What does the love of many shall wax cold mean?

In Matthew 24:12-13, Jesus said, that before His return in the last days the love of many shall wax cold. What does the love of many shall wax cold mean? How is it possible that the love of many shall wax cold? What is the cause? The main cause that the love of many shall wax cold is because iniquity shall abound. This is exactly, what we see in our world today, an increase in iniquity.

What is iniquity?

And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold. But he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved (Matthew 24:12,13)

Iniquity is translated from the Greek word ‘anomia‘ (G458 (and comes from G459)) and means: legality, that is, violation of law or (generally) wickedness: – iniquity, X transgress (-ion of) the law, unrighteousness

If we don’t keep the law, if we don’t obey Jesus His commandments, but instead do what we want and walk in disobedience to God and His Word then our love shall wax cold.

If you love Me keep My commandments

We see that the words of Jesus, about the fact that the love shall wax cold, are being fulfilled in these days.

When we look at the world, we see a change in moral behavior and that there is hardly any tolerance and respect towards others.

Most people are selfish and live for themselves. They are living their own lives and everything they do, they do for themselves. We see that the care for others is decreasing.

In many families, we see rebellious children, who don’t have any respect for their parents but stand up against their parents and rebel against them.

We see that parents are focused on themselves and focused on their careers and happiness, instead of really being there for their children and raising their children in the fear of the Lord.

We see family members, who don’t look after each other, etc. Of course, there are exceptions,  but in most families, we see that the love has waxed cold. As soon as someone does something, which goes against the will of the other person, the person gets upset and angry.

People do what they want, instead of giving up their own will, their lusts, their desires, and their needs for someone else. 

Everyone is busy with their own stuff. There are not many people, who serve others. Some might think that they serve others, but when you look closer, you will find out that they serve others, for their own gain and to feel good about themselves. But who is willing to give up his or her own life, to serve Jesus and serve others?

How can iniquity enter the life of a born again Christian?

How can iniquity enter the life of a born again believer? Iniquity can enter the life of a believer, through:

  • False doctrines, that for example teach false grace and that it is ok to sin, that you can do whatever you want because you are not under the law anymore (Romans 6:15).
  • Spirit of worldliness
  • A life philosophy, which stands for absolute individual freedom (free-spirit)

The process of sanctification

In today’s world, there is a lack of desire among Christians to become transformed into the image of Christ and to walk in holiness and righteousness according to the Word of God.

In many churches, sin is accepted, Sin is no longer considered evil but sin is considered normal, as part of life.

sanctification is the will of God

The terms ‘love of God’ and the ‘grace of God’ are used to make sinning approved.

Because of that, many Christians live in sin, and churches are seated in darkness instead of the light (Read also: What is grace? and ‘Can you keep sinning under grace?‘ and ‘What is false love?‘).

When we look at the Word and look at what God means with love, we can conclude that we have driven far off.

God’s definition of love is totally different than our definition of love.

When we say that certain things are alright to do and are accepted, while God says that it isn’t alright and therefore goes against His will, then the love of God is not present in our lives.

If we don’t walk according to His Word, then we walk in iniquity and sin. When we walk in iniquity and in sin, we don’t know Him and we certainly don’t walk in love at all, as so many people believe they are.

What is true love?

What is true love? True love is doing what God pleases. True love is being obedient to God and keeping His commandments, because you love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength. When you keep His commandments and do what He says, you show that you love Him through your works.

Many believers say, that God’s commandments and His law are outdated and not valid and applicable anymore. But these people, who say this are false believers and don’t belong to God and don’t know Him at all. They are wrong, because the Word says, that God is the same, yesterday, today, and forever. Therefore God’s will shall never change. That’s why we can trust in Him and that’s why God is trustworthy. God’s commandments and the moral part of the law, which originates from His nature and reveals His will, are still valid. 

