things (2 Co 6:4-10)
- Tetapi buah Roh ialah kasih, kegembiraan, keamanan, Panjang sabar, kelembutan, kebaikan, iman, Kelemahlembutan, suhu: terhadap itu tidak ada undang-undang (Gal 5:22-23)
- I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called, with all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love; Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace (Ef 4:1-3)
- Diperkuat dengan semua mungkin, Menurut kekuatannya yang mulia, kepada semua kesabaran dan kesungguhan dengan penuh kegembiraan (Col 1:11)
- Oleh itu, memakai, sebagai umat pilihan Tuhan, Suci dan dikasihi, Perut belas kasihan, Kebaikan, Kerendahan hati fikiran, Kelemahlembutan, Panjang sabar; forbearing one another, dan memaafkan satu sama lain, Sekiranya ada orang yang bertengkar terhadap mana -mana: Walaupun Kristus memaafkan anda, Begitu juga ye (Col 3:12-13)
- Howbeit for this cause I obtained mercy, that in me first Jesus Christ might shew forth all longsuffering, for a pattern to them which should hereafter believe on him to life everlasting (1 Tim 1:16)
- Memberitakan perkataan; Segera dalam Musim, keluar musim; REPLOVE, menegur, Menegaskan dengan semua panjang dan doktrin (2 Tim 4:2)
What or who is your source in life?
When Jesus Christ is your Source, and when you live after the Spirit, you shall bear the fruit longsuffering. You shall have patience and will walk in the spiritual authority of Jesus Christ. You will have power and will rule over every carnal emotion and feeling, like self-pity, kemarahan, kebencian, impatience etc.
But when your source is the flesh (syaitan, dunia) and you feed yourself with the things of the world, then you shall bear the fruit of angriness, kebencian, impatience etc. When the slightest thing happen in your life, irritation will arise, and shall lead to impatience, and outbreaks of anger, benci, aggressiveness etc.
It is therefore important, to draw from the right Source. Itu, stay in Gods Word and develop your identity from the Word of God, instead of movies, television-series, majalah, Buku, social media etc.
Put on the man
Remember that before you dilahirkan semula, you lived like the world. You lived according to the lusts and desires of your flesh.
Kerana kita sendiri juga kadang-kadang bodoh, tidak taat, tertipu, melayani nafsu dan keseronokan penyelam, hidup dalam hasad dan dengki, kebencian, dan saling membenci (Tit 3:3)
Itu, menangguhkan orang tua itu and its deeds and kenakan lelaki baru, who is renewed in knowledge after the image of Him, that created him. Put on Jesus Christ.
When you stay in His word, dan berjalan selepas semangat, you will not fulfil the lusts of your flesh. You will not bear the fruit of the flesh, but you will produce the fruit of the Spirit.
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