John 14:23-24 If a man love Me he will keep My words

We are not saved by our works, we are saved by the precious blood of Jesus Christ. But as soon as we become sons of God, through regeneration in Christ, we shall no longer live after the flesh, but after the Spirit. This means, that we will walk in His commandments, doing His will.

Through Jesus Christ, we have become God’s sons and God has become our Father.

As sons of God, we ought to please God, instead of pleasing ourselves and people.

But why is it, that so many times, we do our best to please people and to win people for ourselves and be accepted by the people? Because we are afraid of rejection. We are afraid of losing them or that they won’t like us.

Well, it is better to lose a person, than to lose God and His favor. It’s better to be denied by friends, family members, colleagues, acquaintances, etc. than to be denied by Jesus Christ.

We should love our God, with all our heart, mind, soul, and strength, above everything and everyone else. It is the first commandment, which God and Jesus gave us.

Leaving God’s commandments

If we don’t obey and keep His commandments, we shall walk in iniquity and sin. When we walk after the flesh in iniquity and sin, we show that we don’t love God. You can say that you love God, but your actions speak louder than words. Your actions will prove if you really love God or not.

If you don’t love God, you can’t love your fellow-man, because the real love of God is not present in your life.

I am Alpha and Omega the beginning and the end first and last revelation 22:13-14

That’s why the love of many shall wax cold. Because many people left God and left His commandments.

They do what pleases them and walk according to their own will, lusts, and desires instead of God’s commandments.

Jesus says: He that has My commandments, and keeps them, he it is that loves Me: and he that loves Me shall be loved of My Father, and I will love him, and will manifest Myself to him (John 14:21)

If you keep My commandments, you shall abide in My love; even as I have kept my Father’s commandments, and abide in His love (John 15:10)

As long as you keep His commandments, you will stay in His love. When we look at the commandments of God and the commandments of Jesus, we see that The commandments of Jesus are exactly the same as the commandments of God, because Jesus did the will of His Father on earth. As a matter of fact, Jesus even gave us more commandments and sharpened the commandments of God. 

When we look at the life of Jesus, we see that Jesus only wanted one thing and that was to do the will of His Father. Jesus totally surrendered and submitted Himself and His will to His Father’s will.

If we want to follow Jesus, we should follow His example. We should do the same and crucify our own will and surrender and submit ourselves to Him. We should ask ourselves: what does Jesus want me to do? Do I live in His will? Do I really walk in His commandments? (Read also: ‘Following Jesus will cost you everything‘ and ‘How do you know if Christ is in you?‘)

Keeping God’s commandments

When we walk in His commandments, we will stay and walk in His love. When we stay and walk in His love, then we shall bear the fruit of love.

The fruit of the Spirit

We shall be longsuffering, we shall be kind, we shall not envy, we shall not vaunt, not be puffed up, not behave unseemlily, not seek ourselves, not be provoked, not think evil, we shall not rejoice in iniquity but rejoice in the truth.

We shall bear all things, we shall believe all things, we shall hope all things, we shall endure all things and we shall keep the commandments of Jesus.

When we don’t keep His commandments, we will not keep His (spiritual) law and therefore we shall walk in lawlessness (iniquity) and sin.

Whosoever commits sin transgresses also the law: for sin is the transgression of the law (1 John 3:4)

In the last days, the love of many shall wax cold

If we do not keep His commandments, we sin. Remember, what we sow in the flesh, we shall also reap of the flesh, and love is not a fruit of the flesh. Therefore if we remain carnal and walk after the flesh, the love of God shall not be present in our lives and the love of many shall wax cold.

Jesus commanded us to endure till the end. We should keep walking in His commandments and not depart from them, not even a little, so that the love of God shall abound in our lives until the end. A love that doesn’t compromise with sin, but separates from sin. Let us be on our guard and prevent that the love shall wax cold (Read also: The love and the grace of God don’t compromise with sin‘).

“Be the salt of the earth”

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